"It was my hardest, earliest truth that to be legitimate, you had to be invited on this earth by two people-a man and a woman-who loved each other. Them just having sex wasn't enough to get you invited. Each had to agree to invite you. A mother and a father." *from the pre-memoir chapter. I will have to return to this book later, with my current emotional state and upcoming events in my life, this book will have to wait until another time.