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monalyisha

Joined January 2017

Head in the clouds, book in my hand, coffee in an I.V. ☁️📖☕️ (R.I. 🌊)
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Woman of Light: A Novel by Kali Fajardo-Anstine
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Family Lore: A Novel by Elizabeth Acevedo
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Trillin breaks off from an all-consuming, terrifying, hungry ALL to become an individual with her own wants, needs, doubts, and reservations. I wish she‘d spent less time trying to decide how many tentacles she should have and more time finding other things she loved, aside from Siân (the human witch & scientist who she found exploring her dimension). The resolution to the story feels isolating. But this was still fun!

monalyisha Bonus for bun-lovers: One of the characters is an adorable, skittish, many-eyed creature who becomes a sweet & troublesome pet, nicknamed Bunny! 🐇 1w
RosePressedPages I‘ve had this on my tbr because the premise sounds interesting and I loved the cover. I‘ll have to give it a try soon! 1w
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Phoebe's Diary | Phoebe Wahl
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“How strange it is to be anything at all.”

If it‘s been awhile since you‘ve listened to Neutral Milk Hotel, Phoebe‘s Diary is your sign to revisit!

https://open.spotify.com/track/5rfT032kGmLvbxZzfHlu5D?si=U1Ay7_xNRPOfv9mXzWhKeg

I asked my husband (who‘s musical; I am not) what instrument‘s featured in the linked song. A theramin? An aquaphone? It‘s a singing saw — “like a literal saw that you bend & play with a violin bow.”

How cool is that?!

The_Penniless_Author That album is so incredibly good. ❤ 2w
Clare-Dragonfly I love the musical saw! 2w
monalyisha @Clare-Dragonfly Apparently, so do I! Are there other songs that come to mind for you? 2w
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monalyisha @The_Penniless_Author Right?! Have been listening to it nonstop (which has totally interferes with my current audiobook, btw 😅🙈). (edited) 2w
Clare-Dragonfly Hmm, I‘m sure I know other recorded songs with musical saw but I can‘t think of any at the moment. I see it more in live performances—like last week at the Renaissance Festival! 2w
Clare-Dragonfly I haven‘t listened yet but I found this playlist. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3nJGcUatFgpyO6YFxGIhE7 I am very excited for a version of Scarborough Faire that features musical saw. 2w
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Phoebe's Diary | Phoebe Wahl
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Children‘s picture book illustrator & author, Phoebe Wahl, has lightly fictionalized her journals from her teenage years, creating “Phoebe‘s Diary.” She intentionally left all the cringey bits and all the crass bits in. As someone who religiously tore up her previous diaries because she was too embarrassed to admit they existed, I see this as an extraordinary act of bravery! 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/2: I wouldn‘t recommend this book beyond its intended audience (YA) — unless you‘re already a fan (which I was). It also holds particular charm for elder Millennials; Phoebe includes her playlists and they‘re all on-point for us forever indie kids (Rilo Kiley, Sufjan Stevens, The Decemberists, Death Cab for Cutie, Neutral Milk Hotel, Ben Kweller, Belle & Sebastian, etc). 2w
monalyisha 2/2: As Phoebe states in her Author‘s Note, she set out to share a story that does its part to combat “society‘s fatphobia and sex negativity, and the constant, unrelenting ways it teaches us to be ashamed of our bodies and what we want to do with them.” She stayed true to that by sharing her joys and her struggles. Just…be prepared to read EXTENSIVELY about obsessive crushes (true to life, tbh, but still a lot to take in 😅)! 2w
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Phoebe's Diary | Phoebe Wahl
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New book, same bun. 🐇

ShelleyBooksie Adorable Bun!!! 3w
monalyisha @ShelleyBooksie She really is! She turned 11 this past June. 🥳👵🏻🐇 3w
Clare-Dragonfly Hi Moxie! 😍🐰 3w
dabbe Hello there, Marvelous Moxie! 🖤🐾🖤 2w
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A Town Called Solace | Mary Lawson
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This is going to be kind of a niche review but so be it. 😅 A Town Called Solace reminded me intensely of the part in American Gods when Shadow stays in Lakeside, with all of the small town characters *and* all of the small town mystery, but without an epic war between gods looming in the background. I was hooked instantly by Clara (with whom I share the joys of magical thinking OCD), & was rooting for Liam to find connection. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: I was a bit taken aback by how abruptly Rose‘s storyline is “resolved” and by the plain way in which the facts of what happened to her are delivered. Readers should be aware of trigger warnings. For the most part, however, I genuinely enjoyed Lawson‘s writing and will seek out her back catalog. 3w
Lindy @monalyisha Crow Lake is better than A Town Called Solace 😊 3w
monalyisha @Lindy That‘s good to hear! I just added it to my TBR. 3w
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“That night, I waded into a small creek alongside tadpoles and reflective-eyed spiders. The coolness of an Ozark creek and the obsidian darkness of the sky swallowed me wholly. Or was it “holy”?”

