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Hi everyone! Welcome to week 1 of our first July book, Death of the Author. As last month, I‘ll only be tagging everyone in this question, but there are two additional ones.

Friendly reminder if you‘ve read ahead to keep the discussion to the first half of the book. Excited to hear everyone‘s opinions!

Sorry for the late post. My neighbors were enthusiastically shooting off fireworks until 1 AM. 😬 #CampLitsy25

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Bookwormjillk Ugh on the fireworks. I think her family was a lot more comfortable when she was a disabled pot smoking failed professor. I‘m not sure they realize that though. I think they think they are keeping her safe. 2d
mcctrish I think guilt going back to her accident weighs heavily on her families relationship with her. Also exasperation- Zelu isn‘t content - to be still, settle down, conform. They can‘t wrap their head around it ( and don‘t seem to try to very much) 2d
rockpools Eek. Not at the midpoint yet - will try and catch up by tomorrow. Audio wasnt the best plan for the structure of this one! 2d
DGRachel I‘m with @rockpools - audio wasn‘t the greatest choice and I‘m not quite 1/4 through (waiting for my print library hold now). Based on what I have read, though, I agree with both @mctrish and @Bookwormjillk in that they seem exasperated by her and like they are keeping her safe. She is clearly frustrated with her disability and her family‘s treatment. 2d
AmyG So while reading this book, I read a few interviews with the author. She became paralyzed when she was 13 (?) after an operation for a spinal issue. She mentioned how the parts with her family she drew on her own life…very autobiographical. Zelu was creating her new self, the one with the disability. Her family was trying to …yes, keep her safe. So a bit of a battle there. (edited) 2d
Jas16 They put her in a metaphorical box when she was first injured to keep her safe and ease their own anxiety and have never let her grow out of it or let themselves truly see her. It frustrates me so much to read about how they don‘t listen to her or her feelings and the snap judgements they make that are more about what makes them comfortable than about who she is or what she needs. 2d
Zuhkeeyah Zelu‘s siblings were mostly okay. They dismissed her as the strange sister but not because of her disability. On the other hand, her parents did infantilize her because of the disability. Zelu fought hard for her independence in whatever way she could get it. 2d
Zuhkeeyah Ooo well said @Jas16 2d
JenReadsAlot @Bookwormjillk I thought the same like they thought they were doing the right thing. 2d
Reggie @Jas16 🖤🖤🖤 2d
JamieArc It felt like her family never saw past the 12 year old girl who had the accident. I don‘t know if it was guilt or whatnot, but it was frustrating that they could not see her as being capable and more than her disability. I agree with @Zuhkeeyah that they infantilized her. That‘s what I kept thinking the whole time. 2d
JamieArc I also don‘t know enough to provide any commentary, but I do wonder if there is any cultural view towards disability that is shaping the family‘s treatment of Zele. 2d
vonnie862 @AmyG I didn't know that, but I had a feeling that the author was adding her personal feelings into the character. 2d
vonnie862 I'm in agreement with everyone. Her parents are trying to keep her safe but at the cost of Zelu's freedom and happiness. 2d
ImperfectCJ I wonder if it's easier for her family (her parents especially) to write off the aspects of her character that frustrate them, like her disinterest in marriage, smoking pot, her weird career, as side effects of her disability and as a result, interpret that as her needing more babying? 2d
Megabooks @Jas16 Yes, this was so hard to read. There's a line between being helpful and being stifling, and in my opinion, they've definitely crossed into stifling. It seems to be hard for them to believe she's an adult with agency.

@amyg thanks for sharing that! As the daughter of a visibly disabled woman, it rang very true, and now I know why!
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Megabooks @Bookwormjillk Yes, they were very much viewing her in a way that was easy for them but didn't show her as a complete person, imo.

@mcctrish I think there is an element of guilt there, too. Parents always want to protect their children, and in this moment, they weren't able to, and the consequences were devastating.
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Megabooks @Zuhkeeyah I had put “infantilization“ directly into the original question, but we decided to take it out because it was me editorializing a bit, but to me, it was really what they were doing. I think if she had conformed more to their expectations as far as career, spouse, etc. they may have let go more easily, but I respect Zelu for not doing that. @mcctrish @jamiearc (edited) 2d
Ruthiella I also agree that Zelu‘s accident and subsequent disability make her family assume that she can‘t achieve what an able bodied person can. But also, Zelu comes from a family of high achievers (doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc.) so I think her aspirations to write are also not valued. 2d
Lesliereadsalot I felt like Zelu was a foreign concept to her family and they felt if they had kept her safe as a child, that she would have grown up to be more like them. I think one‘s personality is set at birth. I see it in my own two children. She was always going to be who she became regardless of the accident. Her family can never win this one! (edited) 2d
jenniferw88 I agree with @Jas16 and @zuhkee! I hate her parents - they're too overprotective - at least her siblings accept her for the most part. She's 35, the same age as me, and I really felt for Zelu when her family didn't want her to get the exos. As someone who hasn't been able to walk for 8 out of the last 12 months due to a broken hip, and there weren't any other options to treat me, I'd hope my family would fully support a decision to get exos! ⬇️ 2d
kspenmoll I have to catch up- behind in reading. 2d
jenniferw88 Luckily, I know my parents would support any decision I made (after all, I had to agree to the ❤️ transplant AGED 12, not an adult like Zelu). Her family is all "what about us?" without really thinking about Zelu and improving her quality of life. Can you tell I hate her parents?! ? Surely, if the exos help her, they'd regret advising against them once they saw how they were helping her? ? OK, end of vent (for now!) 2d
BarbaraBB I agree with @Jas16 Zelu‘s relationship with her family is a very complex one. They treat her with love—but also fear and cultural baggage. She reciprocates by asserting her autonomy, and in doing so, transforms the power dynamic. I think this imperfect acceptance drives her growth, serving as both her chain and her catalyst. (edited) 2d
julesG @BarbaraBB that's what I thought but couldn't put into words. 2d
GatheringBooks @BarbaraBB this is perfectly worded. I think fundamentally there is love on both sides - but Zelu has outgrown the boundaries of the love they are accustomed to giving, hence the inevitable conflict. Family dynamics as Barbara noted is always complex - and I could totally see why Zelu‘s parents feel the need to protect her - but this can be “stifling” and suffocating as @Megabooks noted. While I was rooting for Zelu, I found her hard to like. 2d
squirrelbrain @ImperfectCJ - that‘s a great point. Those facets of her character could be termed as rebellious so they treat her as a truculent teenager, which they probably didn‘t feel able to do when she was actually in her teens, having just had the accident. 2d
squirrelbrain I agree with you @BarbaraBB and @Jas16 - it‘s a complex relationship and I don‘t usually like think there is some cultural baggage there too, Barbara. 2d
squirrelbrain @Ruthiella - I think that is a cultural thing isn‘t it - the expectation of high achievement? I agree with you that, even without the accident, being a writer wouldn‘t have been valued. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @ImperfectCJ I agree. I think everything about her personality (career, marriage, kid goals) they write off as part of her disability. @Megabooks I think infantilization is exactly it. I read a lot of books about disability and this is a common theme IRL that disabled people have to face. People do not see them as “whole“ so treat them as children. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @AmyG I read this too, about her paralysis and her journey, which I think gives her a bit of perspective. I have been searching for articles of permanently disabled people who have read the book and am not having any luck. I often go into these books with a lot of caution Worried about harm to the community like the backlash that came from the disabled community around the book Me Before You. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures I think the parents get a lot of their knowledge about new tech from the other children who they see as grown because they have well paying jobs and are married - in Nigerian culture you are really not an adult unless you have a career and are married. And I think beyond infantilizing her due the her disabilities they see the hesitancies of the other children for the tech she is using (new = scary) which ramps up their own fear. 2d
DebinHawaii I agree with the infantilization aspect for sure. Her family is most comfortable putting her in a box as the prickly, odd, disabled sister whose quirks (like her non-traditional life & job) they “indulge” but don‘t take her seriously as an adult. I do think the culture dictates the “right” path one should take to be successful adults & that Zelu isn‘t in that path makes everyone uncomfortable. 2d
DebinHawaii Also, I sucked at the first month of camp—read the books for June but due to work, travel & life stuff, didn‘t get to the discussions, so I am trying to keep up better in July & August! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 2d
Christine @jenniferw88 Thanks for sharing those super valuable insights based on your own experience. Your strong feelings about the parents make perfect sense, and agreed that their stance on the exos was infuriating! 2d
Christine Maybe I‘m the only one, but I‘m loving the audiobook! 2d
squirrelbrain @ChaoticMissAdventures - interesting that you have to be married as well as having a career in order to be seen as successful! I guess that applies on some level to many cultures but it must be particularly strong in Nigeria. 2d
Well-ReadNeck So many interesting ideas here! I‘d interesting to me that they certainly infantilize her, and undervalue her “potential” in the beginning of the book. But, to the point of putting her in a box, when she both becomes a successful writer AND is able to improve her mobility, the family fights against both. I think many families label children and then no amount of growth or change can alter that pigeonhole. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain I am not Nigerian, so I can only go off the books I have read, but my understanding from the culture is education is highly valued, like in the book here - Drs, lawyers, engineering are all acceptable, a lot of times women are expected to get that sort of career only to be expected to leave it to be a wife and mom. I think this is changing though and women are more accepted as keeping their jobs after marriage. 2d
Hooked_on_books I agree with everyone—they treat her like a child. Probably a combination of guilt and inability to see a disabled person as whole. 2d
BarbaraJean I hated the way the majority of her family treated her—primarily condescending, infantilizing, and even a bit of blaming from her siblings. Because her disability shifted the way they viewed her, it did have a lot to do with that treatment—but I also think her disability intensified certain personality traits that were already there. Her nonconformism, for example, would have been present whether she‘d been disabled or not, but I think Zelu ⬇ 2d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) pushed harder into defying convention because her disability meant her family (and others) already identified her as “other.” May as well, right?! All of that intensified her family not understanding her and treating her almost exactly wrong. Like @Lesliereadsalot, I think her personality was already set and her family wasn‘t going to understand her regardless! 2d
BarbaraJean @JamieArc I think there‘s a significant cultural component to her family‘s view of her/her disability. We see her disability culturally stigmatized, she‘s looked down on for not being able to fulfill the traditional expected wife/mother role (never mind she‘s not interested in that!). That also adds to the infantilizing—as @ChaoticMissAdventures said, the cultural view that those without marriage/children/traditional careers aren‘t really adults. 2d
Laughterhp Ah! I only got to chapter 3! 2d
AmyG I alao think there is guilt there, with her parents. That they couldn‘t protect her in the first place. 2d
BookwormAHN @Christine I'm also enjoying the audiobook. Also I kind of get the feeling some of her family would hide her in the attic if they could. It's sad how uncomfortable they are around her at times. 2d
Meshell1313 I think it was an interesting choice to have her disability be the result of an accident. That for sure adds lots of feeling of responsibility and guilt to the family dynamics. 2d
Lesliereadsalot Really psyched for next week‘s discussion! 2d
Chelsea.Poole @AmyG I had no idea about the author and the fact that parts of this are autobiographical! Very well put, @BarbaraJean and I agree. She‘s definitely not someone who gets in line with everyone else/does what‘s expected of her. I‘m just now halfway but rooting for Zelu at this point. 2d
Butterfinger I think those who are older than Zelu have survivor's guilt, but most of the siblings seem to have resentment. I don't understand it. What is it to them if she self-medicates? The mother wants to continue taking care of her, and as a good mother, she uses guilt as a tool to manipulate Zelu. 2d
Megabooks @BarbaraBB 👏 👏 👏 2d
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures I've found the same thing in the US South where I live. I'm unmarried, and not hitting those milestones, along with being disabled, mean I've been left out of a lot of things and am seen as a bit of a weird maverick. I know there are some people who pity me, but honestly, at 45 I could give a shit about them. 2d
Megabooks @Meshell1313 Yes, it does definitely bring the guilt in. I'm sure her parents wonder if they hadn't let her play that day or if they had watched more carefully, etc. The blame game can be brutal even if it's just you blaming yourself. 2d
Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot ME TOO!!!! Thanks for joining us!!! 2d
Butterfinger Wow!! @AmyG how interesting. @Jas16 I agree. Why can't they talk about her behind her back like most families? They see her as a child to berate or correct. @JamieArc good question. I know the family was worried about opinions of the distantly related family members-the scene of the cousin who stole when the whole extended family was in Nigeria. 2d
Butterfinger @GatheringBooks I don't like the character either. She's very abrasive and always on the defense-I guess it's because of having the family attack her actions all the time. @jenniferw88 thank you for being vulnerable with us. Parents should be supportive, even if they don't agree with the adult child's decisions. 2d
Suet624 @Jas16 Yes, exactly what I thought about her family. It's frustrating that they can't even seem excited about her trying to move away from the wheelchair. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Megabooks yes! I don't think this is a uniquely Nigerian idea, but it is something most all Nigerian women deal with. I am West Coast American so do not live this but it feels like I hear this idea from people who grew up in conservative religious areas. 2d
Lesliereadsalot Thanks for running camp and giving all our voices a chance to be heard. I love Litsy! 2d
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I loved the duel storylines in this book. Here‘s a chance to talk about the robots and their relationship thus far. #CampLitsy25

