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Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything
Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything: A Memoir | Alyson Stoner
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Actor-dancer Alyson Stoner's revelatory and incisive memoirfrom family violence and betrayal, to eating disorders and religious traumamay begin in Hollywood, but its chilling relatability will resonate with anyone navigating identity, privacy, purpose, and mental health in a digital age. Raised on soundstages and studio lots from the age of six, shuffling between auditions for Disney Channel, Cheaper by the Dozen, or Missy Elliott music videos, Alyson Stoner experienced many of the defining moments of childhood inside the bizarre fishbowl of Hollywood. From working eighty hours a week at eight years old, to learning how to distinguish fan mail from kidnapping plots, to TV execs saying they werent anorexic enough to stop working and get help, Alyson struggled to find stability and sanity in a chaotic world. In Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything, Alyson shares their powerful story for the first time, detailing a turbulent home life fractured by substance abuse, harrowing accounts from rehab, the messy process of discovering their sexuality in church, rebuilding a life after an early professional peak, and charting a path of self-discovery and advocacy. With striking introspection, Alyson connects the dots across the entertainment industry ecosystem, child development, and media culture, exposing the toddler to trainwreck pipeline of child stars and sparking timely conversations about success and societys enchantment with fame. Bold, entertaining, warm, and galvanizing all at once, Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything is more than a personal memoir: its a beacon for industry reform, a road map for breaking the bonds of generational trauma, and a testament to the freedom and strength that come from finally trusting your own voice and power.
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Kaylamburson
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Alyson shares their personal & professional struggles, & you can feel how genuine they are through every page. They‘re a terrific writer. I was rooting for them throughout, even knowing they didn‘t receive a role, I was still hoping for a different outcome for them.
There‘s an optimistic feeling at the end where it really seems like they are semi-well adjusted despite literally everything and have a path forward they are excited about.

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rachelsbrittain
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I loved a number of Alyson Stoner's movies growing up, but I don't think you need to know her work to get something out of this book. Like "I'm Glad My Mom Died," it explores the exploitation and abuse child actors. Even more so than McCurdy's book, though, Stoner's account is noteworthy in the ways it exposes an industry (not just bad actors within it) that seems to be inherently abusive toward the children working within it. TWs hidden below.

rachelsbrittain Trigger warnings: divorce, child abuse, narcissistic caretaker, mentions of alcohol abuse, graphic depictions of eating and exercise disorders, inpatient esting disorder treatment, religious homophobia, graphic depictions of rape 5d
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Melismatic
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If I could give this 6 stars out of 5, I would.

Brutally honest and achingly empathetic, this memoir details child stardom, predatory Hollywood practices, eating disorders & beauty standards, religious & sexuality phobias/discrimination, and sexual assault. It‘s unflinching and sometimes pretty painful to read. I give Alyson so much credit for being so vulnerable & honest.

I‘d recommend whether you‘re familiar with their work or not. 😭

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TheBookDream
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A smart, compelling personal account of the “toddler-to-trainwreck” pipeline. They also talk extensively about their personal healing journey and the work they‘ve done to help others. Including extensive work to protect kids in the entertainment industry. Heed the trigger warnings. #summerreading #queer #memoir

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Melismatic
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I‘m only a third in to Alyson‘s memoir but am already so engrossed with how they describe navigating the entertainment business as a single digit age child star.

I know them best for dancing in music videos by Missy Elliot and being egregiously underutilized in the DCOM film series “Camp Rock” (above).

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