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Taking the Work Out of Networking
Taking the Work Out of Networking: An Introvert's Guide to Making Connections That Count | Karen Wickre
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The former Google executive, editorial director of Twitter and self-described introvert offers networking advice for anyone who has ever cancelled a coffee date due to social anxiety—about how to nurture a vibrant circle of reliable contacts without leaving your comfort zone. Networking has garnered a reputation as a sort of necessary evil in the modern business world. Some do relish the opportunity to boldly work the room, introduce themselves to strangers, and find common career ground—but for many others, the experience is often awkward, or even terrifying. The common networking advice for introverts are variations on the theme of overcoming or “fixing” their quiet tendencies. But Karen Wickre is a self-described introvert who has worked in Silicon Valley for 30 years. She shows you to embrace your true nature to create sustainable connections that can be called upon for you to get—and give—career assistance, advice, introductions, and lasting connections. Karen’s “embrace your quiet side” approach is for anyone who finds themselves shying away from traditional networking activities, or for those who would rather be curled up with a good book on a Friday night than out at a party. For example, if you’re anxious about that big professional mixer full of people you don’t know, she advises you to consider skipping it (many of these are not productive), and instead set up an intimate, one-on-one coffee date. She shows how to truly make the most out of social media to sustain what she calls “the loose touch habit” to build your own brain trust to last a lifetime. With compelling arguments and creative strategies, this new way to network is perfect not only for introverts, but for anyone who wants for a less conventional approach to get ahead in today’s job market.
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Sharpeipup
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Taking notes for my future job search in 2021. #nonfiction

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Overall, a helpful resource. I like how she acknowledges that all introverts aren‘t shy, and that most people dislike the idea of networking, introverts or not. She provides helpful information on changing your thinking about what networking is, how to talk to strangers at events, how to leverage social media, and what questions to ask a contact about a company or job you‘re interested in. Useful, practical, and doable.

#introverts #networking

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Well, this is unfortunate. Let's work on this, sisters!

In a 2014 report, The Atlantic cited a study from HP . . . which found that their women employees applied for a promotion "only when they believed they met 100 percent of the qualifications listed for the job. Men were happy to apply when they thought they could meet 60 percent of the job requirements." [p 179]

CouronneDhiver I can relate to that 5y
JoyBlue @CouronneDhiver Use your power! 😉 5y
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When I asked her how to answer people who are cautious about exposing parts of their lives, Ann counseled, ". . . think of personalizing your brand, not getting personal. The former means showing that you're a real human being. You have a point of view, real character, a personality. The latter is sharing details that are intimate or too specific to you to have relevance for the larger community." (continued in comment)

JoyBlue For those of you who bristle at thinking of yourself as a "brand"—I really hear you on this, but consider that what you share about your whole self helps you to be more three-dimensional—and you don't have to reveal too much. Doing that with thoughtfulness can enhance your reputation, which, you won't be surprised to know, can lead to more opportunities. [pp 66-7] 5y
LauraJ Thanks for sharing bits of this book. I need to read it sooner than later. 5y
JoyBlue @LauraJ You are welcome! Hope you enjoy it. 😎 5y
Biverson12 Thanks for sharing! I‘ve been looking for a book like this! 5y
JoyBlue @Biverson12 Excellent! You‘re welcome. 🙂 5y
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People assume that we introverts are lousy networkers; but some of our skills/qualities actually benefit the networking process. This book brings that to light in an encouraging way.

I especially appreciated the specific language suggestions when approaching various connection goals.

I won't likely use all of the specific social media platform advice offered.

Soon after I started the borrowed audiobook, I ordered a hardcover copy to keep.

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