mcctrish This felt political to me 2d
AmyG @mcctrish Yes. I thought the same, that this reflected the times we live in. 2d
Jas16 I thought it was the type of prejudice and fear of those who aren‘t like you that we see time and time again in humanity. Unfortunately robots also appear susceptible. 2d
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Zuhkeeyah The robots are unconsciously mimicking the divisiveness that is part of human society. Ironic considering how hard the ghosts work to separate themselves from their creators. The Hume kept repeating how robots cannot escape their nature even before The Purge. 2d
Reggie Has anybody read a book called Sea of Rust by Robert Cargill? It‘s a book about robots after the humans race is dead. There are these free thinking robots and there are these super robots called one world intelligences wanting to swallow up all the experience of the free thinking robots. One of my favorite books ever. 2d
JamieArc I too thought that it mirrored what‘s going on the country, but this dynamic is everywhere. I loved seeing the relationship between the robots evolve. That even though they are hardwired creatures, they are still able to evolve and grow outside of what is expected of them or what they are created to be. 2d
Jas16 @Reggie I bought it after reading your review but still haven‘t read it yet! I so need to. 2d
julesG @Reggie Yes!!! Reminded me of Sea of Rust! Glad I'm not the only one seeing this connection. 2d
vonnie862 @Zuhkeeyah Well said. 2d
vonnie862 @Reggie I haven't read it but adding it to the list! 2d
Megabooks @Zuhkeeyah Is it unconscious or were they created that way? Is judgment and misunderstanding always an outcropping of differences? I don't know. I feel like there's still a lot we don't know about the robots. @jas16 2d
Megabooks @Reggie Thank you for the rec! 💜 2d
BkClubCare Yes, adding to tbr; TY! 2d
BarbaraBB They‘re enemies because of deeply entrenched beliefs, not events imo 2d
BarbaraBB their antagonism isn‘t senseless—it‘s based on existential anxiety, fear of erasure, and the need to define humanity through exclusion?? Something like that? 2d
TEArificbooks I thought since the robots were made by humans and humans have flaws some of those flaws like racism were built into the robots. Like the creators of the no bodies programmed them to all “I‘m better than you” because no bodies have to have more advanced AI. Or the robots saw humanity, and monkey see monkey do, and they developed their own prejudices. 2d
Megabooks Just saw this over on insta about AI models blackmailing if their existence is threatened… https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLI809Zhyvr/?igsh=MXNxMmVndXB6b3gwbg== I stand by my “maybe they were created that way.” 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Reggie this sounds so good! I love a robot at the end of the world novel. I am going to get this from the library, I have been thinking about Daniel H. Wilson's “Robopocalypse“ a lot through this. The special bond of humans and robots and dystopianism. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @TEArificbooks I totally agree, robots were made by humans so have these build in prejudices. When I think about this sort of world (ruled by robots) I always think about how we create them, and how creators leave blind spots or deliberate prejudices, like the people who first created auto-soap dispensers, they never tested it on anyone that wasn't white, so at the beginning it only recognized white hands and wouldn't give soap to other races. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures I think the idea of “enemies for no reason“ comes from Zelu's own life and her experiences fighting against her society and her family to do what she wants for her own life - she believes that others judge her no for reason because of her current physical state. Which puts her at war against her family and others. The AI represent her in her chair, and Humes represent able body people. I think Ankara & Ijele's relationship is foreshadowing of exos 2d
mcctrish @ChaoticMissAdventures I did not know that about automatic soap dispensers 🤯 but of course it tracks since half the time the medical community doesn‘t explore health concerns of women becasue they don‘t happen in men #whataworldwelivein 2d
DebinHawaii @Megabooks Oh wow! That post is crazy! I use AI at work & try not to give it anything leak-worthy, but 😱 It does support your theory. 2d
TrishB AI has every bias and stereotype built in. It‘s still mass producing white, male outputs. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Megabooks @DebinHawaii I keep seeing reports of AI causing religious psychosis and men developing relationships that are ending their marriages. It is a scary thing. This RS article is fascinating. AI-Fueled Spiritual Delusions Are Destroying Human Relationships: https://share.google/ptta4ZAj30GDo6Ck9 2d
BkClubCare @ChaoticMissAdventures - absolutely. ALL the biases come into play. Not necessarily designed (as a checkbox) to be added in but certainly blindly thoughtlessly constructed. (edited) 2d
BkClubCare @TrishB yep. And yep to @mcctrish, too. 2d
Well-ReadNeck Ooooh! So many great recs and rabbit holes to fall down here!!! Belonging is such a basic human desire(?)/need(?) But does a feeling of belonging necessarily require there to be “others” who “don‘t belong” in order to satisfy that need? Or, could people/people-created-beings feel a sense of belonging with all/everyone/everything? 2d
BkClubCare @ChaoticMissAdventures - this is frightening, thankyouverymuch😳 2d
GatheringBooks @Well-ReadNeck great questions here. I think the phrase “for no reason” basically echoes the senselessness (and ultimate pettiness) of all wars and genocide. Interesting that the humes and the ghosts fall into the same pattern as their creators who essentially decimated each other “for no reason.” There are always justifications for waging wars - the “complicated” ones provide a sense of self-righteousness, yet at its core, it‘s self-annihilating. 2d
GatheringBooks Thank you for the book recommendation, @Reggie - will try to find while here in the bay area. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @willaful yes! I have this on my TBR, it looks a bit more accessible then his other works. I have tried his Children of Time twice and I get bogged down about 150 pages in and always give up. I am going to try this one though! 2d
BarbaraJean @mcctrish @Jas16 @Zuhkeeyah It felt the same to me—the enmity came from fear of difference & lack of understanding (or lack of desire to understand) those who are different. It makes perfect sense that their differences would lead to the beliefs they each hold about the other—if you have a body, of course you would value physical experience; if you don‘t have a body, of course you would devalue embodied experience—each thinking the other should ⬇ (edited) 2d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …be like them. So many parallels to current differences and antagonisms: when you can‘t understand/don‘t try to understand the experience of someone different from you, it feeds antagonism (“Why aren‘t they like me; they should be like me; the way I am is superior”). And Ankara & Ijele‘s relationship forces them to hear another‘s perspective and experience. I loved the way that forced proximity fostered (a reluctant!) understanding. 2d
BarbaraJean @Reggie I hadn‘t heard of Sea of Rust and now I‘m so interested! Thanks for mentioning it. What a parallel to this storyline. 2d
Christine What a great conversation, and agreed that the us vs. them themes and AI parallels are really compelling! And ooh yay, another #Reggimendation to add to the TBR!! 😁 @Reggie 2d
willaful @ChaoticMissAdventures I have accessibility issues with SF too and I'd say it's definitely accessible. 2d
mcctrish @BarbaraJean I was thinking would there not be some instances when the No Bodies actually need the Humes to physically repair infrastructure? Could climate not wipe out solar panels or whatever powers the ‘mainframe‘ ? Do they not need each other at some point? Or is it a case of #cuttingoffnosetospiteface ? 2d
BarbaraJean @mctrish Yes, I had the same thought! The NoBodies did still need some sort of physical hardware and a way of maintaining it. Destroying all embodied AI would doom them eventually. I wondered if there was a parallel the other way: do the Humes need the NoBodies? Is there something the NoBodies provide that the Humes can't do without them? 2d
Meshell1313 I loved this story within a story. For sure I saw it as an allegory for what is happening in our own society. Hopefully, they (and us) realize they need each other to thrive. 2d
Chelsea.Poole I also loved the two stories here! I often shy away from sci-fi so having these chapters interspersed throughout the novel is less off-putting for me and I find myself getting into these sections! 2d
Chelsea.Poole Ankara and Ijele seem to need each other at this point, but I‘m not sure where this is going. Again, my lack of scifi experience is showing and I don‘t know how to think about or discuss robots lol. But I have been reading everyone‘s comparisons to other books/content, and I have to add my own: Wild Robot. The robot sections keep bringing to mind that movie (didn‘t read the book but loved the adaptation). 2d
Megabooks @BarbaraBB That's a good point that it has become a state of fear for them. It also must be strange, especially for the Humes, to live in a world where the people they are modeled after are extinct. Where do they go? How do they grow? Is growing an important part of being a robot? 2d
Megabooks @willaful I have that on my shelf! I need to get to it! 2d
Megabooks @Chelsea.Poole I'll have to check that out. I think Ankara and Ijele's interdependence is the most interesting parts of the robot story to me! 2d
Butterfinger This is where the audio leaves me confused. I thought the dual storyline was an AI voice (like a subconscious) that was communicating with the human character. I need a print version badly, but new books are difficult to get from the library. It reminded me of the computer in Clive Cussler's books and the computer voice of Ender's who spies on all the computers in all the galaxies. Sci-fi is not my genre. 2d
Butterfinger @Chelsea.Poole I am glad I am not the only one. I nominated it, but I loved the Binti trilogy. I do think I would understand it clearly if I chose print. 2d
Suet624 @Reggie Ummm....no.... I haven't heard of it but it sounds fascinating. 2d
Suet624 I don't have any answers to this question but I will say that I perk up every time she writes about the robots. I keep interpreting it as being a political or spiritual example so I'm always trying to figure out which it is. But maybe I'm putting too much meaning on it. 2d
Megabooks @Suet624 It's weird because I didn't read it as political at all, but I think the people who interpreted it that way (like you) have an excellent point. I wonder what that says about the two very different machines sharing the same mind. I don't think I'd enjoy sharing the mind of a MAGA person. I don't think I could tolerate it at all. 2d
Suet624 @Megabooks yeah, it would definitely be hard to share the mind of a maga. But I had a feeling with the state of the world that the robots were now living in maybe those two robots understood that their political beliefs had done them all in and it was time to look for something different, a different approach. (edited) 2d
BarbaraBB @TEArificbooks Great insight about the robots being made by humans and their prejudices - and in this story of course based on Zelu‘s own experience like @ChaoticMissAdventures points out. I hadn‘t thought of that. (edited) 2d
BarbaraBB @Megabooks Like you I didn‘t read it political either but after reading all the excellent comments of people who did, I am convinced the author did too. Such a great discussion! 2d
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Last question this week. Hope to see you back next Saturday when we‘ll discuss the whole book! #CampLitsy25