Cortg Beautiful photo! 😍 3w
SconsinBookyBadger Gorgeous spider web photo ❣️ 3w
Chelsea.Poole Love!! This book and this rainbow web 🕸️ Must be magical little beings to be able to spin rainbows out of their butts 😉 3w
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8 full months in, this is definitely a contender for my favorite book of the year. Dykman bikes from Mexico to Canada & back again, following the route of the Monarch butterfly migration, learning about herself & the monarchs along the way. She looks unflinchingly at issues threatening their phenomenal journey: climate change, deforestation, & farming monoculture. I listened one slow mile - or chapter - at a time & relished the adventure. 👇🏻

monalyisha I hope to remember her spirit & her lessons throughout the years. She writes, “the more I learned, the more reverent I became.” Amen. 🧡🖤🤍 3w
Chelsea.Poole Love your review…I was so inspired by this book. Truly life changing for me! Sappy, I know. 3w
ncsufoxes When we lived in San Diego we witnessed a monarch migration. They were everywhere for a few days. It was one of the coolest things to just see butterflies flying everywhere. 3w
BarbaraBB Sounds great 3w
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“An adventure is an exercise in trust; we must trust ourselves, the people we meet, and in this case, the gentle bees humming homecoming songs. We also must trust in the unknown, which will reveal itself in time.”

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I totally forget what I‘m supposed to use as a hashtag for this. Please hold. 😅

While you‘re waiting, I‘ll admit to you that I dilly-dallied finishing my audiobook in August, dragging it out into September so that it could make an appearance on the bracket later this month. I didn‘t want it to have to compete with Tuck Everlasting! But joke‘s on me because it‘s definitely going to end up competing once it wins Sept. vs. Oct. 🙈 The suspense!

marleed Haha. I so understood this logic an conundrum! 3w
monalyisha @marleed It was so silly! I was like, “I probably shouldn‘t do this bracket next year.” 😆 3w
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Tuck Everlasting | Natalie Babbit
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“Queen Anne‘s lace lay dusty on the surface of the meadows like foam on a painted sea.”

kspenmoll So love Queen Anne Lace- lots of it in my yard. 4w
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Tuck Everlasting | Natalie Babbit
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My summer‘s been way too busy for my liking and I neglected to review this directly after finishing. Now, seeing the unenthusiastic reviews here, I wish I hadn‘t! I loved it so so much (upon first AND second reading) and wish I could be more specific about it. Natalie Babbitt is such a gifted writer and thinker. Any doubts? Read her (imperfectly digitized) article, which I‘ve linked in the comments below, about joy and Children‘s Literature. ⛲️🐸⏳

monalyisha There IS some outdated language. If you want, you can skip to the ending — about happy endings! https://www.nytimes.com/1970/11/08/archives/happy-endings-of-course-and-also-joy... (edited) 4w
Clare-Dragonfly I love this book! 😍 4w
Bigwig A great, great book. For youngsters and oldsters. 3w
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I came out of Eric‘s last collection, Here For It, bowled over by how much we have in common — & loving him for it. This book was the opposite! I realized how different we are. He‘s an extrovert; I‘m an introvert. He‘s a city mouse; I‘m a country mouse. He‘s a gay Black man in America. I am not. I love him for everything he is & everything he isn‘t, & especially for how he writes about it, finding earnestness, hope, humor, & honesty. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: The best essay is, hands-down, “Jericho.” Some additional standouts include: “Clap Until You Feel It”, “Oh My, This Soup‘s Delicious, Isn‘t It?”, “You Rock, “Congratulations, The Best is Over!”, & “The Invitation.” 4w
Chelsea.Poole I‘m so looking forward to this one! 4w
monalyisha @Chelsea.Poole I will say that it looks as if most Littens liked this one even more than his first. I didn‘t feel that way. Just in terms of tempering your expectations. 😉 But I think he‘s wonderful! 4w
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Keeper | Kathi Appelt, August Hall
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Read for my Young at Heart Book Club. It was my 2nd time reading, a decade later, and I loved it even more than I did the first time around (which was quite a lot to begin with!).

Gorgeous, tender writing; vivid small town/island setting; with found family, two lovable dogs, LGBTQ+ characters, & a dash of mer-mythology.

A perfect MG novel. Also great for gentle-hearted grown-ups who are doing their best, despite life‘s hardships, to stay soft.

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This memoir, written by a woman who shares a history of amnesia with her mother (who is basically her twin), & a history of violence, racism, trauma, & magic with her family from Colombia (where she spent the first part of her life before being forced to flee), is everything the reviews say: “dazzling”, “passionate”, “kaleidoscopic”, & philosophical. It‘s also sadly lacking in warmth. It seems narcissism (a trauma response?) runs in her family.

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“I would be like the frogs in the pond….singing not because they could secure their future but because all they could do was try.”

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“We have a word in Spanish for the walking of the dead — desandar. To un-walk.”

Billypar I loved this memoir, and what a perfect quote - I must have missed or forgotten it. 2mo
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I‘ve been reading Lynn‘s swimming diaries for months (which is the way to do it; slowly, at your leisure). I‘m feeling a bit bereft now that the book won‘t be my constant companion!

