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Intervals | Marianne Brooker
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What makes a good death? A good daughter? In 2009, with her forties and a wave of austerity on the horizon, Marianne Brooker's mother was diagnosed with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis. She made a workshop of herself and her surroundings, combining creativity and activism in unlikely ways, but over time her ability to work, to move and to live without pain diminished drastically. In Intervals, Brooker charts her care for her mother, following her decision to refuse food and water in a bid to end her suffering. She turns to various sources - from Anne Boyer and Donald Winnicott, to Practical Magic and Coraline - to make sense of this experience and to explore the precarious space between proximity and complicity. Blending memoir, polemic and feminist philosophy, Intervals is a deeply moving work that harnesses the political potential of grief to raise essential questions about choice, interdependence and end-of-life care.
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Amor4Libros
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This was a tough read, but a conversation that is not brought up enough. I commend the author for sharing her Mom‘s story and her process.

A must-read if you would like more information on VSED (Voluntary Stopping Eating & Drinking), but I again must caution that this is not for everyone.

JenniferEgnor Thanks for sharing, adding this one. These conversations are so important to have! Great discussion for a Death Cafe. 2mo
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Amor4Libros
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Started this yesterday and I‘m completely sucked in! Such a tough matter and Brooker‘s writing is beautiful. #NetGalley

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Brooker‘s mother was diagnosed with a rapidly progressive form of MS at age 40 and decided at 49 to stop eating and drinking as there‘s no assisted dying legal in England. Here, she recounts her mother‘s life and death while exploring the health care system as well as other literary works on death and dying. This is a powerful, short book that I hope gets more widely read.

dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 7mo
BookmarkTavern What a sweet baby! 💖 7mo
batsy Haven't heard of this one before; thanks for bringing it to my attention. Sounds really good, if difficult. 7mo
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squirrelbrain Perfect review! 7mo
Hooked_on_books @squirrelbrain Did you find the absence of her sister in their mother‘s dying days odd at all? She is mentioned so rarely in the book that I found it a bit strange. It may simply have been to protect her privacy, but it felt like more than that to me. 7mo
squirrelbrain Yes, it‘s a while since I read it so I can‘t remember specifics but it felt like there was an undercurrent of something there. I felt like the sister didn‘t get on with either the author or the mother. 7mo
Hooked_on_books @squirrelbrain Yeah, I thought it was either that or that the sister vehemently disagreed with their mother‘s choice and absented herself from the situation. I was so jarred when she initially mentioned the sister, since it was quite a way into the book and felt so abrupt. 7mo
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This was an incredibly tough read, from the Women‘s Prize for NF long list but vitally important and I felt that I learned a lot.

The author‘s mother has MS and decides she cannot continue so undertakes to end her life by Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED). I had no idea that this is legal in the UK, and many medical practitioners have not come across it before so there many challenges over and above the decision itself. ⬇️

squirrelbrain Please do consider carefully before reading this book - it won‘t be for everyone. 9mo
MicheleinPhilly Yikes! There has to be a better way. 9mo
BarbaraBB I‘ve heard about this in the Netherlands too 9mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures Interesting, they also have a fiction book on that long list about suicide. Heavy but important stuff. 9mo
squirrelbrain That‘s the only one on the long list that I‘ve *had* to buy @ChaoticMissAdventures - the others I‘ve managed to get from libraries etc. 9mo
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain lucky! I think I ended up needing to buy 5. But I save up money specifically for this list to drop so I feel okay about it! 9mo
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