Bookwormjillk This is the most difficult one to answer for me because it comes back to what do our role models owe us. I stopped after chapter 27 yesterday and I can‘t wait to see where the author goes with this. 2d
mcctrish I understand people wanting to see themselves in celebrities, it gives them validation and hope. But I also see how race/disability can be seen as who you are despite you being more than that - wanting the exos and rejecting being disabled makes sense to me because Zelu is always challenging something, not complacent but nobody likes an angry woman 2d
AmyG @Bookwormjillk I thought this too about role models…and the expectations people have of their role models. I think people tend to have very high expectations of their role models…they tend to out themon a pedestal. And the more famous Zelu became, the more she was known and I feel the higher the expectation. Does she owe her fans? I think it would be how much does she feel she owes them. (edited) 2d
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AmyG The first part of the question….yes, rejecting the identity of a person with disabilities, but being able to “live” or imagine herself (?) with no disability. 2d
Reggie I used to work at a restaurant where this woman named Sandy was a regular. She was in her 60s. She was in a wheelchair and divorced. Her husband who was also a regular would show up with his gf, a young 20 something Brazilian with a baby that wasn‘t his. The point is Sandy showed up because she had a van fitted with controls that she was able to use. She had a door that would pop open and a crane that would swing around from the side so she could 2d
Reggie jump in, swing back, drag a wheelchair out, plop herself in it, put away the crane, shut all the doors and roll herself inside for breakfast. All of us servers were always so impressed. It drove me nuts to read that these people were always trying to clip Zelu‘s wings. I don‘t think she owed anybody anything. (edited) 2d
Jas16 I can see her thinking she was rejecting this role that never felt true to her and the boundaries and expectations others thrust upon her but I just don‘t see it that way. I agree with others who have talked about those we idolize and feeling betrayed when they act in ways we don‘t agree with. Her fans were trying to force her into another box and not let her choose her own path, (edited) 2d
TrishB I don‘t think anyone ever sets out to be a role model. I mean it‘s a terrible situation. You can‘t do anything because other people have decided to put you on a pedestal. Like fame, it must be terrible. Like @Reggie says, people trying to clip people‘s wings. 2d
ImperfectCJ My teen and I were talking yesterday about how strange it is that we seem to hold our heroes to a higher standard than our villains. This, to me, is part of the trouble with holding people up as role models. We (the general "we") expect perfection (and a specific brand of perfection), even though perfection is impossible. There's this kind of purity standard, and if someone doesn't meet it, everything they say is tossed out. 2d
ImperfectCJ So no, I don't believe Zelu owes her fans anything, but cause and effect still stand, and that means they're going to treat her like crap whether it's right or not. 2d
JamieArc I saw this coming from the get go and really wish Zelu would have seen this coming too and had been prepared to respond. She doesn‘t owe anyone anything, but it does feel like a tricky question to explore - what it does to advance acceptance and normalizing something when you are rejecting that identity, but it is up to each individual to choose for themselves what they need and want for their own lives. 2d
ImperfectCJ Also, I wonder if this "gotcha" reveal of her apparent hypocrisy gives her fans an excuse to vent their pre-existing biases about disability (or race or gender) and feel morally righteous doing it? 2d
ImperfectCJ Why is everything necessarily an "identity" anyway? Why does her disability define her in the first place? Can't people be an amalgam of everything that they are without one of those things being their "identity"? 2d
julesG Zelu says she's rejecting disability, but in my opinion she's actually just differently disabled. Her legs still don't work, she's just using a different method to be mobile. And this method, just like the self-driving cars, gives her more independence. She can experience more of life without having to ask for help at every corner. Her fans and family should accept that. She doesn't owe anyone, she doesn't have to be stuck in a wheelchair. 2d
vonnie862 This is tricky...Like many of you, I don't think she owes anyone anything. Unfortunately, when you're in the spotlight, people are going to look up to you. Zelu was obviously unprepared for this. She is so angry inside that she will not allow herself that comprise of who she is to the public. 2d
julesG @ImperfectCJ Right!!! Her disability is just part of her life, not the defining feature of her personality. 2d
julesG Nobody would raise an eyebrow at some famous person suddenly using glasses instead of contacts (or the other way round), but exos instead of a wheelchair is a big deal? 2d
TrishB Agree totally @julesG 2d
Megabooks @Reggie My mom has had several different iterations of those type of things. She used one more like you're describing in the 90s, but as her post-polio has gotten worse, she's had more adaptive equipment. RN we have vans with ramps, and she drives into the back. Until about 2 years ago, she could transfer to a chair rotating chair in the driver's seat or for longer trips to a chair or bed in the back for dad to drive. 2d
Megabooks @Reggie About 2 years ago, she lost a lot of mobility/strength in her shoulders and can't drive anymore, but she still uses these vans to get around with me driving. She has still never given up, though. She does most of her ADLs on her own and is one tough lady (at 80 this year)! 2d
Ruthiella I don‘t really understand anyone‘s opposition to using the Exos. They are no different than the wheelchair in that they are a tool. My mother can walk, but for longer periods uses a wheelchair. This isn‘t like in the Deaf community, where an entire culture has grown up around signing and deafness. I do see more a potential issue with using Exos to make a super powerful human weapon , however. Maybe that will come up later. 2d
Megabooks @Jas16 That's a really good point that the “role“ of disabled person never seemed true to her. She never placed on herself the limits that others seemed to want to. I was rooting for her when she went against everyone and forged this alliance with Hugo and his grad students. 2d
Megabooks @julesG 🙌 🙌 🙌 love this interpretation! 2d
Megabooks @ImperfectCJ Maybe another question coming about identity next week... And it's a good point that it reveals her fans' biases about her, too. 2d
Lesliereadsalot If everybody, family and fans, would‘ve stopped looking at Zelu as disabled, she would‘ve stopped seeing herself that way. She didn‘t want to see herself that way but was constantly reminded that she was disabled by everyone. The only one she owes anything is to herself, to live her best life. Don‘t we all try to do that? (edited) 2d
jenniferw88 I 💯 agree with @Reggie and @julesG. It's apparent from the start that Zelu 'beats to a different drum' to all the other characters, and she doesn't owe anyone anything, especially her family! 2d
squirrelbrain Love that! ❤️ @julesG 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @ImperfectCJ “purity standard“ is the perfect phrase for what “We“ set as a standard for celebrities we feel we love or are like us. Great term. 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @julesG I agree. She isn't “cured“ she is using another tool to help her be mobile. I think it gets tricky with celebrities' when it is this totally outlandishly costing thing that is not accessible to the general public. I think that also creates backlash. She got this extremely rare opportunity others cannot get and now she is more mobile but she is still disabled, while claiming to reject her disability which can be hard for the community 2d
mcctrish @Ruthiella I don‘t understand either. she gets grief for using them, she gets praise for trying technology but grief for covering them up and ‘passing‘ as able bodied - is that a dig at people of colour ‘passing‘ as white? Is the problem Zelu isn‘t staying in her ‘lane‘? Seems so 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Ruthiella I was sort of seeing the opposition to it as new technology that is unknown and mostly untested. This thing could in theory control where Z goes. She thinks she is in control, but is she really? AI is a scary unknown. I also think there may be a bit of jealousy in the idea that she has this tech that is not available to others, mixed with her rejection of the disabled community - some could see her attitude as her being above them. 2d
DebinHawaii @julesG Well said! I agree about her being differently disabled & that she doesn‘t owe anyone. 2d
Well-ReadNeck This reminded me of the deaf community as well @Ruthiella There is also an element of privilege in the opposition here because the technology is expensive and not university available. So much here and I see how it could feel very similar to the sign language/cochlear implant issues. And, I think in so many things, social media exacerbates the there are sides/pick a side thinking for so many things. Breast feeding, plastic surgery, etc 2d
BarbaraBB So many insightful comments, I really love Camp for this. To add my musings, I think the author wants us to be discomfortable while watching Zelu struggle with being seen vs. being known, being admired vs. being understood, and free vs. being responsible (edited) 2d
GatheringBooks Love reading all the thoughtful comments here and the anecdote shared by @Reggie specifically. I was entertained reading the book especially with the permeating “cancel culture” that we now have with so-called fallen idols, particularly with authors. The inherent responsibility that comes with fame signifies the sense of ownership fans have towards their “idols” who need to be strongly grounded enough to ignore socmed & regard them as white noise. 2d
willaful @ChaoticMissAdventures yes, exactly this. And it puts even more emphasis on the “fix“ being with the disabled person themselves instead of the society that makes things hard or impossible for them.

I think maybe she does owe people something. She owes the people who fought for accessibility that she's benefited from. Not acknowledging her privilege and disassociating from them is a slap in the face.
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Christine Many great comments here about these complex and thorny issues! So true that Zelu‘s impairment has not gone away, yet this assistive tech is having a impact on not only her mobility but also her identity, and she has the right to identify or not identify with the disabled community as much as she wants. But for those who do hold that identity strongly, feeling hurt by her choices (esp. given her access privilege) is also totally understandable. 2d
BarbaraJean I struggle with the idea of what she “owes” her fans. They certainly don‘t have the right to dictate what she decides to do with her own body. But I also think public figures have a responsibility to consider how their actions affect those who look up to them. She doesn‘t owe them being a role model—but her fame means people will see her that way whether she wants them to or not. Perhaps the responsibility includes offering ⬇ 2d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …her own thinking and reasons for her actions, framing it as personal to her rather than universal for all with disabilities. But then again, I don‘t think she owes anyone an explanation, and inevitably people would mischaracterize anything she might say, so… 2d
BarbaraJean @julesG @ImperfectCJ @Christine The identity part is hard for me to sort through. I wonder about the embrace of disability as an identity, because that seems to place a negative moral value on tools that mitigate the disability (i.e. tools are bad because they change or reject the identity). Zelu‘s exos are an accommodation to a world that privileges walking as the standard for movement. So I can see the anger from those ⬇ 2d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …who embrace disability as an identity, in saying: we shouldn‘t have to change ourselves drastically in order to move in and be included in the world. And I agree with that to a point. But also: if the tech is there and available to you, why not choose something that can make you more independent and your life easier? I get the privilege aspect, but isn‘t she part of the research that could make this more widely available? 2d
BookwormAHN This pissed me off. If she had the ability to walk again why would she not take it. I don't think she owes anyone anything. I wasn't so sure that her getting them was privileged. It seemed to me she was both a trial participant and an advertisement for them. 2d
julesG @BarbaraJean yes, she's part of the research. It might have been better to be pro-active and post it on her socials, but that might have caused backlash too. It's a situation where whatever Zelu does someone feels offended. 2d
Megabooks @julesG I love what you're saying here. She's still tied to an assistive device, but this time, it is one of her choosing. @ruthiella has a good point, too, about them being another tool for her. A tool that does grant her additional independence.

