After reading the book, decided to watch the movie. Good adaptation of the events but it missed all the strategy behind the decisions that were made. It also made Costner‘s character (Special Assistant to the President Kenneth O'Donnell) the main character which made Kennedy look weak where the book, written by Robert Kennedy, made him look strong. As is typical, the book was so much better!
pickFascinating insiders account of the Cuban Missile crisis. A definite recommendation for negotiation training. I especially enjoyed the way three alternatives were prepared to help Kennedy make the decision of how to respond. The original position papers are available on line and make for additional fascinating reading.
https://history.state.gov/historicaldocuments/frus1961-63v10-12mSupp/ch34
Lessons learned (my words):
If you have the benefit of time, use it. Don‘t rush to action.
Build friends & bridges so you‘ll have support when you need it.
Seek out differing opinions, from all positions, sides, & ranks.
Don‘t just focus on how to execute, but on what the response of the other side will be and where it will lead - understand the potential consequences.
And this image quote - allow the other side to back down gracefully.
Personalities change when the President is present, and frequently even strong men make recommendations on the basis of what they believe the President wishes to hear.
Nonfiction on sale. Timely given the anniversary of RFK‘s assassination a few days ago.
—Robert F. Kennedy (died this day in 1968)
Thirteen Days: A Memoir of the Cuban Missile Crisis | 
