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Spreadsheet BAD MEN what do you think of it?
How many of these do you think exist in the world? How many stories are there really? Would you warn other women?

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

OriginalCyn620 Okay, this is tough. On the one hand, you can‘t believe everything you read. The spreadsheet can be added to by anyone anytime, so I just wonder if it‘s ALL true. To be fair, women can lie just as easily as men. On the other hand, these women are using it as an anonymous tool to help each other, and I imagine it‘s because it‘s extremely hard to get justice through the proper channels. 👇🏻 4y

OriginalCyn620 So, yes, I would warn other women. Better safe than sorry! And if something like this doesn‘t exist in the real world, it should! 4y

Librarybelle Exactly, @OriginalCyn620 ! I don‘t think you can believe everything - someone with sour grapes, for instance, can make up a bunch of stuff. But, as a tool for fair warning, it‘s a good start. And yes, there are sites out there that you can make note not to date certain guys and why. 4y

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mollyrotondo I think the spreadsheet is a good idea but I agree with @OriginalCyn620 that anyone can add to it and lie on it so it can be dangerous. It should not be the only way these women report men‘s harassment toward women. Formal complaints hold more weight. But I do think it‘s a good tool to help other women steer clear of men with whom they work. 4y

mollyrotondo Oh wow @Librarybelle I had no idea there were sites that warn women about certain guys on dating apps. That‘s something to look into. 4y

AmyG Agree with you all. With keeping doubt in mind, at least you can be aware, keep an eye out for those traits in the men you have to deal with. 4y

Librarybelle @mollyrotondo Not sure if it is still active or if there is a fee (I‘ve never investigated), but Don‘t Date Him Girl debuted roughly 10 years ago and at one point offered a list of guys not to date, based on ex-girlfriends posts. 4y

mollyrotondo @Librarybelle very interesting 🤔 thanks for that! 4y

JaclynW @Librarybelle Wow. I didn't know such a thing existed. I do think it could be a great idea. But as @OriginalCyn620 said...people could lie for various reasons and unfairly hurt someone. Why can't people just be honest? And decent? And just report to proper channels-->that actually DID something about it. Sigh. #inmydreams? @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Hooked_on_books @OriginalCyn620 @mollyrotondo @amyg @thebookhippie 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @mollyrotondo I didn‘t either!!! 😳😳 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @JaclynW I didn‘t either!!! Same reason people can‘t stay at home during a pandemic 🤦🏼‍♀️ 4y

mollyrotondo @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks it‘s crazy, right?! But girls looking out for other girls is a positive thing 4y

mollyrotondo @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks oh my gosh! The park was filled by my house yesterday. I mean no wonder my state has a higher number of cases than they ever predicted. People!! 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @mollyrotondo which state are you in? Are y‘all under a shelter in place order? I‘m in Mississippi and our governor was about 3 weeks late with the order 🙄 people are still out because who‘s going to enforce it?! I don‘t get it! 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @mollyrotondo definitely 👯‍♀️ 4y

mollyrotondo @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks I‘m in Jersey. We are only under a state of emergency and a stay at home order. Only essential workers should be on the road but it seems as if every business around me is considered an essential business because there are a lot of people on the roads and a lot of offices open. I understand how you feel. All of these gov officials are way too late on even these minuscule steps 4y

Soubhiville When I have come across dangerous men, I have tried very hard to warn women about them. I‘ve never seen a list like the one in this book, but I bet they‘re out there. 4y

TheBookHippie @Soubhiville when I was in clinicals for nursing there was a list of doctors to NEVER BE ALONE with passed down by other students ...that was 1984 so I think there has been lists in every type of environment as long as men have had power over women in a job ill bet. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤯 4y

TheBookHippie @mollyrotondo I‘m entering week FIVE 🤯 Michigan 4y

mollyrotondo @TheBookHippie uhh five weeks! I will admit I‘m losing track of the days. I‘ve been home from work since March 13th and got my work from home materials handed off to me by my supervisor on March 17. So I guess I‘m going into week four of being home 4y

TheBookHippie @mollyrotondo yup we are a week ahead of you... I am losing track as well. I still think it‘s March🤣 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @TheBookHippie wow!!!! 4y

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @mollyrotondo I‘m essential so I‘ll be working which I‘m great with. I work in our transfer center for our hospital... I go straight to work and only to the store if necessary (with gloves and masks!) 4y

mollyrotondo @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks please stay safe! I am grateful I can work from home because my office is open as well. But they are strongly encouraging everyone to just work from home so that‘s what I‘ll be doing until this is over. 4y

JaclynW @TheBookHippie Those lists hopefully saved women from being abused. It's nice to see women trying to look out for each other. 4y

JaclynW @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Stay safe at work! 💕 I'm sewing masks for my family this week. Although we aren't really going anywhere except occasionally to the store (and usually that's just me going) to wear them too. I guess it's just in case. @TheBookHippie @mollyrotondo We've been home since March 13th. I'm totally losing track of days too. 4y

mollyrotondo @JaclynW uh I know. I cannot remember what happened on what day (not that a lot has happened but still) 4y

JaclynW @mollyrotondo Yep! I'm feeling that too! It's so crazy. I feel like I'm trapped in a Twilight Zone. 🥴😳😬🤣 4y

mollyrotondo @JaclynW yes! A friend of mine said the same thing! Syfy channel had a short marathon the other day of the show which I thought was fantastic 😂 4y

JaclynW @mollyrotondo Oh how funny! 4y

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