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Joined June 2020

Loves: coffee, the beach, social justice, historical fiction & non-fiction. goodreads.com/goodreadscomjebfox
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We went to the DC Zoo today & found out about bird friendly coffee. Did not know there was such a thing. My oldest wants to go to grad school & do bird research. He‘s already encouraged us to buy plants & flowers that are more native to the area to encourage more pollinators. He‘s becoming my conscience more when shopping or purchasing things. In case you‘re interested in learning more. https://nationalzoo.si.edu/migratory-birds/bird-friendly

Bookwormjillk Is the new Africa exhibit open yet? 2d
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My Friends | Fredrik Backman
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Low pick, more like a meh. The only reason why I say a pick is because I get the point of the story about connections, life, art. My mom & sister saw Bachman in person & loved his explanation. My sister feels that I don‘t get the point of the story since she her the author explain himself. It just felt very repetitive to me. I kept reading because my mom raved (my mom rarely raves about a book). Either I read too much NF & fiction is not engaging

ncsufoxes me as much or I‘m emotionally stunted. I usually love Bachman‘s books, I loved Beartown. But this one was just not what I expected. 3d
TheBookgeekFrau I was so disappointed with the writing. 3d
FortunateSon I enjoyed the book but it was definitely my least favorite Backman novel. 3d
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Low pick, kind of disappointed. I love the sarcastic banter & back/forth between her 2 main characters (I loved Funny Story & Book Lovers). In this case Alice & Hayden but they are competing to write Margaret‘s life story. It had Taylor Jenkins Reid vibes to me. I look forward to Emily Henry‘s summer books…romance fun, great to read at the beach. This was more about complicated family relationships.

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Caregiving: Things You Need to Know | Dr. Eboni Ivory Green
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PBS just released a 2 hour documentary produced by Bradley Cooper on Caregiving. In the US many people become caregivers to their disabled children/adults, sick/aging parents. My mom cared for my dad until he passed from Lewy Body Dementia. My MIL cared for my FIL as he was dying of cancer. The US offers little to no assistance for people who become caregivers to their loved ones. My dad & FIL had Medicare & insurance which allowed for hospice

Bookwormjillk We do a lot of research on caregiving at the firm where I work. I am looking forward (not the right words but you know what I mean) to watching this. 4d
ncsufoxes care in the end at home. The possible cuts to Medicaid will have a drastic effect on the role of parents & loved ones as caregivers. There was an article a few weeks ago about the enormous effects on parents as caregivers for disabled children, basically that it‘s draining emotionally & mentally, but worse than realized. (I‘m a caregiver to my Autistic child & I can attest to that). I‘ll put the link below to watch 4d
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AmyG I was caregiver to my Mom who had alzheimers. It‘s so very hard. Thanks for putting this on my radar. 4d
Deblovestoread My dad cared for my stepmom through her Alzheimer‘s. My brothers and I went as much as we could while we worked etc but close to her end of life I wasn‘t sure my dad would survive due to the complete exhaustion being her caregiver created. 4d
ncsufoxes @Deblovestoread my dad‘s neurological health starting declining in 2021. He saw lots of specialists & they all told my mom he was in the early stages of dementia. He was hospitalized in Jan. 2024 for hallucinations & complete loss of functions. After 2 weeks he was able to go home & ending passing a few short months later. The dr that did the death certificate gave the exact diagnosis of Lewy Body dementia. Now a year later my mom has started 4d
ncsufoxes talking about how hard the last few years were. I was living in CA at the time & I really had no idea. She would tell me about how he saw this doctor & his anxiety was worsening. But she wasn‘t letting on with me or even my sisters that live in NC about how bad it was. She‘s connected to some support groups which I think has helped her process things better. As sad as it has been to lose my dad I‘m relieved his death was relatively quick. Care- 4d
ncsufoxes giver exhaustion is minimized. People are willing to step up to take care of a family member & our government basically exploits that. My mom was adamant about my dad going back home (they wanted him to go to a rehab facility). But I know it‘s also taken a toll on her. She has a new mission though to spend as much time as she can with my kids. Which I‘m happy we‘re only a few hours away & she‘s in good health. 4d
ncsufoxes @AmyG & @Deblovestoread I‘m sorry that both of your families had to go through those experiences 4d
AmyG I‘m so sorry about your Dad. You were oddly lucky it was relatively quick. My Mom was ill for 11 years. Brutal. (edited) 4d
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Book stack of books I‘ve purchased over the last month. I didn‘t realize I bought that many books lately. Too many books to I want to read/prioritize. Bought my daughter some Judy Blume books because I loved them when I was little & read #bannedbooks