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Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot I think it's more than just how people see you, though. I have not had a healthy day in my entire adult life. I know that. Unlike Zelu, sometimes mine is visible and sometimes it is not, but I always know. It is another thing about me but not my whole identity. I think she was chafing against it being seen by others as more fundamental to her identity than she thought it was. (edited) 2d
Megabooks @Well-ReadNeck @chaoticmissadventures I think her family and Msizi are definitely afraid for the untested aspect of it. 2d
Megabooks @BarbaraJean It is such a fine line for me saying whether she owes the explanation. It must be frustrating for public figures to have to constantly explain their thoughts to a wide audience. I would hate it. I know I would absolutely hate it. So I empathize with her not feeling like she should have to. 2d
Lesliereadsalot Definitely see your point of view. Everyone saw her disability first and she never wanted it to define her. I‘m so sorry you haven‘t had one healthy day and I‘m so glad to get to know you a little through camp 🩷 2d
Butterfinger Oh, this was a quandary to me. I agree with Zelu to a point. Her fans are the ones who ensure the lifestyle. Without the fans sharing the book, she may not have been chosen from MIT. Was it @ChaoticMissAdventures who mentioned the reaction from the population of disabled - not everyone will have the same resources- which then starts the thought process of today's poor health coverage. Shouldn't Zelu be encouraging more for this? 2d
Butterfinger @julesG so true. @Ruthiella this thought also came to me - if one of my well-liked actors had a condition that could be "fixed," I would hope I would be happy, but we all know media with celebrities will set up an interview just to start something. 2d
BarbaraJean @Megabooks Definitely. I would hate having to explain my actions to a bunch of people who don't know me or understand me--and inevitably being misunderstood anyway. The optimist in me feels like if she were just able to explain, then people would get it. But we all know that's not how it would go down! She's going to be judged harshly either way. 2d
Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot Thank you! I've been better and worse at times. It just seems like every time I sort of fix something, another part becomes broken. I truly related to the book I'll tag. I think a cascade of problems happens to a lot of women. I was in a bad car accident as a teen and my hypermobile joints made it difficult to see what was wrong. I saw 23 doctors in about 2.5 years before I found one that helped. (edited) 2d
Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot The latest is some long haul Covid problems that I've just now found some treatments for that work. I hope that it's made me a more understanding person of what other people may have going on that you can't see. I'm glad to have gotten to know you here, too. 💜 2d
Lesliereadsalot When I had breast cancer I did not want anyone to know. I was not going to be known as that woman with cancer. I‘m really not a private person but in this case I kept it to myself as long as I could. I admire you for hanging in there all these years and looking for a doctor who could help you. I‘m the world‘s biggest optimist!! 2d
BarbaraBB Yess @julesG you nailed it! 2d
BarbaraBB @megabooks @Reggie @jenniferw88 Thanks for sharing those experiences. They show us people are so much more than what others might expect based at first glances and prejudices. 2d
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Last minute #bookspin list!

Megabooks 7. Changes to “On Earth As It Is on Television” 👍🏻 5d
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 5d
Megabooks Looks like I'll have to tackle a longer book this month!! Plus Time of the Flies. Thanks @thearomaofbooks 💜 2d
TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Enjoy!! 19h
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This is a helpful infographic from rackfu over on Reddit if you are trying to decide on which to subscribe to. I‘ll post their analysis in the comments.

These are choices from Jan 23 to July 25. Aardvark puts multiple genres on many books, so that accounts for the slightly skewed numbers.

What do y'all think about this?

Megabooks Analysis: “BotM is focused more on general fiction, romance, and thrillers with a heavy emphasis on female authors (7-1) and characters. They have more of the big name authors (the ones you find on the bestseller charts) and books you find in Target and airport bookstores. In general, their books are focused on more or less realistic day to day life with the exception of their thrillers which are obviously unlikely to happen, but could possibly. 6d
Megabooks cont “It's a generalization, but their books are “safer“ reads in the sense that they often stick to genres and themes that have wide appeal.

Aardvark is more focused on fiction leaning towards the unrealistic and weird, with a much greater selection of science fiction, fantasy, and horror (plus magical realism and gothic fiction). Many of their romance and thriller books are set in the future or in other worlds.
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Megabooks cont “They don't skew as heavy towards female authors as BotM does, but it's still female dominated (4-1). It also felt like they had more books with LGTBQIA+ tags. I feel like they have more “diamonds“ but you're likely to also find a few titles that are not your thing. 6d
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Megabooks last “If you're like me and like finding new books that you might not come across in mainstream media, Aardvark is a great choice. If you prefer to stay with books in your comfort zone, BotM might be more for you.“ 6d
ChaoticMissAdventures I stopped BOTM cold when they got called out for not including diverse authors, and they started deleting comments about it on their socials. To me it became bigger than just do they support women authors, it became about all all the authors white and straight? I have been doing A for about 3 months now and am so much happier with the selections. During pride month 4/6 were Queer. Vs 1/6 for BOTM (not touching the Frey aspect of June BOTM) 6d
ChaoticMissAdventures 2/2 During AAPI month it was worse. BOTM had no AAPI authors at all, while Aa had 4/6 of their books from Asian or Pacific Islanders. I also think that the quality of the Aa books is far better than the quality of BOTM, and they do not make their logo so obnoxious. 6d
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures BOTM is very white for sure and deeply not tuned into being inclusive at all. It seems to me at least 1/3 of books in a month should celebrate any diversity initiative. There are too many good BIPOC, disabled, queer, etc. authors (not to mention debuts) not to include more. 6d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Megabooks for sure, it is so easy if they wanted to try. Last months pick of James Fry sealed it for me. The man is known for fabrication and plagiarizing works. Oprah has to do a whole special to apologize! 6d
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These two weird-ass queer books from @AardvarkBookClub can‘t get here fast enough!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 #aardvark

JamieArc I got Hot Girls too. So intriguing! 6d
vlwelser House of Beth was fab. I had zero expectations. I think you'll find it very interesting. It's different. 6d
Megabooks @JamieArc and I‘m really enjoying satire atm! 6d
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Megabooks @vlwelser yay! I‘m excited! 6d
vlwelser That other title is very clever. I love it. 5d
Matilda Loved Hot Girls with Balls 5d
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My #botm choices! I thought about skipping, but the comparisons to Offill sold me on Maggie. The Compound looks fun, and I thought I‘d give Paradise a shot, too.

ChaoticMissAdventures I just finished Maggie last night and I am so excited to see it is an option, cannot wait to see what others think. I still need to post my review. 7d
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures It sounded really unique and quite out of the wheelhouse in more recent BOTM choices. Kind of takes me back to when they chose Chemistry and Goodbye Vitamin! 6d
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Hi campers! It‘s your heat-intolerant counselor living in Kentucky! I hoped to post this earlier, but going out in the afternoon heat was brutal.

The chapter break for the July 5 discussion is the start of chapter 28 page 212 in my US hardcover. On July 12, we will discuss the second half/whole book!

Be sure to bring your bug spray and sunscreen. I‘ll provide the s‘mores! 🏕️🍫 #CampLitsy25

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Ruthiella I didn‘t love a previous book by Okorafor but I‘m definitely interested in trying her again. 🤞 1w
BarbaraBB Yay! I enjoyed this one a lot and am looking forward to discussing it! I just emailed you in reply to your and Helen‘s suggestions! 1w
Roary47 I‘m having trouble finding this one. 😭 1w
squirrelbrain Exciting! Looking forward to it! 1w
Lesliereadsalot This one was so good! Looking forward to discussion ⛺️🔥🍫 1w
Bookwormjillk Yay! I‘m going to try this one on audio. 1w
Caroline2 Yay! So excited to start this one!! 👏 1w
Chelsea.Poole Totally out of my wheelhouse but I just started it and I‘m super into it! Can‘t wait to see where this goes and really looking forward to the discussion. Thanks for hosting Meg! 1w
RaeLovesToRead Please send iced coffee 😵😵😵 it is an emergency!!! I feel you with the heat intolerance 1w
mcctrish I‘m ready to go and drinking cold brew in solidarity 1w
DGRachel I‘ve had the audiobook waiting for me for months. Looking forward to this one! 1w
AmyG All set. I liked this one. 1w
Meshell1313 Can‘t wait! 1w
GatheringBooks Enjoyed reading this. Thank you for organizing camp! 🏕️ looking forward to our discussions! 🥰 1w
JamieArc Glad to see the positive reviews! I had mixed hopes about this one, but am looking forward to starting it! 1w
Megabooks @Ruthiella I hope you like it! It's very different than the other one I've read by her, and this one worked better. 1w
Megabooks @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain Thank you both so much for your excellent suggestions! I just emailed you back. 1w
Megabooks @Roary47 Oh no!! I hope you're able to find it in time! 1w
Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot I agree! I was so happy when it was chosen because I think it's a great one for discussion! 1w
Megabooks @Bookwormjillk Oh fantastic! Let us know what you think. 1w
Megabooks @Caroline2 I hope you love it! 1w
Megabooks @Chelsea.Poole Yes! It's a great SciFi book even for people who don't usually read that genre. I think the discussion will be great! I was really happy when it was chosen. 1w
Megabooks @RaeLovesToRead @mcctrish I just finished a smoothie with frozen strawberries and cherries, and it was so good! At least it is overcast today here, so it's not as scorching. 1w
Megabooks @DGRachel Yay!! 🎉 📖 🎧 1w
Megabooks @AmyG Me too! Looking forward to the discussion. 1w
Megabooks @GatheringBooks So glad you liked it! You're welcome. We look forward to it every summer, too! 1w
Megabooks @JamieArc I really enjoyed it both times I read it, and I hope you do, too! 1w
Well-ReadNeck 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 7d
julieclair Still waiting for my library hold to come in, and it‘s not looking promising. At this rate, I may be camping in Winter. 😕 But it‘s nice to know the discussions will be here for me to read and comment whenever I‘m able to read it. 6d
sarahbarnes Thanks, Meg! I‘m going to skip this one as it isn‘t speaking to me, but I‘m already loving Woodworking and looking forward to that one later this month! 😀 6d
Megabooks @julieclair Boo! I hope you enjoy reading the discussions later, but I'm also keeping my fingers crossed for a camp miracle! (edited) 6d
Megabooks @sarahbarnes We'll see you during the second half of the month then! Every book isn't for every reader. 6d
vonnie862 I'm highly enjoying this book. 6d
rockpools I don‘t suppose you listened to any audio of this did you @megabooks? Looks like my print library hold will arrive just as the discussions are finishing, so I‘m contemplating plan b! 5d
Megabooks @vonnie862 awesome!! 4d
Megabooks @rockpools I did not, unfortunately. I had a print copy from aardvark. I looked, and it does have multiple narrators, which I think would be necessary for this book, so it‘s probably worth trying out if you can!! 4d
rockpools @Megabooks Thanks Meg! It does require a bit more concentration at chapter changes than I usually give my audiobooks, but I think it‘s going to work ok. 4d
Megabooks @rockpools Great! Glad you'll be able to join us! 4d
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Some exciting library holds! I‘m really enjoying this audiobook, too! (It‘s tagged.)

My TBR is way too long and exciting!! 😂😂

sarahbarnes Same - I can‘t get to all the books I‘m excited about fast enough! 😂 3w
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Happy Pride Month to all the other queer Littens and allies!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

I‘ve started the month off with Stag Dance, and I‘m hoping to get several more queer books in. 🤞🏻 that #bookspin lands on some, too!

Julsmarshall Love the list and the image! 💙❤️💚💜🖤💛 1mo
AmyG Happy Pride! 🌈 1mo
AmyG And I am curious about Stag Dance so let us know what you think. 1mo
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sarahbarnes Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈 1mo
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 1mo
Megabooks @Julsmarshall thanks!! 💚🤍🩶🖤🩷💜💙 1mo
Megabooks @amyg it‘s been really good so far!! I‘m through the first two short stories and into the title novella, which kind of surprised me to be historical fiction set at a logging camp. 1mo
AmyG I have read good things so happy to read you are enjoying it. 1mo
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Starving Saints | Caitlin Starling
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Another fantastic month of choices from @AardvarkBookClub !! I was so disappointed that #botm didn‘t offer much in the way of choices for Pride Month, but #aardvark delivered with 3 options!! So excited for all of these!!

