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The Lovers
The Lovers: Afghanistan's Romeo and Juliet, the True Story of How They Defied Their Families and Escaped an Honor Killing | Rod Nordland
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A riveting, real-life equivalent of The Kite Runneran astonishingly powerful and profoundly moving story of a young couple willing to risk everything for love that puts a human face on the ongoing debate about womens rights in the Muslim world. Zakia and Ali were from different tribes, but they grew up on neighboring farms in the hinterlands of Afghanistan. By the time they were young teenagers, Zakia, strikingly beautiful and fiercely opinionated, and Ali, shy and tender, had fallen in love. Defying their families, sectarian differences, cultural conventions, and Afghan civil and Islamic law, they ran away together only to live under constant threat from Zakias large and vengeful family, who have vowed to kill her to restore the familys honor. They are still in hiding. Despite a decade of American good intentions, women in Afghanistan are still subjected to some of the worst human rights violations in the world. Rod Nordland, then the Kabul bureau chief of the New York Times, had watched these abuses unfold for years when he came upon Zakia and Ali, and has not only chronicled their plight, but has also shepherded them from danger. The Lovers will do for womens rights generally what Malalas story did for womens education. It is an astonishing story about self-determination and the meaning of love that illustrates, as no policy book could, the limits of Western influence on fundamentalist Islamic culture and, at the same time, the need for change.
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TheBookHippie
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#FOODANDLIT Afghanistan

https://upfront.scholastic.com/issues/2017-18/090417/afghanistan-s-romeo-and-jul...

Just fascinating and heartbreaking seeing how things are now…

GingerAntics This sounds really good, actually. 2y
TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I was totally enthralled I love a good nonfiction love story. 2y
GingerAntics I think I‘m going to have to hunt down this book. 2y
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TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I library loaned it from a neighboring library! So glad they had a physical copy. 2y
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie neither of the libraries I have access to have it. It doesn‘t surprise me. Neither are areas that are particularly interested in viewing people from the Middle East as humans. 2y
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie found it on Apple Books, though. 2y
TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I always forget to look there! 🤣 2y
TheBookHippie @GingerAntics don‘t skip any of the extras it‘s all good then you can goggle the rest of their story from when the book ends til now. It‘s definitely nonfiction and not you know “romance happy la la” which is where pans of the book happen I think…🤦🏻‍♀️ 2y
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie that‘s where all of my audiobooks and ebooks are from, so it‘s a knee jerk reaction. Now if the iPhone app could actually function. I‘m not sure what they did to it. At least the iPad app works brilliantly. The latest update broke the phone app. 2y
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie oh I love book extras!!! 2y
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MaggieCarr
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3.5☆ Despite a decade of American good intentions, women in Afghanistan are still subjected to some of the worse human rights violations in the world. Having dipped my toe into this culture by reading A House Without Windows (Hashimi), I knew I would eventually read this one as well. It is a story about self-determination and the meaning of love. I just wish their plight was over as I desired a happily ever after.

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MaggieCarr
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Just starting... anyone read it?

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BooksandBrie
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Began this last night. A little confusing at first, but very interesting so far.

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lowellette
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Pickpick

NYT journalist covers an Afgani couple escaping from an honor killing in a hugely misogynistic culture. Fascinating and terrifying. Do not skip the appendixes!!!

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Dineen73
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This book was sad, and horrifying, and frightening. Every sentence made me more thankful for the freedoms I have. Parts of it were frustrating too - did Ali & Zakia not understand the ramifications of their decisions? Overall, I thought it was a great read. Eye-opening!

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Dineen73
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It's finally my turn to read this book - I've had it on hold at the library for what seems like forever! I'm 6% in but I'm hooked already. I know I will shed some tears while reading this book.