AmyG Enjoy! 4d
KadaGul For a booklover, you can never have too many books 📚—it just means there are more genres and authors to check out! #GoodVibesOnly 🌞🤍🌻🤍🍉🤍👗🤍🕶️🤍⛱️🤍🍯 4d
Julsmarshall Loved Atmosphere! 4d
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Over the last few years I have stopped reading about WWII because it‘s been so overwhelming. This one was interesting but a hard read. The author discusses some of the early history that lead to the Holocaust, the propaganda, the acceptance of many as the Nazi party pushed its agenda forward. He discusses that it‘s impossible for any one person to be an expert in the Holocaust because it covers so many areas, regions, counties of Europe.

ncsufoxes He doesn‘t make excuses for why so many were complicit in what happened. He did discuss some of what was happening in Poland (my great grandparents emigrated to the US from Poland shortly after WWI, they were Catholic & lived somewhere near what is now the Ukraine). He also talks about after the war & basically some of the issues we have today that stem from the past. It was interesting but also difficult for many due to the traumatic past it 5d
Librarybelle Stacking 5d
kspenmoll I ordered it. Could not stop myself. Thanks. 4d
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Giovanni's Room | James Baldwin
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What‘s there to say that hasn‘t been already said about this book. James Baldwin is one of my favorite people (he‘s one of the first people that I started to listen to his old interviews when I started my antiracism journey). His writing is so powerful & plays such an important role in American fiction.

ncsufoxes I‘m really behind but this is one from my list of my #14books14weeks @Liz_M 5d
Amiable I just finished this, too! Excellent read. 5d
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I‘ve had this one on my shelves for a while. Happy that I finally picked it up, it was what I needed. Big RBG fan & now a bigger fan. The book has details about her court decisions & dissents she has written. I loved learning about RBG‘s insights into cases she‘s been a part of over her long law career. She makes me wish I knew who she was when I was younger & went into law. #realhistory #honesthistory

Librarybelle I need to read this! 5d
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Most every science student (biological & social) has now been required to learn about Henrietta Lacks. She plays a vital role in science & consent. Racism & the treatment of Black people in America in the medical community in the past & present still play a larger role in health treatment & disparities. Definitely a must read if you‘re interested in learning about what the Lacks family has endured for generations. #realhistory #honesthistory

Librarybelle This is one that I often think about. Such a good book about a horrific occurrence. 5d
Amiable Great book 5d
mcctrish This is the book that completely turned me onto non-fiction 4d
kspenmoll I was honored to meet 3 of her grandchildren & the author when they came to UConn years ago. 4d
TheBookgeekFrau Great book!! I think of it often and give a thanks to HL for all the good that came from her despite the wrongs done to her and her family. 4d
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#wdncw #WeDoNotCareWednesday I do not care that I have spent my last few days just reading & ignoring everything else while my youngest is at summer camp this week (she is at camp for 8 hours a day).

Susanita It‘s good to “see” you. I hope your daughter didn‘t melt at camp. 5d
Chrissyreadit i love the WDNC club 💛 5d
AmyG Isn‘t that why we send kids to camp? 🤣 5d
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ncsufoxes @AmyG I wish I could get her to do more but she‘s been nope about everything. This camp was the best money spent. They were saying today that they‘ll have a coupon for next summer, sounds good to me. 5d
ncsufoxes @Susanita she‘s at Camp Invention. Basically a science & math camp, so they‘re inside all day making inventions. She loves it, she wants to be an astronaut/engineer when she grows up. 5d
ncsufoxes @Chrissyreadit I love the WDNC, it‘s nice to know others can commiserate & you feel seen 5d
dabbe Amen! L🤩VE this! #readandignore!!! 😍 4d
dabbe @Chrissyreadit 💙🩵💙 4d
dabbe @AmyG 😂🤣😂 4d
dabbe @ncsufoxes 💙🩵💙 4d
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Book list from the African American National History Museum https://nmaahc.si.edu/visit/museum-store/juneteenth-reading-list

The Whitney Plantation is also offering 19% off all books online today

We need diverse books also has a good list of books

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I read this passage today & felt how applicable it is to today. Especially with what is happening to so many immigrant families in the US right now. This was a letter written by a French priest in 1942 that was read to most of the churches in Toulouse. Currently, I still don‘t understand how people call themselves a Christian & have no qualms about what is happening to so many innocent people. #ranttime

Susanita 💯 3w
Librarybelle 💯 3w
Deblovestoread Same 💔 3w
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My husband & I are going to Charleston, SC next month sans kids. We are staying on Meeting Street. We don‘t have a planned itinerary, besides going to the new African American Museum. It‘s been many years since we‘ve last been there. Any good bookstores to visit?