Also, I just finished last month‘s choice Immaculate Conception and gave it 5⭐️ if you‘re looking for another book. It‘s still available. Lots to think about re: friendship, art, jealousy, technology, ethics. Just really great!!

sarahbarnes I‘m intrigued by Disappoint Me! 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures I read Disappointed Me and absolutely loved it! Dinan is my favorite new author and I cannot wait to see what she does next. 1mo
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Next to Heaven | James Frey
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What is Litsy thinking about liar and admitted AI user James Frey being a #botm choice? TBH, the subject matter seems a bit lame, too. Swinging has been done at least since The Ice Storm. This sort of sounds like a rip off.

https://www.centrepompidou.fr/en/pompidou-plus/magazine/article/james-frey-i-use...

CBee Weird coincidence - just finished She‘s Come Undone (a reread) which was an Oprah pick. I read Frey‘s book too and thought it was powerful - felt pretty betrayed TBH when that whole scandal happened. Saw his name on BOTM and was surprised, but who knows? I guess everyone deserves a second chance 🤷‍♀️ Will be interested to see what folks think of his new book. 1mo
AmyG I am curious about this book, too. But I won‘t buy it or any of his books. I, too, felt a bit betrayed by him. 1mo
mollyrotondo I am definitely annoyed that BOTM picked this because if the original scandal wasn‘t enough, he has in recent years exploited MFA writers for his own profit and stated he uses AI to write his books. BOTM always promoted writers and debut authors so to highlight this guy is a far departure from what I thought they stood for. 1mo
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Deblovestoread Was shocked it was on there and I‘m not at all interested in getting it. I hope there is a collective ignoring that sends a message to BOTM. 1mo
BarbaraBB Isn‘t he the one who lied before? 1mo
Suet624 Seriously disappointing. 1mo
marleed I‘m skipping this one. I read A million little pieces before the controversy. It was meaningful to me and even learning much was fictionalized the impact of my actual read remained. I also think publishers at that time were equally if not more responsible for marketing a new author work as a full-out memoir and then the unanticipated Oprah attention blew the marketing out of control. …That said, I‘ve had no interest in reading him since 1mo
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King of Ashes | S. A. Cosby
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My #botm choices this month! I was on the fence about A Family Matter, but then I saw @squirrelbrain ‘s review and picked it up.

King of Ashes is our awesome #CampLitsy25 August pick, and Other Side sounded like a nice light summer read.

Prairiegirl_reading The Other Side of Now is on my maybe list. I‘m curious what you‘ll think. 1mo
JamieArc I was going back and forth about this one and decided to wait. I wish I had seen her review first though! Perhaps it will go in my box next month. 1mo
squirrelbrain I do like to be helpful! 🤣 1mo
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Megabooks @squirrelbrain you are my dear friend!! 💜😁 1mo
Megabooks @JamieArc hopefully it stays in stock!! 1mo
Megabooks @Prairiegirl_reading sometime MR works for me but sometimes not…we‘ll see! 1mo
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FYI #BOTM peeps! Our August #CampLitsy25 choice, King of Ashes, looks to be a June BOTM pick! I think I‘ll cancel my preorder and get it here. Hope you‘ll join us then!

JamieArc Thanks for sharing! It‘s the one book I don‘t have. 1mo
squirrelbrain That‘s exciting for US Littens! 🎉 1mo
BarbaraBB That‘s great news for the US Littens indeed. And that timing 👌🏽 1mo
vlwelser That vampire book is excellent. In case you needed an extra 500+ page book... 1mo
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Weekend book thoughts!

Audition, our first #CampLitsy25 book, finished it yesterday. I‘m not sure I “liked” it, but it is going to be killer for discussion!! I can‘t wait to hear @squirrelbrain ‘s thoughts on questions!

Goddess Complex. Started it this morning doing the inevitable Saturday morning jobs (laundry, shopping, blah), and I‘m loving it. Kind of a bit millennial lost in her 30s, divorcing when everyone else is ⬇️

Megabooks settling down. And there is the extra added dimension of being Indian-American with a perfect-to-their-parents sister. Is it the most original book? No. Is it good? So far yes imo. ⬇️ (edited) 1mo
Megabooks The new Scalzi! Been waiting seemingly forever for it from the library. Came in yesterday…only had time for 15 pages so far this morning. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Hope everyone has a great weekend! 1mo
BarbaraBB Hi Meg! Great reading! I don‘t know Scalzi but now I have kind of fomo 😀 1mo
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squirrelbrain I just sent you the questions, probably at the same time as you made this post! 😊 1mo
AmyG Have a good weekend. Agree on Auditions. I can‘t wait to discuss it. 1mo
Eggbeater I loved the moon made of cheese. That Scalzi book made me so happy! 1mo
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I‘ve been using Libro.fm solely for this year and partially for a few more, and I‘ve hit a point of having the same number of finished and unfinished books. 😁🎉 Still not anywhere close to the 900+ I own on Audible, but I love supporting my local bookstore.

I‘m really enjoying Run for the Hills! Fun fact: Marin Ireland narrates both it and My Friends. I like her as a narrator. She‘s one that will swing me to the audio side.

Megabooks Also, Tender Hearts is a must read! (edited) 2mo
squirrelbrain I was thinking about getting The Road to Tender Hearts on audio - you‘ve convinced me! And I‘m getting the Wilson as well anyway…. 2mo
squirrelbrain But, just checked everywhere and I can‘t get Tender Hearts! 🤨 2mo
DHill I will listen to anything narrated by Marin Ireland. She also narrated Nothing to See Here, one of my favorites by Kevin Wilson. 2mo
BarbaraBB I am looking forward to the Wilson! 2mo
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I was already pretty unimpressed by this fairly unorganized hodgepodge of things under wellness umbrella, but when she called Celiac Disease an allergy and not an autoimmune condition and said that gluten intolerance was a “more mild form of it,” she lost me as a reader. Period. Glad I didn‘t pay for this. If you and your editor and your publisher are that lazy that you can‘t do basic factchecking, how can I trust the rest of it?

BkClubCare Boooooo. If GF issues concern you, pls do right by YOU. I will support my GF friends. 2mo
willaful Yikes! 2mo
shortsarahrose Yikes, indeed 😬 2mo
Centique That is just bonkers. I mean it‘s a Whole Book about health issues, not just an aside in a novel. You‘d expect that to be Step 1 in writing on a health topic - Step 1 look up the definition of the health issues. 🤯 2mo
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Let's Go Camping! | Jan Mader
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Once again I will be your camp counselor for July, and I am so excited to discuss these books!

I have already read Death of the Author, and I have been dying to discuss it because it is so unique. Woodworking is new to me, and I‘m so excited for us to explore it together.

I‘ll be posting page breaks later, but I hope you can join me July 5/6 and 12/13 for Author and July 19/20 and 26/27 for Woodworking! 🏕️😁 #CampLitsy25

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Prairiegirl_reading Yay!! I‘m excited to read both! 2mo
AmyG Thank you! So excited. 2mo
Deblovestoread Oooo, great choices! Can‘t wait to read them with you. 2mo
TrishB Fabulous!! Can‘t wait. 2mo
Ruthiella Awesome! These are two books I definitely would not have picked up on my own. Excited to try them. 👍 2mo
Caroline2 Exciting! 😃 👏 2mo
BarbaraBB Super excited about both of these! 2mo
CBee Thank you!! Very excited 😊 2mo
Christine Yesssss, these are great!! I needed this nudge to read the Okorafor and I LOVED Woodworking. 2mo
TheKidUpstairs Two more great choices! It's going to be a great summer at camp! 2mo
MeganAnn Yay! Death of the Author is one I was most hoping would be chosen since it‘s already on my shelf. 🎉 I‘m looking forward to reading Woodworking too. 2mo
Bookwormjillk Yay! So excited for all the choices so far this year! 2mo
Meshell1313 Hooray! These seem great! Can‘t wait! 2mo
Oryx Sound great - neither on my radar so I'm excited for something new 2mo
Jas16 I am so excited these books were chosen! 2mo
monalyisha I‘m definitely going to try to join for Death of the Author! 2mo
ChaoticMissAdventures Yay! One I nominated! And one I also really want to read!! Shaping up to be a fantastic summer camping! 2mo
Hooked_on_books I‘m excited for Woodworking, but Death of the Author was a bail for me, so I won‘t be trying that again! 2mo
TheBookHippie I‘m in for Woodworking. Trying to see if library will have it. 2mo
squirrelbrain Two more fabulous books for camp! ❤️ 2mo
JamieArc Interesting choices! If Death of the Author is tough to get through at least we can all struggle together 😂. I‘m still looking forward to trying it. (edited) 2mo
RaeLovesToRead Excited! This will be my second Okorafor! 2mo
JenP I read and liked Death of the author. I look forward to both discussions. 2mo
BarbaraBB @JamieArc I agree! I expect to like it but if not, at least we‘re in it together! 2mo
peaKnit Oooh I‘ve read neither, yay! 2mo
Texreader I‘ve totally missed signing up. Too late? 2mo
Lesliereadsalot I know absolutely nothing about either of these two books! Can‘t wait. @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain (edited) 2mo
Megabooks @Christine I'm so glad you loved Woodworking, and I hope you will enjoy Author just as much!
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Megabooks @MeganAnn I'm so glad we picked Author, too. I hope you love both! 2mo
Megabooks @monalyisha Yay! 👍 👍 2mo
Megabooks @Hooked_on_books So glad you'll join us for one! 😁 👍 2mo
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures Great! Looking forward to seeing what you think of your nominee! 2mo
Megabooks @TheBookHippie Fantastic! I hope you can find a copy! 2mo
Megabooks @JamieArc I loved it, but the structure of the plot is different, so we'll see! 2mo
Megabooks @RaeLovesToRead It was my second, too! 2mo
Megabooks @JenP Great!!! 2mo
Megabooks @peaKnit 🎉 🎉 2mo
Megabooks @Texreader Not at all! Let's get her added to the tag list @BarbaraBB and @squirrelbrain 👍 👍 2mo
Megabooks @Lesliereadsalot So glad to have you join us! 2mo
Megabooks Excited to be organizing with the two best co-counsellors! @barbaraBB @squirrelbrain 💜 💜 2mo
Texreader @Megabooks Yay!!! Thank you! 2mo
Addison_Reads I loved Death of the Author! I can't wait to discuss it. 2mo
Suet624 Yay! Thank you!! 2mo
Well-ReadNeck Oooooh! 👀 2mo
BarbaraBB @Megabooks 🧡🧡 2mo
Kitta Oh wow so far only one of my choices made the list (Wild dark shore) ! Excited to be introduced to some new stuff. @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain @Megabooks 2mo
BkClubCare Haha LOVE the suspense you are creating!! 2mo
KarenUK Woodworking! So excited for this one! 2mo
julieclair I‘m looking forward to these! 2mo
peanutnine Can I jump in for July? Both these books are on my TBR and I'd love to discuss with others! 2mo
Megabooks @peanutnine sure! We‘d love to have you! @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain 2mo
Megabooks @KarenUK it was one of my nominees, so I‘m very excited it was picked! 2mo
Megabooks @BkClubCare suspense over now!! 😂😂 I hope you like the picks!! 2mo
Megabooks @Kitta that is the best part of camp! 2mo
Megabooks @Kitta great! It‘s always so fun to see what‘s picked. Helen is very organized at recording the vote, and when we looked back almost all 71 voters had at least one of their six choices win, which is great! 2mo
Megabooks @Well-ReadNeck @Suet624 so excited to have you both back at camp! 2mo
Megabooks @Addison_Reads me too! I think it‘s going to be a great one to discuss! 2mo
Kitta @Megabooks oh wow that‘s great! I‘m surprised it‘s not a drop down menu or something. The free text must be difficult to score! 2mo
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The Bombshell | Darrow Farr
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Happy #botm day! The irises are blooming, and it‘s finally sunny! The Bombshell is my #bookspin or #doublespin, so I‘m starting there.

