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Loved and Missed
Loved and Missed | Susie Boyt
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'I was in the story, feeling everything. I cared about every character . . . She writes beautifully. It was a total pleasure' Philippa Perry, author of The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read Susie Boyt writes with a mordant wit and vivid style which are at their best in Loved and Missed. When your beloved daughter is lost in the fog of addiction and you make off with her baby in order to save the day, can willpower and a daring creative zeal carry you through ? Examining the limits, disappointments and excesses of love in all its forms, this marvellously absorbing novel, full of insight and compassion, delights as much as it disturbs. ~ 'She takes the study of love into uncharted territory and every sentence has its depth and pleasure' Linda Grant 'I am so moved: it carries a huge emotional power... I ache for them all. Poignant, witty, lyrical and perceptive' Joan Bakewell
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Anna40
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The story of women-mothers,daughters, grandmothers,friends-is first told through the eyes of Ruth. Her daughter Eleanor is a drug addict and no matter how much Ruth tries,she cannot help &what‘s worse her love is unrequited-love missed. Then Lily, Eleanor‘s daughter, comes into Ruth‘s life&the love these 2 feel for one another is beautiful, almost too idyllic. And there are also Ruth‘s many girlfriends&her female students.The writing is wonderful

Anna40 Yet, I loved the first half more than the rest and found myself drifting off towards the end. Also, it‘s difficult to believe that Lily had absolutely no issues or very few with a drug addict mom who abandoned her… anyway, overall a well writing emotionally resonant novel. Boyt is a fine writer. (edited) 2w
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Chelsea.Poole
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Friends, this book WRECKED me!! …as in tears streaming down my cheeks after a full day of youth soccer tournaments. One of the most human, touching books I‘ve read this year, if not ever. British teacher Ruth loves and misses her daughter who is lost to addiction. Ruth‘s life is never the same after her granddaughter comes into the picture. I‘m not doing this justice, and it took patience for me to really get into the book but my, my it paid off!

Amor4Libros Sounds good, stacked! 1mo
Lesliereadsalot You sold me! 1mo
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Tamra
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I‘ve tried both the audio & print and am having difficulty getting into this one. I really thought this would be squarely in my wheelhouse. Maybe I‘m not focusing and need to come back to it another time.

BarbaraBB That cover is 🔥 8mo
Chelsea.Poole I just finished this after starting and stopping several times. I can tell you: it‘s so worthwhile if you can make it through to the last 1/4 of the book! 1mo
Tamra @Chelsea.Poole thank you for the encouragement. 🙂 1mo
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Kazzie
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Super good. I like both perspectives. Seemed like a very real and nuanced account of living with a family member with SUD. Beautifully written, want to explore more Susie Boyd

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nocto
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I just realised I was missing Litsy! I don‘t know why I stopped posting but I‘m here again now!

I loved this story about Ruth, the mother of a heroin addict daughter, who pretty much kidnaps her baby granddaughter to care for her. Seemed to me it had realistic characters and relationships. A moving story composed of mundane details. And an excellent ending.

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merelybookish
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What does it mean to be a motherless daughter, or be a daughterless mother. Ruth's daughter Eleanor is lost to addiction. When Eleanor becomes a mother, Lily goes to live with Ruth. They love each other even as Eleanor's absence wounds them both. This book is sad but it's not just sad. There's a lot of empathy here too. And surprising hope and joy. A beautifully-written short book, but one that demands a slow pace.

jlhammar Glad to see this is a pick for you! I recently got the new NYRB edition. Looking forward to it. 1y
batsy I've been curious about this one! Nice review. 1y
merelybookish @jlhammar I look forward to hearing your thoughts! 🙂 1y
merelybookish @batsy Thanks! I say give it a go! Sad subject but the writing is lovely! 1y
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jlhammar
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#bookhaul part 1

Went a bit crazy at the bookstore today. My aim was just to pop in quick for the new Osman. North Woods sounds right up my street and it‘s always fun to get a signed copy. Seems like a good candidate for #ToB24.

Tagged is a new NYRB release (published earlier in the UK, I believe). Kirkus starred review says “Readers who are averse to crying in public be warned: You‘ll want to sit with this astounding story at home.”

BookwormM Absolutely loved North Woods hope you enjoy 1y
Tamra Anxious to read what you think about the tagged novel! 1y
Suet624 Fantastic selection! 1y
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