Ruthiella Isn‘t this kinda where you all live @BarkingMadRead and @TheSpineView ? 🤔 4w
TheSpineView I'm about 4 hours from Charleston in the upstate. Very near the NC/GA border on Lake Keowee. @Ruthiella 4w
BarkingMadRead I think it‘s called the Blue Bicycle? It‘s not huge but it‘s cute! 4w
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Many young boys go into You Tube & find their way to these sites which are preaching these principles of hate against women. It‘s all crafted in a certain way to make boys unaware (as well as their parents) of what they are stumbling upon. Social media has long since been complicit in not shutting these men down. Not to mention the media also plays a part in how people that commit violent acts are “good or misunderstood” aka White men/boy who was

ncsufoxes “a lone wolf, smart but misunderstood, they didn‘t mean it.” I lived in Poway, CA where the shooting at the synagogue happened a few years ago. The kid that did it became radicalized very quickly. He was a few years older than my son. His dad was a teacher at my son‘s high school (where the shooter also went). The parents were stunned to find out about how he had been radicalized. They disowned him & have not talked to him since he was arrested. 1mo
ncsufoxes They disavowed what he did & were no part of his trial. The dad stopped teaching for a year. It was horrible to watch but it put this stuff on my radar & started talking about it with my teenage son. This book gave me more insight into just how horrible this web connecting alt-right, misogyny, white supremacy, racism is all connected to this disgusting place called the manosphere. (edited) 1mo
TheBookHippie This book is a must read. 1mo
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One of those highly important books, especially at this moment. This info is more relevant now than when it was written just a few years ago. Reason is the current president is a convicted felon for assault & this shows the men in the manosphere that they can get away with anything & not be held accountable. I am horrified for my daughter to know that there are men (boys being mainstreamed into this narrative) that women are evil. That women are

ncsufoxes the reason why men are not succeeding (not the fact that the education system in most states is failing many or that most people in the US read at a 7th grade level). You Tube & most other social media are cesspools which allow people to preach hate & glorifying brutalization of women…all in the name of free speech. Young boys are unwittingly drawn into these hate filled narratives under the guise of “manliness.” Hard read but very necessary 1mo
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Perfect example of sexism. My daughter had 2 fliers sent home for basketball camps at the high school down the road. Both camps are sponsored by the same booster club. The boys get a nice card & the girls get a photocopy. Also the boys camp only has a $5 late fee for registering after a certain date & the girls it‘s a $20 fee. I told my husband that this shows girls don‘t matter as much as boys (I know that most parents don‘t think this but it

ncsufoxes irritates me). It shows girls sports are not as important as boys. I know that most young girls do not see this & think that but this is the message we are reinforcing. Now I need to figure out who to speak with about this. (edited) 1mo
Bookwormjillk This is why I was so excited when my daughter started playing field hockey. Here it‘s only a girl‘s sport. Soccer was infuriating! 1mo
Amiable As a female who grew up playing softball, basketball and soccer during the ‘80s, I feel this so much. We were always second-class citizens it came to athletics. 1mo
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TheBookHippie @Amiable my daughter played basketball it was horrific then too (99-05) Tennis late 70s early 80s was horrific for me. 😵‍💫 I can‘t even discuss Archery. 1mo
TheBookHippie @Bookwormjillk that‘s how volleyball is here! 1mo
RamsFan1963 Every year, when it's time for the NCAA March Madness, the men's games get all the attention, the major broadcasts and all the newspaper & internet space, while the women's tournament is treated as an afterthought. It pisses me off, the women's tournament usually has better games and storylines, but if you don't go looking for the games on ESPN 2 or 3, you'd never know a tournament was even being played!! 1mo
RamsFan1963 And, don't even get me started on how the WNBA is treated compared to the Gods of the NBA 😡😡😡 1mo
ncsufoxes @RamsFan1963 tell me about it. Our 9 year old daughter likes basketball & we try & watch more games with her but they‘re so hard to find. We are NC State alumni & when the women‘s team made it to the final four we watched the games with her. Women‘s soccer is the same way. I wish they would show more matches on tv but they‘re of course don‘t. It‘s hard to show your daughter (& sons)strong women when they don‘t give them equal air time. 1mo
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I‘ve been slowly reading this book for the last month. I want to part vomit, throw the book across the room, sign my daughter up for every self defense class from now until eternity. My oldest (he‘s 21) he‘s been telling me for the last few years that social media is a cesspool. He said the white supremacy is so bad. It‘s good to be knowledgeable but ugh this is horrific. Its of course only gotten worse since the 🍊one is back & now that he‘s a

