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Infidelity and Other Affairs
Infidelity and Other Affairs | Kate Legge
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One cannot fail to be entranced by Legge's bone-deep strength and wisdom." Annabel Crabb "Unflinchingly investigating the value of monogamy and the true cost of betrayal." Trent Dalton What do you do when your partner's infidelity upends your life? When you have to face up to your own addictions? Mental illnesses rain down on those you love? Parents die, careers end, love is found in unexpected places. As a journalist, Kate Legge often sought answers to how people reckon with bad hands dealt or bad decisions. Then came her own search when faced with her husband's affair that unearthed a fault line of unfaithfulness running through four generations of his family. Is infidelity a predisposition or learned behaviour? Infidelity and Other Affairs starts with this puzzle then contemplates life's curveballs as Legge strives to understand how we become who we are. To her own surprise, she finds strength and peace where revenge and hate were imagined.
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Eva_B
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A really interesting read. The author‘s husband had an affair with one of her closest friends. She has written about the betrayal and aftermath years after the event. She also traces the infidelities that run through four generations of her husband‘s family and asks the question as to whether infidelity has a generational aspect. Part memoir, part family history and part essay about life in general, I really enjoyed this book.

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Jeg
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So much in this book that I could relate to. A very good read. We are enjoying some beautiful weather, best bit no wind, so I spent the afternoon reading.

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MrsMalaprop
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The first half of this memoir was engrossing. Legge reflects on her ex-husband‘s infidelity and poses questions around what makes people have affairs, interrogating the idea that such behaviour might be inherited.
The second half was a more meandering memoir, and in my view, not as interesting. Her writing is very good though.

Jeg I enjoyed second half because so much I could relate to and towards the end lots that I often ponder on. 11mo
MrsMalaprop @Jeg she‘s a very good writer. Have you read her fiction? I haven‘t, but wondering if I should. 11mo
Jeg I haven‘t read any of her fiction and was wondering the same until I saw some of the titles and covers. Maybe I shouldn‘t judge a book by it‘s cover. 😏 11mo
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MrsMalaprop
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Am starting to get into this non-fiction read about infidelity written by Australian journalist Kate Legge. Her writing is very good.
After her mother-in-law was left by her philandering husband, enabling her to get on with her university studies and career, she writes ✍️
“The salving balm of purpose cleanses the emotional plaque.”❤️👏

MrsMalaprop And then this, on discovering her own husband‘s affair that he was having with her friend, “I should have known. There are scenes you rewind again and again at all hours as you try to grasp the slimy eel of truth in both hands.” 13mo
Jeg I‘m on a list to borrow from the library. 13mo
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