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A lot of good information but much of the science is preliminary and should not be taken as conclusive. The author's experience (4x pregnant, the book written during her last) provides a lens but she is very much cis, white, in a stable partnership, and of upper middle-class means. Last chapter is deeply critical of the US's terrible standards for maternal care (strong agree).
Between a so-so and a pick (I rounded up).
Tamra Does she address adoptive moms? 3y
CampbellTaraL @Tamra Yes! And dads, biological and adoptive. Encouraging data that shows physiological changes do occur in the non-pregnant parents, it just requires intentional work to get it kick-started. 3y
Tamra @CampbellTaraL I‘d believe it! It seems to be hard wired in certain species. I recently watched a video about a cow that is believed to have adopted a leopard as a kitten and they enjoyed a parent/offspring bond even when the leopard grew into adulthood. Personally, my maternity kicked in before my kids even physically arrived home! 3y
CampbellTaraL @Tamra It would be interesting to see studies on what triggers that motherly/nesting deal before birth in some but not in others. My first kid I didn't have it at all, my second though, man I was on overdrive. 3y
Tamra @CampbellTaraL ha! I can believe it. 😃 3y
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