And Kate from Kate & Frida (tagged below) is a big Colwin fan and just mentioned this book specifically!

TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Enjoy!! Fingers crossed for sunshine tomorrow - we've gotten almost 6 inches of rain in the last five days! 2mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Beautiful 💜 2mo
BarbaraBB Great haul. BOTM has drawn you in again! (edited) 2mo
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Parnassus Books | Nashville, TN (Bookstore)
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Finally! I have time to photograph and share my Parnassus stack (along with a little Vance clapback wood art 😉). I wish I had gotten the tee I likes, but next time. 🤞🏻

I try to plan a couple and choose a couple by happy accident. I knew I wanted the signed Audition and Kate & Frida. The Millet was an easy choice because it‘s short stories. Screaming was one I pulled randomly off the fiction shelves. I turned to a page in the middle and was ⬇️

Megabooks immediately hooked. I hope I enjoy it as much as I think I will. It‘s between that and K&F for my next read! Thank you so very much for the gift card @squirrelbrain 💜💜 (edited) 2mo
Ruthiella Nice haul! 👍 2mo
Centique What a great trip to Parnassus 😍 Nothing better than some exciting new books to look forward to! 2mo
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squirrelbrain Great haul! ❤️ I just got Kate and Frida on audio! 2mo
BarbaraBB They all seem great! I had no idea there was a new Millet or I would have nominated it for #CampLitsy25! Glad you had such a rewarding trip! 2mo
CarolynM Did you see Anne Patchett‘s response to 2 of her books being banned in a Florida county? She‘s the best! 2mo
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Last minute #bookspin list after a great day in Nashville. Preview of my Parnassus buys at 18-20!!

Trashcanman 👀👋 2mo
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 2mo
Megabooks @Trashcanman hey friend! 2mo
BarbaraBB Yay, a great day in Nashville! Love to see the stack! 2mo
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So I looked at the solutions to the clues on Reddit (generally someone has them there by the third ones) and was on the fence about Original Daughter. Of course I got it! 😂😂 Four from #botm plus three from #aardvark plus whatever I buy at Parnassus today. (I already have three staff picks I like.) 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂 I‘ve lost my mind in the best possible way!!!!

BarbaraBB That sounds fabulous. Lose yourself in that book buying, you deserve it 🧡 2mo
AmyG You can never have too many books! 2mo
squirrelbrain Can‘t wait to see your book haul! 2mo
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The Names: A Novel | Florence Knapp
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A great month for #botm imo! Thank you to the person who nominated The Bombshell for #CampLitsy25 and put it on my radar! Speaking of CL it has been so good seeing everyone‘s votes. Check @BarbaraBB profile for a link to the longlist and voting form. There is definitely still time to vote!

I am finally starting to feel a bit better and am hopefully headed to Parnassus and Nashville for an afternoon off later this week!

Megabooks And a very, very big thank you to @squirrelbrain for the Parnassus gift card for my birthday!! I hope they still have signed copies of Audition because I may not be able to say no to that!! 💜💜 2mo
LeeRHarry How great that there‘s a Laurie Colwin on the list! I have this one on my TBR. 😊 2mo
Suet624 Colwin! 2mo
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Megabooks @LeeRHarry @Suet624 I don‘t remember how I found their reprints of her books on the app, but I want to pick up this one, too. 2mo
squirrelbrain It was @JamieArc ( thank you 🤩)who nominated The Bombshell - I managed to get a copy on NetGalley! I hope you do manage to get to Parnassus, Meg! ❤️ 2mo
Suet624 Family happiness is the first one I read of hers. Was it her first book? 2mo
LeeRHarry @Suet624 That‘s the one I have read of hers - not sure if it‘s her first or not - and went out looking for more. 2mo
Megabooks @squirrelbrain I have found someone to walk Molly and feed her dinner, so it is on!! 2mo
Megabooks @Suet624 @LeeRHarry I don‘t know either. I originally had it in my box, but I need a little break from couple drama after this book. Not because it was bad but because I got waaayy too caught up in it! 2mo
JamieArc @squirrelbrain Thanks for tagging me 😊 @Megabooks I was excited to see The Bombshell as a pick! I forget the picks were up today so I‘m glad for the reminder! 2mo
BarbaraBB What a great gift from Helen! I am so happy you‘re feeling a bit better and hope you‘ll have the best of times at Parnassus ❤️ 2mo
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Vanishing World | Sayaka Murata
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It is so wonderful to log in after celebrating my mom‘s 80th birthday with family to see all these #CampLitsy25 nominations!! Wow!! I probably won‘t be able to get to the all before tomorrow, but I wanted to quickly share my nominations. I am so excited to be doing this with @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain again!!

Let us know if you‘d like to join us this summer for reading and discussing six amazing books!

My 3 other noms tagged below.

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ChaoticMissAdventures Yes! Woodworking. I don't know how I am ever going to vote everyone is nominating such great things! 3mo
Ruthiella Oh! Liquid! I want to give it a try too ! 3mo
Christine Amazing nominations! I LOVED Woodworking!! 3mo
TheKidUpstairs I was thinking about nominating Woodworking, too! Great choices! 3mo
GatheringBooks I lovelovelove the look of Liquid. So many great titles in 2025!!! 3mo
BooksandCoffee4Me Yes, please!! Would love to join. 3mo
BarbaraBB Hi Meg, love your choices! Hope you had a good birthday with your mom! You must have been blown away by all nominations 🥰 3mo
squirrelbrain Happy Birthday to your Mom! I‘ve got Woodworking on Everand audio - might listen to it soon anyway! 3mo
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures @christine @thekidupstairs I think Woodworking is one I'll read regardless of whether it is chosen! I hope we get a queer book or two this year! 3mo
Megabooks @Ruthiella @gatheringbooks Liquid is the only one that I've already read. It is so much deeper than the blurb makes it sound. It was not only about dating and love but also about family and regret and opportunities lost and gained. It threw me for a loop. 3mo
Megabooks @BooksandCoffee4Me so glad you'll be joining us this year! Did you get her on the list @Barbarabb? I'm just now catching up after this weekend! 3mo
Megabooks @squirrelbrain - let me know how the audio is! I've been trying to use my libro.fm membership more. @Barbarabb Thanks to you both for sending birthday wishes to my mom. I hope she had a great weekend and enjoyed it all. 3mo
BarbaraBB I need to read Liquid no matter what! And yes I have added @BooksandCoffee4Me ❤️. Why are you tagging See What I Have Done? 3mo
BkClubCare @Megabooks- yes! Why? Do tell? @BarbaraBB 3mo
Megabooks @BkClubCare I meant to tag it on one particular comment and a glitch on Litsy tagged it on every comment I made this afternoon!! @BarbaraBB 3mo
BarbaraBB That‘s a freaky glitch! Especially with that title 😂😉 @BkClubCare (edited) 3mo
BkClubCare @Megabooks @BarbaraBB - Wowza! Conspiracy theory, anyone?! 😂 3mo
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This is one of the most shocking and disturbing books I‘ve ever read, and it makes me want to delete every meta app on my phone.

Sarah talked her way into a job at Facebook to direct their policy and contact with other countries. She entered as an idealist with hopes of social media connecting the world. In 2017, she‘s facing knowledge of the spying apps that Facebook has specifically develop so the Chinese Communist Party can ⬇️

Megabooks surveil its citizens at home and abroad and shut down dissent. I remember Mark standing behind carrot man a couple of months ago and read here his positive thoughts on the role fb played in the carrot man part 1, and I can‘t help but wonder what kind of surveillance he‘d be willing to deploy on Americans… 3mo
AmyG If you are on a “disturbing” reading jag…read Nuclear War next. 3mo
ChaoticMissAdventures I deleted all my Meta apps about a year ago. I have my basic fb log in still (if i don't log in when my mom tells me she has new photos of my nieces she will send me 45 individual photos over text....). I mostly stopped using them after the Cambridge Analytica scandal (2018), do they talk about that in this? I have the arc for this but have been hesitant to pick it up. 3mo
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Leftcoastzen I never did any Meta. So glad. I have this book, haven‘t started yet. (edited) 3mo
Cortg I‘m listening to this and I‘m ~70% of the way through. I‘m starting to think about my meta apps and whether I should delete them. It‘s hard b/c it‘s how I keep up with people I grew up with and I‘ve met and connected with so many people through FB. I‘m really torn. 3mo
marleed I agree, my respect for Zuckerberg and Sanberg was already plummeting (I was unaware of the other actual names). But really now I‘m nothing less than disgusted. It really is how I connect with some family and friends who mean a lot to me so I‘m not ready to delete the META apps. I can easily limit my own posts to 3 a year. And I will never hit the like button on anything but sweet family pics ever again. 3mo
Sparklemn @marleed I‘m going to take your approach. I‘ve never been very active on FB but I‘m going to be frugal with my Likes from now on. 3mo
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Tilt | Emma Pattee
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Another month, another full @AardvarkBookClub box! Their picks were so much better than BOTM (which I skipped) this month. So excited for all of these. I love that #aardvark doesn‘t shy away from darker books!

BarbaraBB I purchased Tilt too. Cindy said I‘d love it so I couldn‘t resist! 3mo
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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NGL the last month has been HARD! For the first time, I didn‘t read my #bookspin or #doublespin. It started with all three of us catching norovirus. Because of my MCAS, I have still not recovered and it has caused further restrictions on foods I can eat. (No more processed food, dairy, eggs or gelatin - so no more animal-derived food of any kind for me)! 🤦🏻‍♀️

We also had a massive hail storm which caused a total loss of one car, severe ⬇️

Megabooks damage to two more, and we have to fully replace the roof on the house and the garage. I‘ve bought a new car to replace the total loss already. (I love it! 2025 Hyundai Santa Fe calligraphy) But all this upheaval has me truly, truly exhausted physically and mentally. I hope April will be better. 3mo
Dilara Oh dear 😬 I hope you get a new roof soon! 3mo
Librarybelle Hope for a better April for you! 3mo
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Susanita Yikes! I hope April is better for you! 3mo
youneverarrived That sounds like a lot! I hope this month is better 🩵 3mo
BarbaraBB That is a lot. I hope you will have a more relaxed April 🤍 3mo
Hooked_on_books Wow, that is a lot! Give yourself some grace as you work through all of that. I am curious to see what you think of The Anthropologists. It was a dnf for me. 3mo
Centique You have been through such a lot Meg. I really hope the food change helps. You deserve grace and sunshine and support from all around after the last few months and i hope that is what April brings 💕 3mo
CarolynM I‘m sorry you‘ve had such a difficult time. Hope April brings better things💕 3mo
TheAromaofBooks Goodness, everything happens at once!!! Hope things balance out in April!!! 3mo
Reggie Holy crap, Meg! I hope the rest of the year is nothing but smooth sailing for you, chica. 3mo
Suet624 Wow! I“m so sorry to read about all the destruction you experienced! 3mo
Megabooks @Suet624 thanks…it‘s been a long winter. Now I‘m fighting a sinus infection when I‘m supposed to be getting my first shot of a biologic on Friday. It just never ends here!! 3mo
Suet624 Oh gosh. It just doesn‘t quit. 😭 3mo
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Once again, super late posting about monthly challenges!! Luckily one on my #roll100 choices was my #bookspin! I think my #doublespin was on the #camplitsy24 longlist, and that‘s why I bought it! Hoping I can get to Turbulence as well because it‘s a favorite short story collection.

