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You Sound Like a White Girl
You Sound Like a White Girl: The Case for Rejecting Assimilation | Julissa Arce
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AN INDIE BESTSELLER Most Anticipated by ELLE Bustle Bloomberg Kirkus HipLatina SheReads BookPage The Millions The Mujerista Ms. Magazine and more Unflinching Ms. Magazine Phenomenal BookRiot "An essential read" Kirkus, starred review "Necessary" Library Journal "Powerful" Joaquin Castro "Illuminating" Reyna Grande "A love letter to our people" Jos Olivarez "I have been waiting for this book all my life" Paul Ortiz Bestselling author Julissa Arce calls for a celebration of our uniqueness, our origins, our heritage, and the beauty of the differences that make us Americans in this powerful polemic against the myth that assimilation leads to happiness and belonging for immigrants. You sound like a white girl. These were the words spoken to Julissa by a high school crush as she struggled to find her place in America. As a brown immigrant from Mexico, assimilation had been demanded of her since the moment she set foot in San Antonio, Texas, in 1994. Shed spent so much time getting rid of her accent so no one could tell English was her second language that in that moment she felt those wordsyou sound like a white girl?were a compliment. As a child, she didnt yet understand that assimilating to American culture really meant imitating white Americathat sounding like a white girl was a racist idea meant to tame her, change her, and make her small. She ran the race, completing each stage, but never quite fit in, until she stopped running altogether. In this dual polemic and manifesto, Julissa dives into and tears apart the lie that assimilation leads to belonging. She combs through history and her own story to break down this myth, arguing that assimilation is a moving finish line designed to keep Black and brown Americans and immigrants chasing racist American ideals. She talks about the Lie of Success, the Lie of Legality, the Lie of Whiteness, and the Lie of Englisheach promising that if you obtain these things, you will reach acceptance and wont be an outsider anymore. Julissa deftly argues that these demands leave her and those like her in a purgatoryneither able to secure the power and belonging within whiteness nor find it in the community and cultures whiteness demands immigrants and people of color leave behind. In You Sound Like a White Girl, Julissa offers a bold new promise: Belonging only comes through celebrating yourself, your history, your culture, and everything that makes you uniquely you. Only in turning away from the white gaze can we truly make America beautiful. An America where difference is celebrated, heritage is shared and embraced, and belonging is for everyone. Through unearthing veiled history and reclaiming her own identity, Julissa shows us how to do this.
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SqueakyChu
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In this book, the author takes a hard look at racism against Mexicans in the United States both in the past and in the present. What she tells is both eye-opening and deeply sad.

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IselaKay
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I absolutely love this book. I cried reading it multiple times because the author, Julissa Arce, put into words what I felt and experienced growing up and still sometimes feel now as a Mexican American born to immigrant parents. I have never felt so seen.
She wrote this book for her people, not to appeal to “mainstream audiences.” She wrote this book for me. And I‘m glad we have voices like hers.

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Christine
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I thought this was excellent! Loved the memoir + manifesto format. Arce‘s life can be viewed as an “American dream” success story, but her writing here powerfully illustrates how all of the achievement in the world doesn‘t change the fact that American society normalizes, privileges, and empowers whiteness. Lots of important historical context included, and I enjoyed the bonus author conversation at the end of the audiobook, too.

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