“… you never know. You only guess. This is how it always is. You have to make these huge decisions on behalf of your kid, this tiny human whose fate and future is entirely in your hands, who trusts you to know what‘s good and right and then to be able to make that happen. You never have enough information. You don‘t get to see the future. And if you screw up… your child‘s… happiness is at stake…it‘s heartbreaking…” p84

As my 3 year old screams “mommy, I need a hug!!” from her bedroom after hours of bedtime sweetness and trying to teach more sleep independence. Reading this passage cut to the core 💔