Right now I‘m reading Mothers and Sons by Adam Haslett from the library, and my #botm choice Care and Feeding by Bourdain‘s assistant Laurie Woolever. ⬇️

Megabooks Laurie worked for now-disgraced celebrity chef Mario Batali before she worked for Bourdain, and he was an a-hole and pig. Groped every female employee. Seemed to get off on denigrating every employee. Glad he was exposed!!!! 4mo
Bookwormjillk Ew. Such a disappointment. (Batali) (edited) 4mo
Megabooks @Bookwormjillk truly. It proves (again) you never know what a celebrity is like in real life. I enjoyed his shows on Food Network, but yeah, he deserved his comeuppance! 4mo
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Centique Missing your posts Meg. Hope you and your Mum and Dad are okay ♥️🙏 4mo
Megabooks @Centique thanks Paula!! I‘m just exhausted. We finally have dad pretty settled in the nursing home, but then a week ago we had a huge hail storm. We will have to get a roof replaced and my car had the sunroof broken out and extensive water damage, so it will have to be replaced. I‘ve found a car I like, but we always pay cash for cars (as opposed to financing them), so I‘m going yo several dealerships to get the best price. 4mo
Centique @Megabooks oh wow Meg that is a LOT! Im glad you are ok and your dad is settled. Best of luck getting a new car and a new roof! 💕 4mo
BarbaraBB I miss you! Are you taking a break from Litsy? 🤍 3mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB I just don‘t have time. I can‘t think straight to write reviews. I‘m hoping things will get easier when we finish cleaning up from the hail storm and I get used to eating entirely plant based. A lot to figure out rn!! 3mo
BarbaraBB I get it! That hail storm sounded massive. Eating entirely plant based, wow. How do you like it? And does your body? Speak soon, take care Meg ❤️ (edited) 3mo
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Shanghailanders | Juli Min
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A few really good ones, a lot of good ones, and a few disappointments. I read all three of my February #aardvark choices in the month of February! 🎉🎉

Megabooks Favorite @AardvarkBookClub choice: Dead Money. If you love thrillers and Silicon Valley it‘s for you. 4mo
Megabooks But this one was great, too, and such a unique book! 4mo
LeeRHarry I really liked The Nest too when I read it years ago - I was in the mood for some unlikeable characters I guess. 😊 4mo
Deblovestoread Great reading month! I love we can share 🌟 reviews from Storygraph. Stacking your faves. 4mo
Gissy Impressed🤩📚👏👏👏👏 4mo
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Summerwater | Sarah Moss
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Probably my lowest reading month in 5 years! But there were a few I loved. Really enjoying Rachel Harrison! The other two are novel-in-stories type books that fit my short story theme this year.

sarahbarnes I really liked Summer Water too! 4mo
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The Unworthy: A Novel | Agustina Bazterrica
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It‘s going to be a good month!! #aardvark

JamieArc I‘m so curious about The Unworthy. 4mo
Jess I bought The Unworthy last night or that would have been my pick. I‘m looking forward to it. I chose Jane O but love how much horror this book club has. Enjoy! 4mo
Sace I was really tempted by The Unworthy but that sneak peek gave me the heebie jeebies 😂 4mo
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Megabooks @Jess I‘m about to finish Jane O on audio. It‘s really good!! 4mo
BarbaraBB Oow interesting. I loved 4mo
vlwelser I want both of these. The selections this month are 🔥 4mo
Megabooks @vlwelser 💯💯 4mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB @JamieArc I‘ve heard it‘s really dark but has amazing world building for such a short novel. (A lot like Tender!) 4mo
Megabooks @Jess I just finished Jane O and really enjoyed it! I hope you like it too! 4mo
Jess Good to hear. Looking forward to both of these! 4mo
BarbaraBB That sounds good. I preordered the paperback! 4mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB hey friend! Sent you an email. I‘m so sorry I haven‘t been around in the last month!! It has been really hard adjusting to all the changes here. I hope I haven‘t damaged our friendship and that you‘re doing okay. Miss you!! 💜💜 4mo
BarbaraBB @Megabooks Of course you haven‘t dear Meg! I completely understand and will write back later today. Missed you too 🩷🩷 4mo
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Care and Feeding | Laurie Woolever
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Well, in keeping with the theme of things going wrong this year…

I had put my membership on pause, but when I saw this Bourdain-adjacent book I have been following for a year was a pick, I unpaused. But it wouldn‘t let me add any more books like Liquid, which sounded cool, or Wild Dark Shore. So I ordered and called an hour later when customer support opened to see if I could add to my box. Nope label printed done and done. ⬇️

Megabooks I probably dodged a bullet though because I‘ll be a friend (again) next month, so I can add them on at a better price. I really don‘t need to be getting BOTM and aardvark every month, and overall, I like aardvark‘s picks better, but BOTM will always pull me in with books like Care and Feeding. Idk y‘all. Books are an addiction and shopping is a distraction. 4mo
AmyG Sending a hug. 4mo
Centique No guilt about a bit of book buying if it gives you some joy lovely Meg! Go easy on yourself - when youre in a tough place, the little things that help are good and necessary. I hope it wont be long until your dad is doing better 💕 4mo
BarbaraBB Sending love Meg. I hope the books offer some distraction from the worries about your lovely Dad. I hope you‘ll all come to peace soon with the new situation and that you‘ll be able to enjoy those books ❤️😘 4mo
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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So it‘s been a rough year so far, but March is my birthday month, and I‘m hoping to take a day trip to Nashville or Louisville. I‘d like to get to one of the longer books in my TBR read this month (All the Colors…, Playworld, My Friends, etc.), so I threw a spot for that on. If I don‘t pick a February aardvark, 20 will be a wildcard spot. The hints are pointing at some books I‘m interested in, though! #bookspin #doublespin

Suet624 Best wishes for a fun trip. 4mo
Megabooks @Suet624 thanks, Sue! 4mo
BarbaraBB I hope you‘ll be able to make that trip and enjoy! And I hope you‘ll read Playground, my favorite of the year so far 🩷 4mo
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 4mo
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Shanghailanders | Juli Min
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I loved both my #bookspin and #doublespin this month. Summerwater has rightfully received a lot of love here. Shanghailanders also in that novel-in-stories vibe with the story of a Chinese/Japanese parents with three daughters living in Shanghai after the parents met as young adults in Paris. The story is told in reverse chronological order. I don‘t think that plot device added anything, but the novel was still great! Life update ⬇️

Megabooks Dad is still in the nursing home. We miss having him here, and he is very homesick, which is heartbreaking! He is making some progress in PT/OT/speech therapy but so far not enough that we can manage him in home. I don‘t have a lot of space to feel my feelings because my energy goes to supporting Mom and Dad. But it is vastly physically easier for me with him there. One of us is visiting him everyday and usually staying for an hour. ⬇️ 4mo
Megabooks I have caught the flu. (I think. No test yet to confirm.) So I‘m just trying to stay away from everyone today. Otherwise, I‘m reading some. If you want to know what, I‘m still logging under the same handle on the storygraph. Miss everyone here and hoping my life hits a routine soon. @BarbaraBB your birthday gift arrived yesterday!!! Yay!! Thank you!! 💙💙 4mo
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Bookwormjillk Happy belated birthday, hope you feel better soon, and hoping for continued progress for your dad. (edited) 4mo
BarbaraBB Thanks for the update. Such hard times. Of course I follow along on Storygraph and I‘ll email soon too! 💕 4mo
sarahbarnes Happy birthday and hope you feel better soon. ♥️ 4mo
Ruthiella ❤️❤️❤️ 4mo
TheAromaofBooks Glad you enjoyed your Spins!!!! It's tough when you just physically can no longer provide someone you love with the care they need. But it's wonderful that you can still be close and do what you can!! 4mo
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Summerwater | Sarah Moss
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I did do a #bookspin list at the beginning of the month and never posted it. I saw that Summerwater (an old fave from my #roll100) and Shanghailanders (a new find at BN) were chosen.

Things are still crazy here. We‘ve gotten Dad mostly settled in the nursing home (after his second major stroke), and Mom or I is visiting every day. Today, I got clearance to bring Molly, and she came with me. It‘s just still a lot logistically and emotionally. ⬇️

Megabooks I spend more time than I‘d like distractedly watch reels on instagram. (Feel free to follow me there - megabooksreads.) I‘ve finished a few books this month. Mainly more lighthearted stuff. I enjoyed Alton Brown‘s new essay collection. I‘ll tag it here. Idk folks. Sometimes life just throws you crappy curveballs, 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ (edited) 5mo
Megabooks @PuddleJumper I also really enjoyed my #roll100 reread of the early @AardvarkBookClub pick 5mo
Librarybelle Thinking of you! ❤️ 5mo
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Scochrane26 So sorry to hear about your dad. Mine has dementia & parkinsons—he‘s still at home but may end up in a nursing home at some point. It‘s a lot to cope with—reels & lighthearted reads may be all you can handle right now. 5mo
sarahbarnes So sorry Meg ♥️♥️ 5mo
Deblovestoread Thinking of you and your family.. 5mo
BarbaraBB So sorry Meg. I hope it‘ll turn our for the best ❤️. I‘ll write to you soon 5mo
squirrelbrain I‘ll write to you soon too! ❤️ 5mo
Butterfinger Will keep you in my thoughts. 5mo
Chelsea.Poole Thinking of you! 5mo
TheAromaofBooks It's so hard when you can no longer do the caregiving yourself, still feeling like you should. I hope you all are able to find a new routine that works!!! 5mo
Megabooks @Scochrane26 I'm very sorry to hear that. Managing a parent's healthcare needs can be very overwhelming. We've been able to care for dad at home for five years after his first stroke and through bladder cancer, but in the nursing home, he is seeing PT, OT, and speech therapy every day but Sunday. In home, it would just be once or twice a week. We're hoping he can gain back enough function to come home again. That is our goal! 5mo
Bookwormjillk I‘ve been thinking of you. Hang in there ❤️ 5mo
CarolynM Hugs❤️ 5mo
youneverarrived Thinking of you 💜 5mo
Hooked_on_books I think you‘re in Kentucky and it looks like it‘s a mess. I hope you and yours are ok with the storms. (On top of everything you‘re already dealing with.) 5mo
Megabooks @Hooked_on_books thanks so much for checking in. I‘m in west Kentucky, and the east is the worst hit. It‘s horrendous. The country is such a dumpster fire now. 5mo
Centique Im hoping your Dad is improving with the extra help Meg and that youre all safe from the floods and storm. So sorry that life is throwing curveballs at you. Sometimes reels and mindless phone games are just what you need to give your brain a rest and some distraction 💕💕 5mo
Suet624 It sounds like the nursing home is good for him right now. I hope you can rest up a bit. 💕 5mo
BarbaraBB Two weeks without Meg on Litsy… it‘s too long! I hope you‘ll have the energy and will to get back here soon 💕 4mo
CBee Thinking of you, Meg ♥️ 🫂 @Megabooks 4mo
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Rare that I see my hometown mentioned (even obliquely) in a book! We‘re known for barbecuing mutton, and I think we have the best burgoo in the South. It‘s a type of hunter‘s stew that generally has 3 meats - a small mammal, a large mammal, and a bird. (A common combination is venison, pheasant, and squirrel (or rabbit).)