Lynn was a wild swimmer who explored the Devon coast. She details her “aquamarine wanderings,” full of every shade of blue, green, gray & copper. She describes Moon Gazey (full moon) swims with friends, followed by thermoses of hot beverages & small cakes. Heaven.👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: She was almost always accompanied by her dog, Honey, who she said “cheated” during their wild, cold water swims “by wearing her fur coat.” Lynn died of a brain tumor in 2016. Author Tanya Shadrick (whom I heard speak on Katherine May‘s podcast) compiled and edited her writings at her behest. Both her vivaciousness and her quiet fill every page. (edited) 2mo
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Dandelion Wine | Ray D Bradbury
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Ignoring the specific prompts (sorry, @Eggs !), and just doing a sort-of catch-all Top 3:

1. “Stuff your eyes with wonder.” - Ray Bradbury

2. “The test of a first-rate intelligence is to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still maintain the ability to function.” - F. Scott Fitzgerald

3. “You can‘t learn the secrets of the universe on an empty stomach.” - Elizabeth: The Golden Age

#WondrousWednesday

Eggs From some of my favorite writers ✍🏻 👏🏻 3mo
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A Fairy Friend | Sue Fliess
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In the book fairy biz. ✨

(Snapshot from work today!)

julesG 😍😍😍 3mo
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Livin‘ the dream (in a rented cabin in Maine). ✨

dabbe 🤩🤩🤩 3mo
kspenmoll Looks wonder! Do I spy a hot tub or luxurious bath? 3mo
monalyisha @kspenmoll Sadly, neither! But that would be heaven! 3mo
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Chrissyreadit looks lovely ❤️ 3mo
SamAnne That looks lovely. 3mo
JamieArc That is the dream! Enjoy! 3mo
Donna1980 Looks like heaven ❤️ 3mo
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Bad Cree: A Novel | Jessica Johns
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I was surprised & not surprised to find reviews from readers who bailed on this book. By the time I read them, I kind-of loved it and couldn‘t put it down…but it also took me a while to get into it. I just thought it was me! I don‘t think Bad Cree‘s *exquisitely* written or *exquisitely* crafted - but it‘s well-written. It‘s moody, sharp, and warm (with a big, extended cast of aunties and cousins), full of grief and love. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: It feels effortlessly hip (from an author who is also, apparently, the founder of kokôm kombucha). I have complaints, of course (e.g. the reason behind Mackenzie‘s dreams was never much of a mystery — and why was the Dad even mentioned?!) but they‘re not what will stick with me. Knowing that it‘s her debut, I‘m excited to see how Johns grows as a writer and eager to bear witness as her career develops. (edited) 3mo
monalyisha A fun fact that I learned after reading is that Johns wrote this, in part, as a response to her professor who told the class never to write about dreams because “they‘re boring.” She wanted to prove him wrong, given the importance of dreams in Cree culture. I‘m someone who *always* rallies against the advice that “no one wants to hear about your dreams,” so I stand with her in defiant solidarity. 😉 (edited) 3mo
jlhammar Great review! I've been meaning to get to this one for months. Looking forward to it! 3mo
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Saltus | Tara Gereaux
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Filling out this #ReadingBracket2023 has been a real challenge! Choosing between Enchantment & True Biz was stupendously difficult; I understand why some people opted for 2 separate brackets - one for fic & another for nonfic. The problem is, I think I‘d need a third for kidlit! Leaving Pax behind was similarly lamentable.

I went with Mad About You for June…but I‘m reading two right now & I think either would‘ve won if I‘d finished in time.

JamieArc Makes me happy to see Saltus has made it so far! 3mo
monalyisha @JamieArc It‘s very possible that it‘ll make it all the way! 3mo
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Bad Cree: A Novel | Jessica Johns
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“The moss and trees muffled our talks, like we were in a cozy room together rather than out in the open.”

Suet624 Beautiful post. 💕💕💕 3mo
TheBookgeekFrau What a beautiful photo! 😍 3mo
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Strawberry Girl | Lois Lenski
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The wild rabbits must respect the sovereign authority of our domestic Queen rabbit because they‘ve left us some berries in the patch this year! 🍓🐇🍓

bnp Yum!❤️ We always had to put netting over ours to keep the birds off. 3mo
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Check this place out! It‘s Tinside Lido, a 1930‘s Art Deco pool filled with filtered seawater.

OK, UK. Okay.

ShelleyBooksie Want! Gorgeous 3mo
JamieArc 😍😍😍 TAKE ME TO THIS LIDO!!! 3mo
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monalyisha @JamieArc “Take me to your lido.” 👽😂 (edited) 3mo
JamieArc I went down a lido rabbit hole after reading this book. I think it‘s one you might enjoy. 3mo
JamieArc @monalyisha I wish I had thought of that 😂😂 3mo
monalyisha @JamieArc I‘m dying. 🤣😂🤣 Also, that book looks perfect! Went straight on my TBR. 3mo
JamieArc @monalyisha It was one of my favorites the year I read it. I‘m going to be repeating that phrase and cracking myself up for the evening now 😆 3mo
JanuarieTimewalker13 Wow, that is über cool!!! 3mo
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“It‘s evening and the sun is low, flooding Bovisand with light reflected from sea, sky, and wet sand. The inlet glows softly, guarded by dark rocks pointing out to Cornwall like dragon‘s feet.

Occasionally, the growl of a boat engine augments the reptilian grumble and crash of the sea. The breakwater appears to hover in a fairytale cloud. We bob around and leap through waves while gulls float nearby in puddles of light.”