ncsufoxes convicted offender it only gives these groups more power & lack of restraint. 1mo
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Kills Well with Others | Deanna Raybourn
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Another fun addition to the series as Billie, Helen, Mary Alice, & Natalie come out of retirement to figure who is targeting them. I do like the references to past history & art. I hope that there will be another installment

ncsufoxes Although I didn‘t get the whole reference to the teddy bear several times. I really thought it was going to play a more important part of the story. That was my only minor irritation. 1mo
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The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story | Nikole Hannah-Jones, The New York Times Company
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I started this one a few years ago & then life got busy & I put it aside. I‘m happy that I finally went back to finish it. I had this cathartic moment as I was finishing that the topics & subjects covered in this book are really difficult things to face & come to terms with. Not making excuses for people because they just need to unlearn that sh—. But I can also see why people can‘t unlearn it. US history is so entwined with racism that most don‘t

ncsufoxes even realize it‘s racism. I really felt that what Bryan Stevenson said captures why it‘s so hard to overcome & recon with our past. “Recognizing the unbroken links between slavery, Black Codes, lynching, & our current era of mass incarceration is essential. Like generations before, we must struggle for an end to bigotry. We must fight to repair the damage created by centuries of racial injustice. We must commit to a new era of truth & justice, one 1mo
ncsufoxes in which we honestly confront our past so that we can understand what remedies are needed to achieve healthy communities & justice for people who have been fairly excluded & targeted. Our nation must acknowledge the four hundred years of injustice that haunt us.” 1mo
ncsufoxes “In Germany, there has been a meaningful reckoning with the history of the Holocaust; this sort of reflection & remembrance has been largely absent in America, where many people resist confronting the most disturbing & difficult parts of our past.” #realhistory #honesthistory 1mo
Librarybelle So true…US history is so entwined with racism that most don‘t see it. Great review! 1mo
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Odder | Katherine Applegate
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Thumbs up from the 9 year old, she is loving the writing from an animals perspective. It was a cute story & a nice way to highlight some of the dangers that the otter community is facing. The timeline is a little wonky in a few places but the 9 year old didn‘t mind.

TheBookHippie Oh I love this!!! 1mo
Butterfinger It was one of my read alouds this year, and we all adored Odder. 1mo
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The Handmaid's Tale | MARGARET. ATWOOD
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TS being the mastermind that she is released her version of “Look What You Made Me Do” for The Handmaiden‘s Tale. Now she just needs to finally release Taylor‘s version of Reputation.

https://people.com/taylor-swift-surprises-look-what-you-made-me-do-rerecording-h....

marleed The timing of this song🤣🤣 1mo
Chelsea.Poole The Mastermind ✨ Love that song and can‘t wait to see how she gives us Rep (TV)! 1mo
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Reflections on different historical & cultural movements in US history pertaining to the Black community (music, dancing, movies, comedians, magic). I enjoy learning more different perspectives & how to view history in a different & cultural lens. I took notes for areas to go back & reflect on & search out more areas to read up on. “A country is something that happens to you. History is a series of thefts or migrations or escapes. Along the way

ncsufoxes new bodies are added to a lineage.” “Racism is about power & someone has to give up that power.” “There can be no solution without acknowledgment.” 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures Hanif is one of my favorite nonfiction writers. I have this one down to read this month, if you enjoy his writing I highly recommend his There's Always This Year (which is sort of about basketball which I know nothing about, but is more about love and loss and home), and They Can't Kill Us Till They Kill Us, which gave me a whole new view on music. Truly one of the greatest cultural writers of our time. 1mo
ncsufoxes @ChaoticMissAdventures this was the first book I read of his. I definitely want to read more. His latest book was on my list (I love basketball so I was already interested). I had mixed feelings about the narrator but I loved the book & gained additional perspectives in many different cultural & historical movements (learned about a whole other POV about Whitney Houston vs what I was marketed as a 1980s white girl). 1mo
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I wanted to brag about my oldest. He has been inducted (as a Junior) into Phi Kappa Phi Honors Fraternity at his university. He has worked so hard the last few years. He was a kid that struggled with his anxiety & ADHD all through elementary school (we had one teacher tell us he‘d never make it to college). Now I look at all of his accomplishments: this, Dean‘s list. He‘s studying Wildlife Biology & Conservation. He‘s told us he wants to pursue

