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Blow Your House Down: A Story of Family, Feminism, and Treason
Blow Your House Down: A Story of Family, Feminism, and Treason | Gina Frangello
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A pathbreaking feminist manifesto, impossible to put down or dismiss. Gina Frangello tells the morally complex story of her adulterous relationship with a lover and her shortcomings as a mother, and in doing so, highlights the forces that shaped, silenced, and shamed her: everyday misogyny, puritanical expectations regarding female sexuality and maternal sacrifice, and male oppression. --Adrienne Brodeur, author of Wild Game Gina Frangello spent her early adulthood trying to outrun a youth marked by poverty and violence. Now a long-married wife and devoted mother, the better life she carefully built is emotionally upended by the death of her closest friend. Soon, awakened to fault lines in her troubled marriage, Frangello is caught up in a recklessly passionate affair, leading a double life while continuing to project the image of the perfect family. When her secrets are finally uncovered, both her home and her identity will implode, testing the limits of desire, responsibility, love, and forgiveness. Blow Your House Down is a powerful testimony about the ways our culture seeks to cage women in traditional narratives of self-sacrifice and erasure. Frangello uses her personal story to examine the place of women in contemporary society: the violence they experience, the rage they suppress, the ways their bodies often reveal what they cannot say aloud, and finally, what it means to transgress being good in order to reclaim your own life.
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Chelsea.Poole
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This is a memoir but covers so many broad topics as the author excellently melds her experiences into a larger context. Phenomenal but also super dark about her affair, multiple illnesses in several people and so many trigger warnings. I loved it but can‘t easily recommend this to everyone, as it‘s a tough read.

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readswellwithothers
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This one busted me up. It was…a lot. I took on a little of the darkness, I think. My reaction is a testament to the skilled delivery of her story, yes, but a stone cold bummer nonetheless. Powerful and deeply serious, this did not leave me feeling hopeful…which, of course, is neither the point of the book nor the writer‘s responsibility. Anyway, hard not to “pick” a book that moved me in a way that I urgently needed to find some joy, stat.

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Ellohcin
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TracyReadsBooks
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Maybe the best—but definitely not the easiest—book I‘ve read this year. Raw, unfiltered, & unflinchingly honest, Frangello says ALL the quiet parts out loud. She details a years long affair that upends her “perfect” family & changes everything when her secrets are revealed. Her memoir is also about being a woman caged by society‘s expectations, about love & forgiveness, about violence against woman & about coming to know yourself. Very, very good.

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TracyReadsBooks
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Just me, a book, and a cup of coffee. ❤️🌅☕️📖❤️

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TracyReadsBooks
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Went to the bookstore to pick up a book and visit my former coworkers today and they sent me home with some ARCs and damages because book people are the BEST people!!!

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PNWBookseller85
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I liked this memoir - was hoping for a bit more in the feminist manifesto department, but her self-awareness and unflinching honesty was so moving and powerful.

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Well-ReadNeck
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I was enthralled with the experimental forms in this memoir. In particular, The first section, written in the second person did an amazing job with that POV and as a memoir it was mind-blowing. #ARC #Netgalley

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