This book impacted me, greater than almost any other book I have read. It's powerful, raw psycho-analytical observation, on human behaviors' driving motivator for self-preservation, under the most difficult of circumstances, reveals a fundamental human truth. This book outlines man as he really is...the author explains how man's potentiality is within himself; This individuals potentiality is actualized by decisions, not on conditions.

By his love he is able to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized but yet ought to be actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true.