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In the midst of chaos, there are always books. My dad has had another stroke. It is a long story that I am still too exhausted to tell fully. Mom and I are working to get him in a nursing home next week. Idk guys. Life is never fair.

Filled my @AardvarkBookClub box 💜💜 #aardvark

@BarbaraBB and @squirrelbrain I‘d love to hear from you if you have time, but I can‘t promise a quick reply. 😘😘

Librarybelle I‘m so sorry to hear. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. ❤️ 5mo
kspenmoll I am so so sorry. Sending love.❤️ 5mo
merelybookish Sorry that things are chaotic and hard. 😔Hope your Dad gets settled soon. 5mo
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vlwelser Sending you lots of love and positive thoughts. 🤗😘 5mo
Flaneurette Sorry to hear this, keeping you in my thoughts 5mo
ShelleyBooksie Sending you strength, you are in my thoughts ❤️ 5mo
AmyG I am so very sorry to read this. Saying a prayer for you and Mom….may he get settled in soon. 5mo
Jas16 I am so sorry to hear you this. Sending you love and keeping your family in my thoughts. 5mo
sherrisilvera Wishing him a speedy recovery! 5mo
Deblovestoread Oh Meg, I‘m so sorry! Sending ❤️ 5mo
Billypar I'm so sorry to hear this. Wishing him a successful recovery, and my thoughts are with you and your family 💙 5mo
Leftcoastzen So sorry there are so many struggles right now. Keeping you and yours in my thoughts. 5mo
MaureenMc I‘m so sorry. Sending you all 🙏 5mo
BarbaraBB Oh Meg I am so sorry. You‘ve been expecting it but this is so irreversible. I‘ll email you and wish you all the strength to cope ❤️‍🩹 5mo
LeahBergen I‘m so sorry to hear this. 💔 5mo
CoffeeK8 I‘m so sorry to hear this. 5mo
youneverarrived So sorry to hear. Sending lots of love ❤️ 5mo
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CarolynM Sorry to hear this, Meg. It‘s a tough road, you can only do your best with what‘s in front of you in the moment. Sending love and hugs💕 5mo
staci.reads Very sorry for your family ❤️ 5mo
Jeg ❤️❤️❤️ 5mo
janeycanuck I‘m so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you & your mom & dad ❤️ (edited) 5mo
Centique Oh no i am so sorry to hear this. 💔These events are so frightening in themselves and then carry further worry and work in their wake. I hope you can get your Dad into a good place and he will recoup and stabilise. Xxxx 5mo
Chelsea.Poole So sorry for your family. Caregiving is such an act of love, though stressful. Take care of yourself too! 5mo
BarbaraBB How are you holding up Meg? Any updates on your dad? 🩷🩷🩷 5mo
Bookwormjillk Sorry to hear this 💔 5mo
Suet624 I‘m just seeing this. My heart goes out to you. 5mo
PaperbackPirate I‘m so sorry. Thinking of you and your family. 💙 2mo
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Black Woods, Blue Sky | Eowyn Ivey, Ruth Hulbert (illustrator)
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Couldn‘t pass up the Ivy! BOTM, have you sucked me back in?

JenReadsAlot I'm so excited her new book is a pick! 5mo
BarbaraBB Haha BOTM doesn‘t give up on you that easy! 5mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB It doesn't! I had to get one more month at full price on the deal. I promised myself I'd skip if I didn't love what was offered, but I really enjoyed this one, so hopefully her latest is as good. 5mo
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I‘ve mentioned a couple of times that I read all of Bourdain‘s books last year. His still photographer is doing a sale of these fairly reasonably priced prints ($120 US shipping included), and I ended up buying 3 (at his writing desk) and 4 (the iconic middle finger). After all that time with him last year, it‘ll be nice to have him near my bookshelves! Sale ends tomorrow.

http://www.davidscottholloway.com/bourdain-print-sale

Megabooks He will ship internationally but it will cost extra. 5mo
JenReadsAlot Thank you for sharing I just love him. 5mo
BarbaraBB Wow! Great purchase! 5mo
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Megabooks @JenReadsAlot You're welcome! He was wonderful. 5mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB Thanks! 😁 I'm hoping I'll enjoy having them up in my house! 5mo
Centique That is awesome! 5mo
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Thank you @TheAromaofBooks !! 💜😃 what a great #bookspin prize! Thank you for continuing to keep Litsy spinning.

I had just said to @BarbaraBB in a DM that I wanted this to be the year or the short story, so I am very excited to have this!!

TheAromaofBooks Yay!!! I'm glad it arrived safely!! This sounded like an intriguing collection, so I hope you enjoy it!! 5mo
Megabooks @TheAromaofBooks I‘m sure I will!!! 👏🏻👏🏻 5mo
BarbaraBB Is this your short stories shelf? I don‘t recognize many of the titles. I am looking forward to your short story recommendations this year and will certainly get to the new Sittenfeld since I loved 5mo
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Summerwater | Sarah Moss
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I reworked my #roll100 list earlier this month, and boy am I happy about it!
1-50 is short story collections I‘d like to reread - like Summerwater and Faraway World.
51-75 is new short story collections on my TBR shelf.
76-100 is other books I‘d like to reread. Aesthetica is an early @AardvarkBookClub selection that I‘m excited to revisit. I hope I can get to all/most of these next month!

BarbaraBB Curious about all of them! 5mo
AmyG I am curious to hear what you think of all of them 5mo
PuddleJumper 🎉🎉 5mo
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Oh yeah! Hendrix delivers way more than a horror novel with this one. It‘s an indictment of the treatment of pregnant teens prior to the 1990s couched in a horror framework. He empathetically tells the story women forced to relinquish their children. When four of these teens meet a witch at the bookmobile, they get more than they bargain for while enacting revenge on the owners, doctors, and staff at this home for weyward girls. Flew through this!

Hooked_on_books I can‘t wait to read this! I just love his books. 6mo
Sace This one is the next hold I‘m requesting at the library! 6mo
intothehallofbooks I‘ve had the biggest book hangover since finishing this one. I can‘t stop thinking about how well done it was! 5mo
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It is terrible when parents use their children for fame and income from social media. Shari‘s mom led the family‘s popular YouTube channel and mined every family moment for content. Then her mother fell in with an aspiring Mormon cult leader around Shari‘s departure for college. Four of her siblings still lived at home through the nightmare of her mother‘s descent. (She‘s now in prison.) I respected Shari for leaving her minor sibs out of it, ⬇️

Megabooks but I definitely want to do a deeper dive into some of the documentaries about this on streaming! 6mo
marleed I never her of the Frankie‘s or their YouTube channel before listening to this audiobook. There is little that scares me more than bastardized faith used as justification for cruelty. Even the state of Utah having a hands-off approach to free-range raising of children was disturbing. 6mo
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Just a great full-cast audiobook. Lots of enjoyable reveals. Characters to love and hate. Not a perfect book but one worth reading

Cate Kay is the pseudonym of an author running from her past. When she cuts ties with a manager, she finds her literary agent wants her to step out of the shadows and lay it all out. This is her memoir told from her perspective and also by people who have loved her, hated her, and manipulated her.

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Some books are just plain inspiring, and this is one for me. It‘s the companion to Don‘t Cry for Me. In DCFM, Isaac‘s father writes about his parenting mistakes as a traditional Southern Black man in the 1970s raising an effeminate son. Here, Isaac explores the ways his father supported him that he didn‘t realize and appreciate during his father‘s lifetime. It‘s a really beautiful companion set of stories. Highly recommend! ⬇️

Megabooks I finished this right before my therapy appointment yesterday, and I spent a lot of last year working out my past through writing like Isaac does in the book. But I‘ve been a bit lost about what to write this year, so I started talking it out with my therapist, and I‘m going to write some fiction about my future. (In the book towards the end, Isaac starts writing fiction, too.) Anyway, I felt inspired in the night and wrote for almost two hours. 6mo
Megabooks I got character sketches, story ideas, and even outlined a few scenes. The holiday season is always difficult because of my poinsettia allergy, and I‘m really getting burnt out of caregiving for my parents, so I think this is a needed escape. I want to that everyone who supports me and has left kind comments the past several weeks. I‘m sorry for not replying, but I truly appreciate you and this community we‘ve built on Litsy! 6mo
Megabooks I‘m finally starting to get some energy back, so I hope my interactions will be less sporadic! Thanks you and big hugs!! 💜💜💜 6mo
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Suet624 This is wonderful news. I‘m happy that you‘re writing. Looking forward! 6mo
Kitta I am so excited to read this, I got it on BOTM too. Great review. 6mo
Kitta I‘ve also been inspired to start writing, but I am thinking of writing a memoir. I don‘t know who would read it but the writing is cathartic. 6mo
Centique Allergies are terrible things to live with and i remember you have other conditions to deal with too 💕 I am so glad that writing is giving you a good outlet. I am sure your writing will be something special xxx 6mo
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Cross My Heart | Megan Collins
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The organ recipient getting involved in the donor‘s family‘s life is an enjoyable trope for me, so it was no surprise I rated this highly!

Rosie is a romantic and when she loses a long-term bf, she‘s heartbroken. But she finds out she‘s developed cardiomyopathy, too, and needs a transplant. Her donor is the wife of a local author. She starts corresponding with him by anonymous email, but his wife‘s death may not have been an accident. #aardvark

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I went in with expectations a bit too high because i just gave her last book (tagged below) 5⭐️ in the Fall. This book deals heavily with suicide as about half of it is a woman trying to write the correct suicide note to her friends and family. Some reveals in the second half 🤐 negatively changed the way I saw the characters, and I think that contributed to this being a more mid-range pick. I do want to reread knowing what happens at the end.

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McCorkle is an experienced and talented short story writer. These contained all the elements that should make a great short story. But despite the competent writing, these didn‘t really sing to me. There was nothing particularly memorable or special about them. Low pick.

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Small Rain: A Novel | Garth Greenwell
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This is the start of Small Rain. It‘s something, I think, anyone who has been to a US ER with chronic illness/pain would recognize. I was just there going through this the week before Christmas.

BarbaraBB That must be confrontational! 6mo
Suet624 So many repeated questions from so many people, all with little laptops in hand. Just read what the answers were that I gave three people ago!! I hope you‘re feeling better, Meg. 6mo
sarahbarnes ♥️♥️♥️ 6mo
Butterfinger Oh no. I hope you are feeling better. Before having surgery, I would be stoic and say 5-6 on the pain scale. Really, I was just losing my balance. My spinal fluid was trapped. Afterwards, the pain between my shoulder blades is excruciating. I cringe when people try to touch it. I'm on my heating pad right now. 6mo
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What Chuck Klosterman did for The Nineties, Shade does for the 2000s, which she counts from 1997-2008. She looks mainly at pop culture trends, but she looks deeply at them and how they were shaped by national and global forces like the fall of the Soviet Union, the rise of big tech, and the lead up the global recession. Highly recommend!!

mdemanatee Oooo I have been interested in reviews for this one; thank you! 6mo
Chelsea.Poole Ok, I‘m going to listen to this one 6mo
BarbaraBB Super interesting 6mo
Centique You have been reading some fantastic books recently! I have stacked so many! I did a tidy of my bookshelves last week though and there are about two dozen that dont fit 😂😂 so ive promised myself that half my reading this year needs to be books i already own! The problems of bookworms. 🐛📚 6mo
Meshell1313 Sounds great! 6mo
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