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How Not to Kill Yourself
How Not to Kill Yourself: A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists | Set Sytes
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"Humor and logic are used to provide practical mental health and self-care strategies to creative people suffering from depression and suicidal ideation"--
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DogMomIrene
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Mehso-so

I‘m not clinically depressed, but I do consider myself an imaginative pessimist who gets pissed at the world sometimes, moreso post-2016. But also, people, how hard is it to follow a common set of rules for overall harmony? Not the target audience. I think if someone were on that edge of suicidal ideation then this book might be more helpful. Doesn‘t hurt to read it. Typical advice that may be overlooked if depressed. Did enjoy Sytes‘ humor.

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Bookwomble
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Pickpick

I was drawn to the title because I thought it should properly be called "How to Not Kill Yourself" (and I remain of that view), then, because it looked like a young person's view of depression, a useful perspective as I've not fitted that descriptor for some time. So: I think it's an excellent resource for young adults, being written in an engaging (sweary) way, and, actually, I found it personally helpful, so I'd recommend it for us fossils, too

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Bookwomble
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"Looking at my book collection (just looking at it, picking books up and flicking through and putting them back and picking up another... maybe smelling a few...)"

- One of "Set's simple reasons to stay alive"
#shelfie

Tiyas7 @Bookwomble Just casually navigating through my bookshelf...One of the simplest but extremely important reasons to stay alive☺ 6y
Bookwomble @Tiyas7 Word! ☺ 6y
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Bookwomble
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“The only things that could be considered wrong with you could also be considered the fault of the world around you. There is little-to-nothing intrinsically wrong with you.”

Trashcanman This reminded me of the passage from Yuval Harari's Sapiens. “In truth, our concepts ‘natural‘ and ‘unnatural‘ are taken not from biology, but from Christian theology. The theological meaning of ‘natural‘ is ‘in accordance with the intentions of the God who created nature… To use [our body] differently than God intends is ‘unnatural.‘ But evolution has no purpose.” 6y
Bookwomble @Trashcanman I'm always bemused by the "it's not natural" argument being used on God's "natural" medium of communication, the internet! 6y
Trashcanman @Bookwomble lmao truth! They never know how to respond to it. 6y
TiredLibrarian I'm reading the tagged book, and your quote seems like the entire premise of this book. Very interesting; it's not a new idea but definitely one to examine more closely. 6y
Bookwomble @TiredLibrarian It's a broadly humanistic psychology view that distances itself from the medical model of distress. I incline towards the humanistic trauma-informed model summed up by, "Don't ask what's wrong with me, ask what happened to me". 6y
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Bookwomble
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"Staying alive with a brain bent on self-annihilation, in a world that doesn't necessarily value your worth, is the ultimate radical act."

- Faith G. Harper (Introduction)

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