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Octoberwoman
The Tender Bar: A Memoir | J. R. Moehringer
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I‘m posting one book a day from my massive collection. No description, no reason for why I want to read it (some I‘ve had so long I don‘t even remember why!). Feel free to join in!

#ABookADay2024

SilversReviews This was good. 3d
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Aims42
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Happy Easter to all who celebrate today! 🐣🐰✝️💐 I wanted to post this before going to my in-laws for lunch 😊

#TopReads2024 continues with my March pick🍹🥃🚺🤘 “Girly Drinks” was a fascinating read and I learned SO much! I loved O‘Meara‘s writing style, I read several paragraphs out loud to my husband either because they were interesting or because it was funny. I will definitely check out her other books 👏👏👏

TheBookgeekFrau Happy Easter! 2w
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Aims42
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Pickpick

The 3 emojis to describe this book are: ‼️🙄🤣

‼️: Holy cow, did this REALLY happen?! Both in terms of good and bad
🙄: -Sigh- Of course this happened
🤣: O‘Meara writes in such a way that even though I‘m reading a non-fiction book, I am cracking up with her humorous commentary. Probably not a plus for some, but I LOVED it. If you read 1 book during March, which is Women‘s History Month, make it this one 💪

Aims42 Themes: Easily digestible Non-Fiction, Women kicking a$$ and taking names, Booze 4w
Aims42 @jlhammar Oooo! That‘s getting stacked 🙌 4w
peanutnine Yesss I love Mallory! She's one of the hosts of my favorite book podcast and her books are so great! 😍 4w
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Tkgbjenn1
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Mehso-so

Not what I was expecting. The subtext of the title suggests a history of alcohol and how it brought people together to help create civilization. And there are interesting tidbits of information. Like how the drive to brew intoxicating beverages had as much to do with the rise of agriculture as food. But it‘s less about history and more about the science of alcohol and its effects. Science that often reads like a school textbook.

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Suet624
The Tender Bar: A Memoir | J. R. Moehringer
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Pickpick

This book sat on my shelf for ages. I had the mistaken impression it was a man's grim journey of alcoholism. I could not have been more wrong. This memoir cover his father's abandonment, his mother's courage, his family - a cast of odd and scary characters - and Uncle Charley, a bartender at a very special bar, who takes him under his wing at a very young age and introduces him to men who care for him over the years. (continued...)

Suet624 Throughout his journey at Yale, the NY Times, a woman he can't get out of his system, we learn so much about the people who populate the bar as he continues to return as a touchstone. These folks are written about with great love. I've read the book he ghostwrote for Andre Agassi and I have thought about that one for ages. He also ghostwrote several others, including Harry's memoir, Spare. The Tender Bar will stay with me. 7mo
keithmalek I LOVE this book and have read it a couple times throughout the years. I also loved Agassi's book, and didn't know until now that it was ghost-written by Moehringer. Also, when I heard that they adapted it into a film, I was quite skeptical that it would be any good. I was wrong. You should watch it. 7mo
shortsarahrose I didn‘t know this was a book! I watched the film when it came out and thought it was quite good. 7mo
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Suet624 @keithmalek He also ghostwrote Shoe Dog for the Nike founder. It's funny when I watch the U.S. Open I always think of Agassi's book. Moehringer does such a great job of describing what a body feels like after a match. I want to see the movie but I'm trying to do so without dealing with Amazon. I don't give them any money. I'm glad you liked Tender Bar as much as I did. 7mo
Suet624 @shortsarahrose Honestly, from what I read of the comparison of the two - movie vs. book - it seems like they leave out some of the more interesting characters from the bar. If you ever have time, you might want to try the book. I'm trying to figure out how to get access to the film. :) 7mo
keithmalek @Suet624 It makes sense that he wrote Shoe Dog. Ben Affleck directed the film adaptation (which is called Air), and also played the uncle in The Tender Bar. 7mo
Leftcoastzen One of my all time favorites! Love this book! 7mo
Suet624 @keithmalek Oh, I didn't realize there was a movie from that book too.
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Suet624 @Leftcoastzen I think you commented on this book which made me grab it at a book sale. Thanks for that! 7mo
Leftcoastzen The movie is very good too, but can‘t be as deep as the book of course . 7mo
keithmalek @Suet624 I admire your adamantine position on Amazon. Do you mind if I use the word "adamantine?" 7mo
Suet624 @keithmalek I certainly don‘t mind you using that word but I had to look up the definition. 🤦🏻‍♀️🥴. And yes, it fits. I will never give them a penny. 7mo
keithmalek @Suet624 I had to look it up, too. I was trying to sound like the uncle from The Tender Bar.😅 7mo
Suet624 @keithmalek haha, that‘s hysterical. I had totally missed that. Thanks for filling me in. 7mo
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wanderinglynn
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Panpan

This book has a lot of (often repetitive & overlapping) history to fill in the time period when the cocktail was in fashion. A better read is A History of the World in 6 Glasses, which worked better to show the influence of six specific beverages on Western history and society.

The most helpful chapters are the last 2: A Thumbnail Guide to Rum & When It‘s Cocktail Time. Overall, disappointing. But at least it‘s off my shelf!

Book 4 for #20in4

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bio_chem06
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Last book finished before camping is over. I don‘t find this book super heart wrenching, but I do think it‘s so brave when people tell their stories. My husband is 10 years sober and I never stop reading these stories, it helps me understand his journey better.

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Larkken
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1. I love a good sour, gose, or pool-side beer (think bud light lime, sorry-not-sorry 😆), but lately I‘ve been inspired to try to make Mai tais! I had a plan to track down the “best” of them in Honolulu, and now I‘m obsessed with recreating my fave.

2. Outside! I got a swinging seat/nest set up under our oak and I can spend hours in it. Need a good way to Mai tai there, tho…. 🍹

Thanks for the fun memories! #twofortuesday

TheSpineView A Mai Tai sounds great! Thanks for playing 9mo
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annamatopoetry
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Mehso-so

If I wanted to be charitable, I could say that what this book lacks in depth, it makes up for in breadth, and that O'Meara is a very engaging writer. The latter is true, and the former kind of is, too. All of known history, or rather the parts involving women and alcohol, are covered. Unfortunately, it's so wide a topic that the analysis is shallow or missing altogether. O'Meara isn't a historian, and this book is much too glossy for my taste.

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annamatopoetry
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Pretty disappointed that when it comes to the Prohibition era, O'Meara glosses over or straight up ignore some real issues that lead to women being one of the strongest supporters of alcohol prohibition. Domestic violence is mentioned (barely), husbands drinking up the entire food and housing budget isn't even mentioned. Unfortunately "alcohol is awesome" seems to be her only thesis.