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Meg Cabot clearly adores librarians. She takes pains to show how radical the institution is, especially when it comes to radical kindness. Unfortunately, this book is also goofy AF - & not in a good way. 🙈 The characters are named things like Molly Montgomery, Dylan Dakota, & Tabitha Brighton (even aside from the alliteration, the place name formula is silly). Molly often uses words like “simply” & “surely” in everyday speech. Low-medium heat. 🔥

monalyisha On a personal note, I almost stopped reading because of the way the details align with my life. I‘m a Children‘s Librarian, as is Molly. But instead of dating a cop, my (step)DAD is a cop — and not only that, but a cop who supported my interest in dance (just like this cop supports his daughter‘s interests in the same). It was a little uncomfortable. Maybe I should be thankful that the steam level was lower than I typically want from a romance. 😅 3mo
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Dark Matter | Blake Crouch
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Dark Matter is a sci-fi action-adventure flick in book form. Unfortunately, action storylines *really* aren‘t my thing, no matter what format they‘re in. My chances of liking this better as a movie would‘ve been higher, though, especially if it were a visually stunning film with a killer soundtrack. As it stands, the only appreciation I can give it is to say that the ending was well-done. It‘s just not the type of writing I want to read. 🤷‍♀️

monalyisha Suspected this might‘ve been snapped up & adapted for the screen. Confirmed that with a quick Google search. I read that Apple+ is making a series this year (2023). I‘m not great with actors but the few I do know seem to‘ve been cast well: Jennifer Connelly as Daniela, Jimmi Simpson as Ryan. I don‘t love that Charlie‘s been aged down. I will probably watch the first episode, at least, out of curiosity. 3mo
CatMS This has been on my kindle forever. Will get around to reading it someday 3mo
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Mad About You: A Novel | Mhairi McFarlane
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I was right when I suspected, a handful of chapters in, that I‘d found a new romance author to love. Mhairi McFarlane‘s writing is *funny* and emotionally profound — so much so that I almost didn‘t realize she hadn‘t given us a sex scene! 😅 I‘m a little mad about it now, of course. 😉

Teasing aside, I‘m glad to have read this. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: I‘m going to recommend it (with full disclosure about its content) to my MIL, who‘s just come out of a 20-year-long marriage to a man who emotionally abused her (and her sons), a fact which she offers up with full transparency, strength, and vulnerability. Good fucking riddance to him. I‘m so grateful that an honest *& hope-filled* story like this exists. 3mo
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I performed in a dance recital last night. It‘s been about 20 years since the last time that happened! It was a pirate-themed tap number, which culminated in a sword fight, and if that sounds ridiculous to you, please know that you are correct in your assessment of the situation. 😅🏴‍☠️

Ruthiella Honestly my first thought when I saw the picture was Buffy cosplay. Awesome! 👍 3mo
monalyisha @Ruthiella Oh, be still my heart! What a compliment! 🤩 3mo
Tamra Fun!! 🏴‍☠️ 3mo
monalyisha @Ruthiella Ironically, I quit tap when I was 14 because I wanted to watch Buffy with my BFF on Tuesday nights and tap interfered. Priorities! 😅🙈 If technology had just advanced a *little* faster, I could have a professional dance career by now (jk - but really, how might things have been different if we could‘ve DVR‘ed or streamed at our leisure? 🤷‍♀️ I‘ll never know!). 3mo
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Mad About You: A Novel | Mhairi McFarlane
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I think this is the second or third romance novel I‘ve read with an MC who‘s a wedding photographer. It‘s not an unfamiliar storyline to me — I‘m married to one!

If you‘re so inclined (or if you‘re in New England and looking for a photographer), you can find his Instagram at @ adamwazphoto 📸

Note: I made the collage by taking screenshots of social media pics. I‘m sure he‘d be appalled by the misrepresentation of quality. Shhh. Don‘t tell. 🤫😅

BookNAround My daughter‘s soon to be fiancé is a wedding photographer too. 3mo
monalyisha @BookNAround It‘s a popular profession! He‘s been doing it since about 2009. He really enjoys it. 💓 3mo
marleed I live in Kansas City but scrolled through his insta. Beautiful work! 3mo
monalyisha Aw, thanks @marleed! I know I‘m biased but I think so, too. 😉 3mo
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Mad About You: A Novel | Mhairi McFarlane
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Spending a cat-like morning, lazing in the sunshine, listening to the birds. I‘m reminded of a much-beloved Edith Wharton quote, “Set wide the window. Let me drink the day.”

I‘ve never read Mhairi McFarlane before, & I see that the book‘s Litsy score is precipitously low — but I‘m hopeful! I‘m pleasantly surprised by the author‘s refreshing sense of humor. If she keeps it up, I think I‘ve got a new fave to join my romance writer ranks!

JamieArc Looks like you are having a great staycation! 3mo
Birdsong28 Love this author definitely recommend!! 3mo
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Dark Matter | Blake Crouch
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First day of staycation from my library job? Visited a different library and got a stack of books. Of course. 😅 I was picking up the tagged, which is my book club book. But you all know it‘s impossible to leave with just one…

