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Your Blue Is Not My Blue
Your Blue Is Not My Blue: A Missing Person Memoir | Aspen Matis
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From Aspen Matis, author of the acclaimed true story Girl in the Woods, comes a bold and atmospheric memoir of a woman who--in searching for her vanished husband--discovers deeper purpose. Aspen's and Justin's paths serendipitously aligned on the Pacific Crest Trail when both were walking from Mexico to Canada, separately and alone--both using thru-hiking in hopes of escaping their pasts. Both sought to redefine themselves beneath the stars. By the time they made it to the snowy Cascade Range of British Columbia--the trail's end--Aspen and Justin were in love. Embarking on a new pilgrimage the next summer, they returned to those same mossy mountains where they'd met, and they married. They built a world together, three years of a happy marriage. Until a cold November morning, when, after kissing Aspen goodbye, Justin left to attend the funeral of a close friend. He never came back. As days became weeks, her husband's inexplicable absence left Aspen unmoored. Shock, grief, fear, and anger battled for control--but nothing prepared her for the disarming truth. A revelation that would lead Aspen to reassess not only her own life but that of the disappeared as well. The result is a brave and inspiring memoir of secrets kept and unearthed, of a vanishing that became a gift: a woman's empowering reclamation of unmitigated purpose in the surreal wake of mystifying loss.
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azulaco
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Mehso-so

Unsettling memoir about the perfect husband who just...disappears. It turns out that young Aspen‘s perfect romance was not so perfect, as she goes back over all the red flags she missed. I felt like it got bogged down in excessive words. I actually put it down a few times before returning to it. I rate it so-so: not bad, interesting base premise, but not exactly what I wanted to read, either.

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Panpan

I hate trashing memoirs because this was someone‘s life. But, OMG, she accomplished nothing other than realizing her problems were of her own making (yet not taking responsibility) and her parents were not all-powerful. This level of immaturity might have been saved by self-deprecating humor or beautiful prose, but the book has neither. Many people are spoiled, whiney, and self-centered in their 20‘s, but that doesn‘t mean I want to read about it.

Catherine_Willoughby I can't stand modern age 20 something novels . Drift towards books pre Social Media era stories. The young before the '00 weren't so whiny & self centred. 4y
Lcsmcat @Catherine_Willoughby I like memoirs, but I prefer the author has done something worth remembering. I kept waiting for her to _do_ something. 4y
Catherine_Willoughby @Lcsmcat I thought anyone who wrote memoirs have great stories to tell /did something amazing or at least interesting to some groups of society (like sports personalities) 4y
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readswellwithothers
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Mehso-so

I don‘t necessarily mind overly descriptive writing.

I don‘t necessarily mind dramatic-sounding narrators.

As it turns out, though, I DO mind (hate, roll my eyes at, make noisy sighs about) the combination of wordy wordiness and every spoken sentence sounding as though it is the very climax of the story.

I regret listening instead of reading the hard copy, and I am incredibly happy to be done with this book. Blech.

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Pickpick

4/5🌟A mysterious, atmospheric memoir of unearthed secrets and self empowerment. Aspen and Justin, two adventurous free spirits met on the PCT, got married, and as her world is blossoming, Justin's adventurous spirit was fading. Three years into their marriage, Justin leaves one morning and never comes back. Aspen is in a state of shock, grief and anger. Forcing her to pick up the pieces of her young life. Loved her beautiful writing. #bookreview

Cinfhen This one sounds great too🙌🏻 4y
Bookalong @Cinfhen it was! I liked how it connected with her other book. 4y
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