ncsufoxes his PhD & to hopefully do research on birds (his taking summer classes & helping with a shore birds research project right now). It‘s amazing how far he‘s come & how incredibly proud we are. I never would have imagined years ago that he‘d be talking about wanting to pursue his PhD. Neurodiverse minds are amazing. 1mo
Gissy What a lovely story!❤️Yes, you deserve to be proud, you are part of that story, with your unconditional love, support, perseverance. I‘m so happy for him! Congratulations!!! 🎉 1mo
AmyG Congratulations! What great news for you all!!! Be proud! He sounds like a wonderful young man. 🙌🏻❤️ (edited) 1mo
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Ruthiella Fantastic! Congratulations to your son and his proud parents! 👏👏👏 1mo
Tamra 👏🏾👏🏾 Dedication pays off! 1mo
TheBookHippie Yaaaaaas!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 How wonderful!!!! This makes me smile so much!! 1mo
Reggie Congratulations to him and to you. It all sounds amazing. All the best wishes to him and his future. 1mo
Bookwormjillk That‘s great! 1mo
Jas16 Congratulations to you all! That is so wonderful! ❤️ 1mo
dabbe Congrats to your son! 🤩 I‘d like to slap that teacher, though! ☺️ 1mo
ncsufoxes @dabbe I know, that was his 5th grade teacher. His 1st grade teacher told my husband & I that we just might have to come to terms with that fact that “he‘s just a slow child.” This was prior to him being diagnosed with anything. That‘s why I feel it‘s important to share stories like this because it‘s important for other people to know about the obstacles that can be put in the place of many kids. My son‘s fortunate to have parents that pushed 1mo
ncsufoxes back & fought for him. Unfortunately many kids don‘t have that or many parents that feel discouraged. I think my son still suffers from a bit of imposter syndrome. I don‘t think he realizes that not everyone gets straight A‘s (of gets a final grade of 96 in Organic Chemistry). He‘s luckily found his passion & interest, which has made school easier & fun for him. 1mo
dabbe @ncsufoxes Your son sounds like a fabulous young man with lovely parents. Thanks for sharing your story. 💚💜💚 1mo
Deblovestoread Congrats to your son! Well done! 🙌🏼 1mo
DogMomIrene Congratulations! We need more people researching nature and embracing science. 1mo
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Love the Finlay Donovan series. As I was listening it was brought up that this whole series/story has taken place over a 4 month period. Which made me wonder if the author planned out the whole series in advance. Seems like there will be another Finlay book in the future. I was happy this Libby hold came through this morning since I had to drive back home from RI. I was able to listen to the whole book (9 hours) because of traffic & construction

ncsufoxes It usually only takes about 7.5 hours to get from RI to MD. FYI to anyone traveling through MD, 95 N & S have tons of construction going on. It‘s horrible, especially later in the afternoon. Not looking forward to going back in a month to pick the oldest back up from college summer session. 1mo
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I think I‘ve got my stack set for #14books14weeks I did about half fiction & half nonfiction since I primarily read NF. I feel like these are the ones I really want to read & get through this summer. Looking forward to slower days & hopefully more reading.

Bookwormjillk I really liked Challenger. 2mo
Liz_M Seems like a great move of nonfiction and fiction! I loved Giovannis Room. 2mo
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My oldest is home from college & wanted to go to the bookstore. I bought myself some books for Mother‘s Day (my husband did buy me some new flowers for my pots in the front of the house). The tagged book is one that the Naval Academy has on the banned book list, so definitely one to read.

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Turtles | Deborah Dennard
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Our neighborhood just paved a new street to get out of our subdivision. We were driving through & spotted a turtle crossing the road. My 15 year old asked me to stop & he jumped out of the car to assist the turtle across the street (he‘s Autistic & he loves animals). So watch when you‘re driving for little critters crossing. This little one was going from one creek to another but now there‘s a paved road. Eastern painted turtle