Jjaxn95 I loved Dark Matter ! Such a good book 3mo
Jess_Read_This Looking forward to your thoughts on Narrowboat Summer! I really enjoyed that one. 3mo
Chelsea.Poole Nice stack! Also, relatable…First thing I do when on vacation: visit other libraries 😆 3mo
CarmenB It‘s a must to visit libraries in other places 😂 3mo
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This isn‘t what I was expecting. There were moments in the text (more than one, and not even in the same character‘s storyline) where I was absolutely floored by grief. And I say this as someone who doesn‘t have a direct connection to the type of loss described. I see now that the blurb hints at “a devastating tragedy” but that comes *after* the illustration of a cherry pie and liberal use of the word “spunky.” 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/5: Having read (and adored!) Kitchens of the Great Midwest, I expected the writing to have a literary quality…but I wasn‘t expecting to be hit so hard. 3mo
monalyisha 2/5: It‘s difficult to separate a work from its blurb once you feel a little hoodwinked. I don‘t know how much say authors have in this department but if they do have any semblance of control, I think it‘s important that they exercise it! 3mo
monalyisha 3/5: Aside from my emotional response, I sometimes had trouble keeping the characters straight, especially in the beginning. I don‘t feel like I have a firm grasp, even now, on who they all were at their core. On a more laudatory note, I do think Stradal penned some killer sentences. 3mo
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monalyisha 4/5: I‘m interested in the fact that this narrative, which focuses *so centrally* on mother-daughter relationships and women‘s bodies (pregnancy, miscarriage, loss of a child) is written by a man. This isn‘t a negative judgment against the text…but it‘s something I can‘t help thinking about. 3mo
monalyisha 5/5: I know this has exclusively positive Litsy praise so far. I‘m honestly surprised by how overshadowed my other thoughts are by my sentimentality. I‘ve given a lot of “so-so” ratings out lately. Maybe I‘m in a funk. I‘m taking a handful of vacation days starting today; hopefully, the extra time will allow me to hit my stride anew with a relaxed, quiet focus. 3mo
JamieArc I was planning on taking this to Lake Michigan on Friday for my first beach day but perhaps I better choose another. 3mo
DogEaredBooks If you were wanting one more like Kitchens I think the authors second book: the Lager Queen of Minnesota was much more similar in tone to Kitchens than Supper Club (which I agree was so much more heart wrenching) 3mo
DogEaredBooks Also for the women focused but man written. I think Stradal is one of the few male authors I don‘t get the ick from. I‘ve been to some of his author talks too and he‘s as genuine and nice in person as you‘d hope. His books generally feel like the exception that proves the rule 3mo
monalyisha @JamieArc Maybe talk to @Chelsea.Poole first? I saw that she took it on vaca and loved it — and I‘ve gotten some stellar books recs from her. 💙 It definitely hurt my heart, though. 3mo
Chelsea.Poole This is such a thoughtful review! I brought this up to my coworkers, how unexpectedly devastating that section was. I have to say, I agree totally with your sentiment about the misleading marketing of the book, but somehow even though I was TOTALLY taken off guard by the trauma you mentioned, it didn‘t diminish my overall appreciation for the novel. Though as a reader, I hate spoilers so maybe that‘s why I didn‘t feel the need to know. 3mo
Chelsea.Poole I, too, considered the way this male author writes female characters that I so totally understand and appreciate, as a female reader. I agree @DogEaredBooks that he somehow gets it right when many do not. 3mo
Chelsea.Poole One of my favorite recent book memories is reading the tagged and sobbing into the sand after completing it last year. So, I was happy to have a charming, lighthearted (at times!), though hugely sentimental and grief-filled novel to read at the shore that was so much like my experience with [tagged] a novel I found both light and dark, if that makes any sense at all 🤷🏼‍♀️ 3mo
Chelsea.Poole I‘m so glad you posted this review so others can take a closer look at what is between the covers, and how it may affect them. I went back to read my review and it doesn‘t as accurately represent this title as well as yours does 💛 Though, I stand by my enthusiasm for it, with tears in my eyes 🥹 3mo
jlhammar Great review. Hope you enjoy your vacation days. I was trying to put my finger on exactly why I didn't love this one quite as much as his other two. All of his books deal with heavy stuff, but I think this one had a bit less humor perhaps? The characters didn't seem quite as quirky/super-Minnesotan which I loved in the other two. This one had more of a generic upper midwest vibe to it (I live in MN, born and raised in northern WI). 3mo
monalyisha @Chelsea.Poole I added your tagged read-alike! I‘ve never read anything by Emma Straub. 3mo
Tamra @jlhammar did I know you were in MN and forgot?! 👋🏾 from Red Wing. @RebelReader is a fellow Minnesotan too. 3mo
jlhammar @Tamra Hooray for MN littens! Hello from St. Paul! I moved here for college almost 23 years ago, met my husband (who grew up here) and, aside from spending our first year of marriage in Boston, have been here ever since. 3mo
Tamra @jlhammar 👏🏾👏🏾 We were in Minneapolis yesterday to get daughter‘s hair braided and on Friday going to St. Paul trying to get into Fasika for lunch. We just heard it is closing on Saturday after 22 years. 😭 3mo
jlhammar @Tamra Wow, so fun to know you‘re in the Cities sometimes! We might need to try to coordinate a meet-up one of these days. Sad news about Fasika closing. 3mo
Tamra @jlhammar would be great fun! 3mo
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“She was sure she‘d wake up one day and look forward to coming here as much as she looked forward to walking through a winter forest at the eggshell break of sunrise.”

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“Her father used to say that Julia wasn‘t raised by a village, she was raised by a supper club. As a small child, she sat at the bar, sneaking Maraschino cherries, colored and drew at the maître d' station, and looked for little things she could do to be useful.”

As someone who was raised for years by a single mom/bartender, I fully approve this message. ?

