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Differently Wired
Differently Wired: Raising an Exceptional Child in a Conventional World | Deborah Reber
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Today millions of kids are stuck in a world that doesn't respect, support, or embrace who they really arethese are what Deborah Reber is calling the differently wired kids, the one in five children with ADHD, dyslexia, Aspergers, giftedness, anxiety, sensory processing disorder, and other neurodifferences. Their challenges are many. But for the parents who love them, the challenges are just as hardstruggling to find the right school, the right therapist, the right parenting group while feeling isolated and harboring endless internal doubts about whats normal, whats not, and how to handle it all. But now theres hope. Written by Deborah Reber, a bestselling author and mother in the midst of an eye-opening journey with her son who is twice exceptional (he has ADHD, Aspergers, and is highly gifted), Differently Wired is a how-to, a manifesto, a book of wise advice, and the best kind of been-there, done-that companion. On the one hand its a book of saying NO, and how its time to say no to trying to fit your round-peg kid into societys square holes, no to educational and social systems that dont respect your child, no to the anxiety and fear that keep parents stuck. And then its a book of YES. By offering 18 paradigm shiftswhat she calls tilts Reber shows how to change everything. How to Get Out of Isolation and Connect. Stop Fighting Who Your Child Is and Lean In. Let Go of What Others Think. Create a World Where Your Child Can Feel Secure. Find Your People (and Ditch the Rest). Help Your Kids Embrace Self-Discovery. And through these alternative ways of being, discover how to stay open, pay attention, and become an exceptional parent to your exceptional child.
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MaureenMc
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August was a great reading month! Here‘s hoping for an equally awesome September!

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ncsufoxes
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My background is early intervention so I have always been reading books so I could help parents. When you have a kid that is very different and with a long list of diagnoses you seek out as much information as you can (at least I do, my husband reads scientific papers as his way to cope and understand). I loved a lot of her ideas and a differing perspective. It‘s nice to have a bit of hope when you feel so overwhelmed on this path.

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thereadingowlvina
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An insightful book about parenting and coaching neurodivergent kids. A must read for parents or those in teaching profession.

Rating: 5⭐

For my full review please visit https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2961896399

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Leelee08
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Today‘s #AnglophileApril prompt is an interesting one. The first thing I thought of for #boysdontcry is anything about autism and boys being different. My autistic 11-year-old has no problems crying or showing his feelings, and I adore it. I think we need more emotion in this world, especially in the boys we‘re raising. This is a fascinating book on neuro-diverse kids and the issues they face.

BibliOphelia 👋 Hi! Mom of an autistic 8yo boy here, and I haven‘t read this one. Just about to start Why I Jump. Glad for this recommendation! 5y
Leelee08 @BibliOphelia Hello!👋🏻 Glad to know I‘m in good company!☺️ 5y
Mdargusch @Reviewsbylola needs to read this ! 5y
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Gina I have an 18 year old who also is living with this. He is the love of my life. 5y
Reviewsbylola Yes I am stacking it! @mdargusch 5y
Leelee08 @Gina 🥰🥰🥰 5y
Leelee08 @Reviewsbylola 😁👏🏻😍 5y
emilyhaldi I ❤️ my autistic niece ☺️☺️☺️ 5y
Leelee08 @emilyhaldi 💕💕💕 5y
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AmandaL
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This book is for anyone with a neurodiverse child. None of the information is new, but the second half of the book is laid out in a self-help style format, to help parents be their best for their kids. What I liked about the book is that it advocated helping atypical kids (no matter if that means dyslexic, ASD, ADHD, gifted or twice exceptional, etc.) to be their best selves, not try to change them. What often irks me about these books (below)

AmandaL Is that they are written by people who have a tremendous amount of privilege. The author did address this a bit, but not every parent has the resources to homeschool, hire private therapists, or even get the correct diagnosis for their child. Regardless, the book was very respectful toward neurodiverse children, and had tips anyone can implement to be a better, stronger, more helpful advocate for their child. 6y
Owlizabeth I have this on hold at the library. My boys have ASD and are both in their teens and doing really well, but I love to see new theories on parenting ND kids. 6y
AmandaL @Owlizabeth I'm interested to read what you think. I tend to 4 and 5 star all the books I read. The book is probably more helpful for parents of younger kids (my youngest with ADHD is almost a teen) but it has some good ideas. 6y
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