Ruthiella Aw! 🐢❤️ 2mo
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TheBookgeekFrau 🥰🥰 My husband used to stop traffic in our old town for turtles to cross the street all the time! Unfortunately, they were snapping turtles so it was a time consuming endeavor. In 13 years only once was someone an asshole about it. 2mo
AmyG Good for your son-for stopping!!! 2mo
Texreader Awww! 🥰 🐢♥️ 2mo
kspenmoll ❤️ 2mo
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The One and Only Family | Katherine Applegate
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Big thumbs up from the 9 year old as we finished up The One & Only series. She loved the continuation of Ivan‘s story as he became a dad. I read her the author‘s note after we finished & it mentioned about book bans. My daughter asked what book bans were. I realized how lucky she has been to live in cities & states that don‘t enact book bans. How she‘s always been in libraries that have lots of books for her to choose freely from. After I

ncsufoxes explained to her what they were she was like that‘s stupid & then she said that was sad. She started telling me about all the different books that her current school library has. She was telling me how they have a whole selection of books about Pride. It was a bittersweet moment but also a moment of happiness to know my sweet child realized that books should be for everyone. 2mo
TheBookHippie ♥️ 2mo
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Maybe Harvard needs to lend the head of the Department of Education an APA, MLA or some other writing manual. This was the letter that the Department of Ed sent Harvard. They marked it up, like any good professor or higher level of education school would do. They sent it back to her & then posted it on line. This is my level of petty.

AmyG I just saw this. I‘d cry if I wasn‘t laughing so much. 2mo
MemoirsForMe @ncsufoxes @AmyG This post and Amy‘s comment made my day. 🙌🏻 2mo
ncsufoxes I was just thinking about it too, do they not use Microsoft Word? I mean the editing tool on MSW would catch these mistakes & correct them. Either they were adamant about getting their point across & ignored the corrections or their assistant is just as incompetent. Glad to know the original letter will be entered into government archives 🤫 2mo
DogMomIrene Hmm, looks like the Department of Education used that A1 Sauce to write their letter😂🤣 2mo
dabbe @DogMomIrene 🤣🤣🤣 2mo
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After 2 years of sitting my shelf I finally took the time to dive into this book. One fascinating tidbit was that the FBI had/has a case file of about 2,000 pages on James Baldwin. The book is a guide of incorporating more abolitionist ideas & practices into working towards changing existing systems. Building a stronger community allows you to start to tear down old systems. She highlights disability & transformative justice initiatives.

ncsufoxes “When we are in the forgiveness driver‘s seat, we begin to see that through forgiveness we are allowed to forge new roads that are paved with compassion, decisiveness, & love. Forgiveness is not about cowardice or catering to our oppressors. An abolitionist‘s forgiveness identifies a move away from holding onto the toxicity of sorrow & victimhood. Abolitionist forgiveness becomes a pillar & tool we can use to create the healing conditions for our 2mo
ncsufoxes loved ones, as well as make demands for accountability for harm we have experienced.” 2mo
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Greta & Valdin: A Novel | Rebecca K Reilly
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I listened to this over audio, which was fabulous. Although I feel like I need to get a physical copy because I loved this book. Quirky, a story about siblings, family, love, figuring out your life, academics. I also love highlighting a character, Valdin, that has OCD (representation matters). When Greta talks about how her parents are always going to worry about Valdin because of his mental health (very validating for a mom of a kid with OCD &

ncsufoxes several other diagnoses). As a mom you always worry but as they enter adulthood it‘s a different level of worry about helping them navigate their life & mental health (especially since the US doesn‘t have a great system for mental health). 2mo
bookandbedandtea I did exactly the same- listened to the audio from the library, then decided I had to have the physical book! I loved both Greta and Valdin, as well as their whole family. 2mo
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The One and Only Ruby | Katherine Applegate
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Big thumbs up from the 9 year old as we continue through the series. Things we learned: elephants are now growing shorter tusks due to years of poaching (which is sad but cool how biology works as a way to try & protect the species). In the author‘s notes she gave some good resources: Sheldrick Wildlife Trust (oldest elephant sanctuary) & Elephant Voices website has elephant ethograms where you can learn all about elephant behaviors. She also

ncsufoxes reminded people to stay away from side of the road places offering elephant rides. If you want to see elephants or other wildlife go through ecotourism programs that allow people to see nature while protecting it. 2mo
TheBookHippie Sheldrick is wonderful!!! 2mo
TheBookHippie I love this book too. 2mo
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Like but not love for me, maybe because I read it over several weeks late at night. I did like how the author highlighted the real pain that some women can endure with endometriosis. I feel like those who have never experienced it can‘t imagine the pain or how the medical system sometimes doesn‘t take it seriously. The story is full of trigger warnings: addiction, alcoholism, child abuse. I have 2 sisters so I get the highs & lows of sisterhood.