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Wow, No Thank You | Samantha Irby
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Samantha Irby is one of those writers who I‘m sure is an amazing, hilarious friend. Unfortunately, I don‘t think a book is the right format for her musings. To be fair, I think this about many writers whom other people love (see: Jenny Lawson, Phoebe Robinson, et al). Irby‘s Wikipedia page refers to her as “a comedian, essayist, blogger, & television writer.” Each of the preceding titles seems like a better fit than “author” or “memoirist.” 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/3: I know there are people who greedily consume her collections but I‘m never going to be one of them. I think small, informal doses of her writing is the way to go. (Is this what they mean by “micro dosing”? 🍄) 3mo
monalyisha 2/3: Because we‘re roughly the same age (she‘s older by 6 years), my favorite essay was “Late-1900s Time Capsule”, which is about creating a mix tape. From They Might Be Giants to Ani DiFranco, Fiona Apple, and The Smashing Pumpkins, we have very similar taste in music. When she called DMB‘s Under the Table and Dreaming “a masterpiece” and proclaimed, “If you hate Dave Matthews, that shit is on you,” I almost cheered. (edited) 3mo
monalyisha 3/3: I know it‘s cool to hate but it‘s braver to love confidently and unabashedly. I wish I could confidently and unabashedly love this book…but I think I‘d be much happier with a substack. 🤷‍♀️ 3mo
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Clare-Dragonfly I haven‘t read Samantha Irby but that is exactly how I feel about Jenny Lawson. Actually, she reminds me a lot of one of my friends! 3mo
monalyisha @Clare-Dragonfly Though it pained me, I also bailed on Lindy West‘s “Shit, Actually” for the same reason. I subscribe to her Butt News, though, which is the same content as her book (movie reviews) in newsletter format, & it makes me chortle on the reg. (edited) 3mo
AlaMich I love Irby but I totally get how she isn‘t for everyone. Or how the essay format might not appeal to everyone. 3mo
monalyisha @AlaMich I think books by comedian-bloggers just typically aren‘t my thing…with the exception of R. Eric Thomas, whose newest is due out in August! I‘m crossing my fingers so hard that my love of his first collection (Here for It: Or, How to Save Your Soul in America) wasn‘t a fluke. 3mo
peanutnine I just read another of her books and felt the same way! Like I get the appeal but not for me 3mo
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Wow, No Thank You | Samantha Irby
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“Writing a book feels like it should be an event — a thing that serious people sit down and plan to do. I‘ve never planned anything in my life. I still don‘t…I don‘t say this to brag. I‘m admitting to you that I‘m an ill-prepared child-person…I don‘t do anything hard because my life has already been hard…but they really did make it sound like something I could just wake up and do, which is my main criteria for 99% of the things I take on.”

monalyisha Ahem. I know self-deprecating humor is her thing but also: there is some truth to this! And I think the truthful kernel is why I didn‘t love her book. 3mo
JamieArc I have the same thoughts. I‘ve only tried one book, and expected to really like it after all the love it gets, but found it pretty repetitive and not very funny. I thought I was alone in that. 3mo
monalyisha @JamieArc I think if you trust that you & I are together, you‘d be right most of the time. 😉 3mo
monalyisha @JamieArc I will say that I loved her description of herself as “a doughy creative.” Relatable. 👯‍♀️ And her response to people (continually) mistaking her for Roxane Gay: “Am I smart enough to write sharp, cultural criticism? No! Am I fat and typing words on a computer? Absolutely yes.” (And for the record, I do think she‘s smart.) (edited) 3mo
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About to eat this delightful crepe in the buttery yellow sunshine. 💛

mabell Great photo! 4mo
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Green: The History of a Color | Michel Pastoureau
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I contacted a tattoo artist recently after reading Pax by Sara Pennypacker for the second time. Somehow, I ended up booking her for a *completely* different design — but one that I‘ve had in mind for years.

It‘s inspired by my love of the ocean, a tattoo by a Korean artist named Sol, and a color essay I read once, entitled “Glaucous: the Greeny Blue of Epic Poetry & Succulents.” The essay quotes the tagged.

I go for my appointment on Tuesday! 😱

Laughterhp I love that! It reminds me of my husbands tattoo (but it‘s not colored). He did the equality symbol as paint strokes. 4mo
monalyisha @Laughterhp Nice! Where did he get his done? 4mo
Laughterhp He got it In Minnesota when he was there for a month for work. He‘s been covering up another tattoo on Federal Hill for like a year. 4mo
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monalyisha @Laughterhp Wow, that sounds intense! 4mo
julesG This is going to be awesome! Can't wait for you to share the finished work. (is it strange that I'm thinking of getting another tattoo now?) 4mo
monalyisha Thanks, @JulesG! It‘s been *years* since I‘ve gotten one. It feels so risky! I must just be aging. 🙈 I hope it‘s as good as I‘m imagining! 4mo
fredamans Coming from a human pin cushion, I can't wait to see it! 😉 😄 4mo
monalyisha @Laughterhp @julesG @fredamans Sadly, my artist ended up bailing on me (in the nicest way possible). She said she just didn‘t think she could pull it off. I‘ve wanted the design for so long now! Fingers crossed I find someone one day. 🌊 4mo
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fredamans @monalyisha that is a bummer.... 4mo
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Wow, No Thank You | Samantha Irby
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“I can‘t cite credible sources and exhaustive studies to prove that growing up poor is basically a financial death sentence no matter how well you do later in life because I‘m not a sociologist writing a textbook but…if I had access to generational wealth, I probably could be a sociologist writing a textbook.”

