"Sit. Feast on your life"
Once we pave the roads of love for self, it becomes essential to joy

"At these frightful words, the spirit of the Wooster felt as if it had been sat on by an elephant. And not one of your streamlined, schoolgirl-figured elephants, either. A big, fat one" When I meet people who produce humour in the middle of crisis, I tie them to the old heartstrings with hoops of steel :)