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I‘m primarily a NF reader but sometimes I need to throw in some fun reads. This was a perfect read at the end of the day kind of book. I do love when a disability is openly discussed in a book because representation matters. As well as the idea of a disabled person having a love life (too often forgotten in most stories). Follows the typical narrative of a romance book. I have the next 2 in the series on my Kindle.

monalyisha Yay! These may be my top romances of all time. Book 2 is my favorite. 💛 2mo
peanutnine Great series! Book two is also my favorite ☺️ 2mo
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I‘ve been trying not to buy unnecessary items lately but I might have to pause that. On June 1st Lego is releasing a Sherlock Holmes book book set ($130).

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“Blindness is a radically distinct way of being in the world. Humans are so fundamentally visual in their understanding & experience that blindness requires its own domain.” I did not know that over 70% of people that are blind live in poverty. Mainly because the education model for the blind is not built on ensuring that blind people being successful. Our systems are not built for disabilities either (& currently they are all being defunded or

ncsufoxes minimized in the US). SSI for disabled people too is a horrific standard ($9,528/year, way below the poverty level & has not been adjusted since 1972). There are exacerbated differences of how people navigate the disabled world based on your family‘s income. ****Disability is a political issue.**** Always has been & always will be. Reminder too disabled people are one of the most disenfranchised groups when it comes to voting & too many (edited) 2mo
ncsufoxes decisions are made about their care, medical, education, housing, independence, livelihoods, supports without most not having equal access to vote. 2mo
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One and Only Bob | Katherine Applegate
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After finishing Ivan we moved onto Bob‘s story. Another 2 big thumbs up from the 9 year old. She loved getting hear more about Bob‘s story & how he found his home. Another sweet but sad story at times following the lives of these characters.

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One and Only Ivan | Katherine Applegate
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I read this one many years ago with my older two boys but recently read it with my 9 year old. She loved Ivan‘s story. She‘d get upset that we had to stop any time that she felt it was a cliff hanger. I love how she gets so into a story & loves reading every night. It‘s a sweet but sad story to view life from an animal(s) perspective- Ivan, Ruby, Stella, Bob.

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Our local library branch had a used book sale this weekend. My daughter & I stopped by earlier today, towards the end of the sale. We got 5 books for $3. These both were in new condition. Not that I need more but 2 I‘ve never read & happy to support our library.

AmyG Ooooo In Cold Blood is such a great book. 2mo
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Curious Iguana | Frederick, MD (Bookstore)
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Visited my local bookshop, the Curious Iguana, early this morning. It was packed in there. If you spent over $50 you were eligible for a free tote. These were 2 books on my list but they didn‘t have the new Anne Berest book 😢. I was in a time crunch so I didn‘t have a ton of time to peruse. Plus my 9 year old was with me. She found 3 new books (not pictured: New Girl, Warriors books 1 & 2). #indiebookstoreday

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Tomorrow is independent bookstore day. Diverse Books posted a list of independent bookstores. They also broke them down by the different types of owners. https://www.diversebooks.org/resources/diversebookstores Happy buying & reading!

MemoirsForMe What a great list! So many more stores in my area to support that I didn‘t know about. Thanks for posting! 🙌🏻 2mo
TheBookHippie I‘ve got my plan!!! I‘m so excited! 2mo
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😳, I unfortunately think we‘re at the start of kids telling their stories of living in a household that broadcast to YouTube of other online media sources. There are so many ethical dilemmas that go along with these situations (some of which Franke discusses in her book). The passing of the 2018 Free Range Parenting law in Utah has made it close to impossible for DSS to investigate cases of child abuse since the law is so vague. I can‘t imagine

ncsufoxes the countless kids that will be missed (although even without laws like this many kids fall through the cracks). I need to watch the show on Hulu about the family & this case now. (I don‘t follow influencers or families like this on YT, I don‘t really want to watch people exploiting their kids when the kids don‘t have a say in any of it). 2mo
AmyG Free Range Parenting? Or when I grew up….parenting. This was a crazy, sad story. (edited) 2mo
ncsufoxes @AmyG, the law was designed to give kids more freedom but it‘s probably had a more negative impact. Franke called DSS multiple times over 4 years & each time they couldn‘t press charges. It wasn‘t until they saw actual physical signs of abuse that they could press charges. Meanwhile these kids were psychologically abused for years (which has adverse health implications in the long term). 2mo
AmyG Yes, I listened to the book. My heart broke for her and her siblings. I can only hope they got the help they needed and can go on to fulfilling lives. 2mo
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“Rodrigo Duterte was not the first politician in the world to declare war on a domestic issue {sound familiar US}. Wars on poverty, pornography, hunger, obesity, cancer, & drugs have been launched & fought by presidents & potentates long before Duterte. None of these wars have so far been won. None of that matters, because for the politician, the declaration is a victory all its own. The headlines are printed. The campaigns get their slogans. The

