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Never Simple: A Memoir
Never Simple: A Memoir | Liz Scheier
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Liz Scheier's darkly funny and touching memoir--with shades of Jeannette Walls's The Glass Castle and Mira Bartk's The Memory Palace--of growing up in '90s Manhattan with a brilliant, mendacious single mother Scheier's mother Judith was a news junkie, a hilarious storyteller, a fast-talking charmer you couldn't look away from, a single mother whose devotion crossed the line into obsession, and--when in the grips of the mental illness that plagued every day of her life--a violent and abusive liar whose hold on reality was shaky at best. On an uneventful afternoon when Scheier was eighteen, her mother sauntered into the room to tell her two important things: one, she had been married for most of Scheier's life to a man she'd never heard of, and two, the man she'd told Scheier was her father was entirely fictional. She'd made him up. Those two big lies were the start, but not the end; it took dozens of smaller lies to support them, and by the time she was done she had built a farcical, half-true life for the two of them, from fake social security number to fabricated husband. One hot July day twenty years later, Scheier receives a voicemail from Adult Protective Services, reporting that Judith has stopped paying rent and is refusing all offers of assistance. That call is the start of a shocking journey that takes the Scheiers, mother and daughter, deep into the cascading effects of decades of lies and deception. Never Simple is the story of learning to survive--and, finally, trying to save--a complicated parent, as feared as she is loved, and as self-destructive as she is adoring.
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“Never simple” is a memoir about growing up with a mom with Boderline Personality Disorder. The author discusses very openly how confusing it can be to have a mentally I‘ll parent, and how hard to makes to function with “normal” people. As a child who grew with with a parent with MI I really related to this book. I also related to her point that love is grey- not black or white. It‘s possible to love part of a person, while hating the rest.

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Liz‘s mom was angry and controlling. Parents wouldn‘t allow their children to play at her house, and as a teen, her mother berated teachers into spying on her and even tried to find college students to tail her. She also managed to live her whole adult life in Manhattan with no income and no trust fund! This is the crazy story of Liz growing up in this environment, then managing her mother‘s elder care, while looking for her biological dad. ⬇️

Megabooks This is not the best entry in this crowded field of memoirs, but it is an interesting #BorrowNotBuy. #Nonfiction22#ImASinner (the mom, obvi) @Riveted_Reader_Melissa (edited) 2y
Cinfhen Yes, this sounds very similar to 2y
Cinfhen Great review but I‘ll probably skip this one due to the similarity of the book I just read. Which I would also say #BorrowNotBuy 2y
Megabooks @Cinfhen yeah these are hard to read. I feel the same way re: reading another similar book soon. 2y
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