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Weird timing, but reading a book about dating/life advice during the quarantine probably worked out for the best. I have the time to absorb the advice and think about how I need to grow before attempting dating again. No lie, but reading this did show me all the ways I went wrong when I attempted to date last year. Nothing like a quarantine to make you grow as a person!

There were things I liked about this and things I didn‘t. Likes: he has some good tips about how to be more social in general which is helpful for an introvert like myself. Dislikes: at one point he basically said that a woman has to be 20 different specific things all at once for a guy to want to date her. Said that being yourself is not a good idea.
Probably not the best thing for a single introvert to read on Valentine‘s Day!

Such an interesting read!

I loved the start of this book - tips for starting conversations and being more confident (which most of us bookworm types can make use of I'm sure). However, I felt it some became rather archaic in its approach to relationships, and It began to stir up unsettling feelings towards how women are still advised to act a certain way... In my opinion, there is not a one size fits all guide to love for every uniquely wonderful human being out there!

Another work day complete! Time for some reading and cooking, can you guess what's on the menu? 😏🍝🧀

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