“That‘s what life is. Life is where you sleep and what you see when you wake up in the morning, and who you tell about your weird dream, and what you eat for breakfast and who you eat it with. Life isn‘t something that happens to you. It‘s something you make yourself, all the time. Life is that half minute in the morning before your cat remembers she‘s kind of a grouch, when she pours out her love and doesn‘t give a flying newton who sees it.”