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Unreliable Narrator
Unreliable Narrator: Me, Myself, and Impostor Syndrome | Aparna Nancherla
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A deeply honest and funny look at how exhausting it can be to live a human life, Unreliable Narrator is a book for anyone who wants to laugh and feel less alone.Amy Poehler A hilarious and insightful collection of essays exploring impostor syndrome, from the inside and out, by the most successful fraud in comedy Aparna Nancherla is a superstar comedian on the risea darling of Netflix and Comedy Centrals comedy special lineups, a headliner at comedy shows and music festivals, a frequenter of late night television and the subject of numerous profiles. Shes also a successful actor who has written a barrage of thoughtful essays published by the likes of the New York Times. If you ask her, though, shes a total fraud. Shed hate to admit it, but no one does impostor syndrome quite like Aparna Nancherla. UNRELIABLE NARRATOR is a collection of essays that uses Aparnas signature humor to illuminate an interior life, one constantly bossed around by her depression (whom she calls Brenda), laced with anxiety like a horror movie full of jump-scares, and plagued by an unrepenting love-hate relationship with her career as a painfully shy standup comedian. But luckily, crippling self-doubt comes with the gift of keen self-examination. These essays deliver hilarious and incredibly insightful meditations on body image, productivity culture, the ultra-meme-ability of mental health language, and who, exactly, gets to make art about nothing. Despite her own arguments to the contrary, UNRELIABLE NARRATOR is undeniable proof that Aparna is a forceas a comedian and author aliketo be reckoned with.
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On my love/hate relationship with StoryGraph stats:

I almost never categorize the books I read as lighthearted. Yet, it‘s one of the biggest pieces of my moody pie! How? Eg: Unreliable Narrator is tagged as lighthearted. Written by a comedian, it‘s mostly about living with depression. Kind-of the opposite of lighthearted! The point is “things feel so heavy”; then, “how do we go on, anyway?” Finding the light is not the same as BEING lighthearted.

ChaoticMissAdventures It's always interesting how this works, I think they use AI and it probably doesn't know what the word means... 5d
monalyisha @ChaoticMissAdventures Yes! I do remember reading about their AI usage. It‘s why I don‘t use their Recommendations feature. Speaking of, I do sometimes miss MyTBR & their *human* bibliologists. Such a fun service! I kind of wish I could work for them, tbh. 😉 5d
Soubhiville Oh yeah @monalyisha wouldn‘t that be the most perfect job?! 5d
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In recent years, there‘s no show I‘ve been more obsessed with than “Joe Pera Talks with You.” I‘m mentioning this because I subscribe to Jo Firestone‘s newsletter; she plays Sarah. Sometimes, she lets her friends (and fellow comedians) take over her newsletter for her. One such installment was written by Aparna Nancherla. In it, she mentions her forthcoming book. This one. I can‘t say I recommend the book as much as the show but…it was okay. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/6: I wasn‘t familiar with Aparna Nancherla‘s act before reading her memoir. She struck me as a relatable, vulnerable, honest, and brave — in utterly mundane ways, which I don‘t mean as a criticism! I felt especially proud of her as I listened to her speak about her sexuality (she self-identifies as “graysexual,” which isn‘t representation I often encounter). 2w
monalyisha 2/6: My favorite essay was “No Comment” (about being online). In a particularly quippy moment, she writes, “That‘s right! Now you can stay on the internet even if your whole deal is how you‘re sick of the internet. I guess you really CAN have it all! And by “all,” I mean “The Void.” Given that I‘ve also deleted all the apps from my phone recently 👇🏻 2w
monalyisha 3/6: (in a desperate bid to reclaim my time, attention, and mental quietude), I was primed to enjoy this chapter.

However, I caught myself zoning out and feeling bored at least half the time. There‘s a piece early on that she admits her editor “wanted her to cut.” She should have listened! 🙈 Her writing in the second half of the book struck me as a lot stronger.
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monalyisha 4/6: But, as Aparna half-jokes (in a chapter largely about race), “My underlying hope is the chance to be just so-so for all.” Dream achieved, bud! 2w
monalyisha 5/6: Given the above quote, it would be a lot neater for me to slap a “so-so” rating on this review…but the truth is, I think it falls *just* north of that. I regret that my review probably wouldn‘t do much to help her overcome her Imposter Syndrome. The good news (for both of us?) is that I plan to seek out her stand-up! 2w
monalyisha 6/6: I‘m glad the book gave her the chance to earnestly represent all of herself. I think her thoughtful and intimate musings will resonate with some readers profoundly. Her sensibilities certainly align with mine in a lot of ways. I especially connected with her call for more “grace and expansiveness” when interacting with and judging others. Hopefully, this review conveys at least a little of that! 2w
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It's a soft pick because I will always enjoy navel gazey musings from comics I like...that's like the whole thing with comics. But this could have been an interesting and memorable article. At book length, it's a stretch.