Tomorrow is my oldest brother's 46th birthday; the day after that is exactly 10 years since he died suddenly. Since that day two cousins (also just in their 30s) and a nephew have also moved on from their physical time on earth. So many people have had their lives upended in different ways, but continue to love these people and carry them with us.
I have reread this book a few times & always connect with the practical 'this shit hurts' approach.