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Identical Strangers
Identical Strangers: A Memoir of Twins Separated and Reunited | Elyse Schein, Paula Bernstein
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Elyse Schein had always known she was adopted, but it wasnt until her mid-thirties while living in Paris that she searched for her biological mother. When Elyse contacted her adoption agency, she was not prepared for the shocking, life-changing news she received: She had an identical twin sister. Elyse was then hit with another bombshell: she and her sister had been separated as infants, and for a time, had been part of a secret study on separated twins. Paula Bernstein, a married writer and mother living in New York, also knew she was adopted, but had no inclination to find her birth mother. When she answered a call from the adoption agency one spring afternoon, Paulas life suddenly divided into two starkly different periods: the time before and the time after she learned the truth. As they reunite and take their tentative first steps from strangers to sisters, Paula and Elyse are also left with haunting questions surrounding their origins and their separation. They learn that the study was conducted by a pair of influential psychiatrists associated with a prestigious adoption agency. As they investigate their birth mothers past, Paula and Elyse move closer toward solving the puzzle of their lives. In alternating voices, Paula and Elyse write with emotional honesty about the immediate intimacy they share as twins and the wide chasm that divides them as two complete strangers. Interweaving eye-opening studies and statistics on twin science into their narrative, they offer an intelligent and heartfelt glimpse into human nature. Identical Strangers is the amazing story of two women coming to terms with the strange and unbelievable hand fate has dealt them, an account that broadens the definition of family and provides insight into our own DNA and the singularly exceptional imprint it leaves on our lives. Imagine a slightly different version of you walks across the room, looks you in the eye and says hello in your voice. You discover that she has the same birthday, the same allergies, the same tics, and the same way of laughing. Looking at this person, you are able to gaze into your own eyes and see yourself from the outside. This identical individual has the exact same DNA as you and is essentially your clone. We dont have to imagine. from Identical Strangers "A transfixing memoir."--Publishers Weekly "Poignant."--Reader's Digest "Absorbing."--Wired "Fascinating . . . An intelligent exploration of how identity intersects with bloodlines. A must-read for anybody interested in what it means to be a family."--Bust From the Hardcover edition.
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LiteraryinPA
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I read this after seeing the recent review by @Brooke_H and it was a fast and interesting read about identical twins who were adopted by different families and only learned of each other as adults. The writing is chronological and told in alternating diary entries (ish) of both women. I found it fascinating.

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Brooke_H
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The long-lost identical twin is a ridiculous unbelievable trope, but it was Elyse and Paula's reality. Separated when just infants and adopted out to different families, the two sisters found each other when one of them wrote to the adoption agency asking for information on her birth mother. The two eventually discovered that they were part of a sketchy psychological nature/nurture study by a doctor at their adoption agency. A fascinating memoir.

ManyWordsLater There‘s a movie called “three identical strangers” that might be part of the same study. 3mo
Brooke_H @ManyWordsLater Yes, it is! I would‘ve mentioned that if Litsy had given me more character space to type. 😉 3mo
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Day 13 - #FaveMemoir #FebruaryFeels #ElyseSchein
#IdenticalStrangers #AMemoirofTwinsSeparatedandUnited

I read this memoir in 2007 and enjoyed it very much!

Eggs Fascinating!! 5y
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I found this memoir of two women, identical twins separated at birth, and later reunited when they were 35 to be fascinating and appalling. In alternating segments the author-sisters recount their discovery of each other, what it means to be twins that grew up thinking they were each a singleton, and their journey to uncover the story of their birth mother.

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Schlinkles
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Publishers are just getting lazy with covers...#iveseenthatsomewhere

TheKidUpstairs It happens so often. A striking cover is designed, and then it just gets copied over and over. Sometimes I forget if I've read a book before because they all look soo familiar (see: Man walking away in long black coat, surrounded by fog a la 7y
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