ncsufoxes …solution is left to whoever comes next, or to God.” “The truth was simpler. It takes longer to type a sentence than it does to kill a man.” 2mo
charl08 Such an amazing book. 2mo
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Say You'll Remember Me | Abby Jimenez
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Not my favorite Jimenez book, not the usual heat, banter & humor of her destined couple. The story talks more about the bigger family concerns that Xavier & Sam have going on & what draws them together as a couple. Sam‘s mom is in the early stages of dementia. As someone that lost her dad suddenly to a form of dementia last year it hit close to home. I do like how Jimenez discussed the reality‘s that many families have to face when someone they

ncsufoxes love is diagnosed. Xavier‘s past is full of trigger warnings (abusive parents). Not my top Jimenez book but still loved her discussing such a tough topic. 2mo
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The book centers around the lives of 3 mothers of: Malcom X, James Baldwin & Martin Luther King, Jr. Each woman lead a unique life & upbringing which shaped how they raised their sons. I learned a lot that I did not know about each woman. They themselves were steeped in social justice causes which were part of their households. Each woman also faces the challenges of raising a family during the Civil Rights Era. It important to continue to share &

ncsufoxes read stories about important figures in the past. Women, especially Black women, rarely have their stories told. #realhistory #honesthistory 3mo
Librarybelle This one is on my to read list! 3mo
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Published in 2021 but the content is relevant more than ever. As well as rage inducing since the word “woman” is no longer allowed to be used in research at this moment in the US…as well as any disorders or words associated with women. Fun times. Anyhow Cleghorn details the plight of women in medicine & research for the last few hundred years. The frustrating part is women were finally being included in research & drug trails. Medicine & men

ncsufoxes still have a long way to go in including & understanding women‘s bodies & health without using a solely patriarchal view. Black women continue to suffer the most under the patriarchy (& past white supremacist). Again big strides had been made in recent years to build the trust back in these communities only to have them wiped away. Cleghorn did not really discuss the obstacles that disabled women face with their care & treatment. 3mo
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I loved Phoebe‘s dry wit & humor. Taking joy in your passions but also not having to stay the course in your life especially if it‘s not making you happy. I like the whole idea of finding joy in what brings you joy, not what society tells you will make you happy (young people & their obsession with perfection & an IG curated life). Speaking your mind & finding a sense of relief from not having to make everyone happy…all the time.

AmyG This one took me by surprise. Loved it. 3mo
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The Art Thief | Michael Finkel
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Last year we went to the Isabella Stewart Gardner museum & seeing the empty frames was a startling reminder of the theft. That was a heavily publicized theft. After finishing this book it made me start to wonder how many art galleries, especially smaller ones, have or have had art stolen? It‘s fascinating that this thief was able to steal close to $2 billion in art & it was years before he was caught. Although I‘m sure museums have much better

ncsufoxes security. Sad of course that several important pieces are now gone. 3mo
TheBookHippie I want to read this one! Art thieves fascinate me. (edited) 3mo
Librarybelle I‘ve had this one on my tbr for ages! 3mo
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Last night on IG Tad Stoermer was discussing the recent book ban by the Naval Academy. He talked about how we have the power to continue to push back on the narrative. Use our power on social media to disrupt the algorithms. Keep reading & posting books that are banned. He said “No permission required. They erase. We restore.” #publichistory #resistancehistory #honesthistory #resistance #howrevolutionary

Ruthiella 👍👍👍 3mo
Trashcanman Pleased to make your acquaintance. I‘m George. 3mo
ncsufoxes @Trashcanman hi George, nice to meet you too. Jessica 2mo
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The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story | Nikole Hannah-Jones, The New York Times Company
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#realhistory Erasure of stories & history is becoming a real & scary thing in the US. There are many people in our society that have made significant contributions, not just white men. It‘s important to keep pushing back on this new narrative. Diversity makes us better, Equity makes us better, Inclusion makes us better.

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AmyG Exactly. 3mo
Deblovestoread Yes! ✊🏼 3mo
Librarybelle Yes! 3mo
dabbe 🎯♥️🎯 3mo
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