monalyisha Note: If I had access to generational wealth, I could also buy this cashmere sweatshirt, on-sale from Lingua Franca NYC for the low, low price of $380! 😅 (edited) 4mo
julesG I hear you, on both accounts. Been ogling a pair of merino-wool blend culottes earlier. But €150 for a pair of trousers my cats will shred on the first day? 4mo
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The Collected Regrets is a sweet book. Clover is a death doula. Her career was largely inspired by her parents‘ early death (when she was 6), and her guilt over not being present when her beloved grandfather, who raised and nurtured her, died unexpectedly and alone while she was studying abroad. Because she lost so much so early, Clover has always had a hard time connecting with folks — & vice versa. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/4: At 36, she has no friends her own age and no sexual or romantic experience to speak of (though she‘d like to). Though it sparks compassion, I think some suspension of disbelief is required to reconcile Clover‘s character with her level of isolation and social ineptitude. (edited) 4mo
monalyisha 2/4: Maybe being so enamored with Drew Barrymore‘s late-90‘s rom-com “Never Been Kissed” in my adolescence has set me up for failure in this regard. Perhaps it means that I‘ll always picture someone in Clover‘s situation to be wearing too many white feathers, all the time, while eating whole pies and lusting after Michael Vartan (that is to say: a little unbelievable. Except for the pie part. And the Michael Vartan part, of course). But I digress… (edited) 4mo
monalyisha 3/4: Because I‘m interested in ritual, I would have loved to have had the opportunity to read *more* about Clover‘s studies in thanatology, the ceremonies that she witnessed on her travels, and her own practice. I wanted more than a few spare sentences about how other cultures honor and grieve their loved ones. 4mo
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monalyisha 4/4: There‘s still plenty to love here. it‘s moving to witness Clover‘s growth towards friendship, love, and self-knowledge, as she moves through her grief. A touching read, although not one I expect to stay with me. (edited) 4mo
bnp Have you heard of Caitlin Doughty, an American mortician advocating for reform of funeral practices? The book referenced here is an interesting take on some practices around the world. 4mo
monalyisha @bnp Yes! One of my favorites! 4mo
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Pax | Sara Pennypacker
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Wild tattoo musings inspired by Pax.

There‘s a moment when Vola reflects upon finding herself again after getting quite lost. She remembers a night when she was a child, sneaking out and eating her fill beneath a peach tree, blissed out under the light of the moon. Her core, she realizes, is joy (& simple pleasure). It triumphs over pain.

I‘m thinking of getting a peach on my shoulder; the juice beneath it will form the abstract shape of a fox.

TEArificbooks That would be awesome. I love peaches and foxes and book inspired tattoos. 4mo
Bklover Love that idea! 4mo
ChaoticMissAdventures I LOVE that fix on the bottom/middle 🔥 4mo
Scochrane26 I love the bottom middle, too. So pretty 4mo
Larkken Those are lovely! I adore Klauson‘s artwork. There‘s a number of kids‘ books I really want just because he illustrates them. 4mo
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Pax | Sara Pennypacker
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#2023ReadingBracket

Jan: Saltus by Tara Gereaux
Feb: These Precious Days by Ann Patchett
March: Enchantment by Katherine May
April: True Biz by Sara Novic
May: Pax by Sara Pennypacker

The middle of my bracket remains stunted by indecision. 🙈

At least I was able to decide on a winner for May! Pax won handily. In fact, I may or may not be chatting with a tattoo artist about getting a design inspired by the text. 🍑🦊

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Love Marriage | Monica Ali
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To be honest, this was as frustrating to read as it was compulsively readable. 😅 It‘s one of those stories where you want to SHAKE all of the characters for being self-absorbed jerks…but you‘re secretly praying for their evolution, growth, and redemption. By the end, I was celebrating little victories, mourning endings, and crossing my fingers for the future. Despite a stray, awkward sentence or two, I think this was very well-done.

monalyisha 1/1: Summary (from Goodreads, since it‘s not currently on Litsy): In present-day London, Yasmin Ghorami is twenty-six, in training to be a doctor (like her Indian-born father), and engaged to the charismatic, upper-class Joe Sangster, whose formidable mother, Harriet, is a famous feminist. The gulf between families is vast. So, too, is the gulf in sexual experience between Yasmin and Joe. 4mo
monalyisha 2/2: As the wedding day draws near, misunderstandings, infidelities, and long-held secrets upend both Yasmin‘s relationship and that of her parents, a “love marriage,” according to the family lore that Yasmin has believed all her life. 4mo
monalyisha Note: TW for abuse (domestic, sexual, emotional). This is called “a riveting social comedy” but it isn‘t. Not really. It‘s about families, which means that it has its share of tenderness and ribbing but the trauma and struggle, for me, felt a lot more prevalent — even alongside the love. Despite the author‘s clear wit, I don‘t think this can properly be called a “comedy” without conveying a half-truth about tone. (edited) 4mo
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Megabooks Fantastic review!! 4mo
JuniperWilde I appreciate the review - I loved the authors first book. 4mo
CarolynM I started this a while ago and I agree it‘s readable, but I got distracted and haven‘t got back to it. Your review makes me want to pick it up again. 4mo
monalyisha @CarolynM I wouldn‘t discourage that! The ending felt satisfying. 4mo
monalyisha Thanks @Megabooks ✨! 4mo
monalyisha @JuniperWilde I‘d read it - but I won‘t run to pick it up. I liked her writing but it wasn‘t a head-over-heels, new favorite author situation. I‘ve heard great things, though! 4mo
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Ghosts in the House! | Kazuno Kohara
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I mentioned a little bit ago that I was taking a rug-making workshop towards the end of May. Today was that day. Dig my little ghostie! 👻

