⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Obviously, I picked this up for the title. As a child of the 80s/90s, the term resonates and makes me laugh. This coming of age essay collection is funny and extremely relatable. Be yourself, y‘all. It‘s simple yet so complex. You can‘t be everything everyone - society especially - wants nor expects you to be. The shame spirals gotta go. Folks that genuinely want to stick around are your people. Life is too short for the bullshit.