I relate to the need to disprove disparaging preconceived biases about myself because of the arbitrary circumstances of my birth. Part of my identity is shaped around that. I‘ve refused to drop classes, held in questions (especially about math), and pretended I was comfortable with shit I wasn‘t. Above all, I almost never talk about any of it because I don‘t like to think about it, and I don‘t want to look like I‘m easy to offend.