“We have no control over what labels others give us, but we can define who we are by the ones we choose to give ourselves.” Remy is struggling to find out who he really is. He knows he is a son, a brother, and proud to be out as gay. But when he has to write an essay about who he is he is struggling to find out who he really is because he doesn‘t know who his birth family is. This book wasn‘t the light read I thought it would be but it was good!