Your grandfather was born in Austria, your father in Serbia but they were born in the same town. Your mother is Slovenian but speaks Serbo-Croatian. You were born in Yugoslavia in a town that used to belong to Italy. Your Serbian father was a general in the Yugoslavian army and is now a war criminal. You haven‘t seen him in over 15 years. There is no longer a nation called Yugoslavia. What is your fatherland in this situation? Amazing book.