SamAnne That is cute AF 4mo
5feet.of.fury So cute! 4mo
FlowerFairy Oh my goodness! So cute! 👻 4mo
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dabbe Adorable! 💜💜💜 4mo
Tamra Love it! 4mo
Ruthiella Very cute! 💜 4mo
rockpools That‘s so fun! 4mo
DaveGreen7777 Awww! It‘s boo-tiful! 🤩👻 4mo
monalyisha Thanks everyone! Appreciate the comments @SamAnne @5feet.of.fury @FlowerFairy @dabbe @Tamra @Ruthiella @rockpools ! And appreciate the pun, @DaveGreen7777 😜! 4mo
Kennglenn Great job! 4mo
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“Even more than most television of that era, the show sounded like a throwaway. It had that silly title [Buffy the Vampire Slayer]. It was based on a campy movie, starred a soap opera actress…And if you tried to describe the plot, it screamed “guilty pleasure”…It looked like a good way to kill time before getting back to analyzing themes of the public woman in George Eliot‘s Daniel Deronda…I‘d never finish my doctorate.”

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monalyisha And I thought quitting 10 years of dance classes to watch Buffy on Tuesday nights was a big deal! 😂 (edited) 4mo
Karons1 Omg 😱 I adored buffy in the 90s 😍😍 4mo
ChaoticMissAdventures I read an article about how Buffy saved a family! The dad stayed back during a tornado to watch it while the family and their neighbors went to the root cellar, a tree fell on the cellar door and locked them in and the dad was able to cut up and move the tree! 4mo
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thewallflower0707 I love Buffy, I own all the DVDs 📀 4mo
TheLudicReader I think I have watched Buffy more times than any other show. It never gets old. 4mo
AnneCecilie Love Buffy. I own all the DVDs and a lot of books. Both books set within the universe but also nonfiction focusing on the episodes and analysing those. Buffy got me reading books in English. 4mo
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I‘ve owned this book, “I Like to Watch: Arguing My Way Through the TV Revolution”, forever. Once I learned that it contained spoilers for shows I haven‘t gotten around to watching, I decided not to read it “yet.” I may never read it.

This morning, though, I remembered that it kicks-off with an essay about Buffy the Vampire Slayer. And that? That I can read. A dozen times over. 🧛🏻‍♀️🧄⚰️

CallMeIshmael Buffy is the best 4mo
monalyisha @CallMeIshmael Agreed! I don‘t think I could ever overemphasize how formative it was for me. 4mo
CallMeIshmael @monalyisha same, episodes of that show spoke to my soul 4mo
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JamieArc I‘ve had this on my audiobook shelf forever! Perhaps time to get to it. 4mo
monalyisha @JamieArc It only floated to the top of my consciousness lately because my mother-in-law came over and noticed it on my shelves. She was like, “I like to watch”? Alyisha! You have to be careful about what you leave out!” 😂 She was being intentionally cheeky. Lovely, ridiculous woman. 4mo
JamieArc @monalyisha She sounds great 😂 4mo
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Pax | Sara Pennypacker
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I read Pax in 2016 when I was on a middle school book award committee, then again this week for my Children‘s Literature book club for adults. I forgot how much I truly loved it! It‘s “about” a boy & his fox. It‘s *about* the human capacity for hurt but also, healing & redemption. It‘s about the transformative power of anger (both good & bad), the costs of war, the right to choose, what‘s wild & tame, found family, & the power of story. 👇🏻

Magpiegem Wow it sounds amazing! One to pick up for my little boys xx 4mo
monalyisha 1/1: In the acknowledgements, Pennypacker thanks her editors who she calls “insightful writers who don‘t tolerate any lazy sentences.” I imagine them yelling back to her the playground taunt, “NO, YOU ARE!” (or, “I know you are but what am I?”). It‘s a gorgeous book on every level. (edited) 4mo
monalyisha @Magpiegem It‘s one I‘d recommend to specific kids rather than across the board, I think. It‘s quiet, thoughtful, and emotional - with a high vocabulary level and lots of words of wisdom. The connection between Peter & his pet fox will capture the attention of animal lovers, though, for sure! And I‘d recommend it enthusiastically to certain readers — just not without knowing more about their reading habits. 🦊 4mo
WhyNotReadAllDay I remember reading this in middle school as well, and I remember it being simply emotion packed. It was a great book and unlike most others, I remembered it just hit different when I read it at night or in the evening. Hope you enjoy! 4mo
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Picnic, Lightning | Billy Collins
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Having worked in bookstores, I don‘t think I‘d want to own one. 🙈 Retail is stressful! But just for fun:

An indoor park & bookstore, inspired by winters in New England. A large grassy area. Lots of plants. SAD lamps. Blankets to borrow. A cafe to grab a picnic lunch: wine, cheese, fruit, nuts — charcuterie. Freshly-baked baguettes. Somewhere you can buy books, read, & forget it‘s cold outside. Perhaps called Picnic, Lightning.

monalyisha I imagine we‘d have lots of overhead costs (literally, with the lighting!). We‘d likely have to charge an admission fee, like at a botanical garden. No music — at least, not in the park. Maybe some tunes &/or ambient nature sounds in the cafe. Coffee, obviously. And storytime once a week. Because who am I if I‘m not leading storytime? I think the bookstore itself would be fairly small, the selection highly cultivated & rotating. (edited) 4mo
monalyisha Okay, okay…I‘ve changed my mind. Now accepting rich donors! 😂 4mo
Eggs Great concepts 💙🩵💙 Thanks for playing 🥰 4mo
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