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Uncultured: A Memoir | Daniella Mestyanek Young
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In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome. Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in the religious cult The Children of God, also known as The Family, as the daughter of high-ranking members. Her great-grandmother donated land for one of The Familys first communes in Texas. Her mother, at thirteen, was forced to marry the leader and served as his secretary for many years. Beholden to The Familys strict rules, Daniella suffers physical, emotional, and sexual abusemasked as godly discipline and divine loveand is forbidden from getting a traditional education. At fifteen years old, fed up with The Family and determined to build a better and freer life for herself, Daniella escapes to Texas. There, she bravely enrolls herself in high school and excels, later graduating as valedictorian of her college class, then electing to join the military to begin a career as an intelligence officer, where she believes she will finally belong. But she soon learns that her new worldsurrounded by men on the sands of Afghanistanlooks remarkably similar to the one she desperately tried to leave behind. Told in a beautiful, propulsive voice and with clear-eyed honesty, Uncultured explores the dangers unleashed when harmful group mentality goes unrecognized, and is emblematic of the many ways women have to contort themselves to survive.
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I will read anything about a cult. That being said, this book will not be for everyone, but Daniella has written an heartfelt memoir of her childhood in The Children of God cult and how that shaped her life.

I didn't know much about this cult, so I learned a lot. It was fascinating to me how she compared her childhood to her years in the military, too.

This is a difficult read, with many triggers, but it is one that is worth the read.

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Anna40
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The Children of God is a cult whose members lived as ‘missionaries‘ in communes,read the bible&raised their children to sleep with everyone within the family from a very young age-a blend of Christianity&counter culture gone terribly wrong.Daniella grew up in a family of devoted members,experienced rape,abuse,cruel punishments.At 15 she left,worked while going to school,then college&joined the army where she suffered more assault.Very tough read&I

Anna40 wanted to bail many times.Her resilience&determination are out of this world.I hope that she has found safety&love as she says she did in the end.It makes me so angry that all these men&women who hurt her got away unscathed! 5mo
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Chelsea.Poole
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Mention the words “cult” and “memoir” to describe a book and I‘m there!! This was written by Daniella a child in the Children of God cult who was trafficked around the world to raise money for The Family. This is the infamous cult which promoted sex (only for the benefit of men): women were “fishers of men” to gain new members, and adult sexual abuse of children was consistent. Daniella is able to leave the cult and eventually joins the army ⬇️

Chelsea.Poole which she describes as cult-like as well. Admittedly I didn‘t read much about this book before listening to the audiobook, but I was surprised that over half the content is about Daniella‘s experiences in the US army, including going to war in Afghanistan. She describes a failed marriage and raising in the ranks as she succeeds in this environment. This is in my wheelhouse but I‘m not sure others would appreciate such a lengthy book. 1y
Cinfhen I was on the fence about this book - still not sure if it‘s for me. Thanks for your insightful review 😊 1y
Chelsea.Poole @Cinfhen I hesitate to critique memoirs (and often thoroughly enjoy them) but I would say this could have been either marketed differently or edited down some. I appreciated her candor and voice, but I don‘t think this is for casual readers of the genre. 1y
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Cinfhen I think I‘m gonna pass on it for now - thanks Chelsea 😁 1y
Cinfhen Also lovely photo 😍 1y
EKonrad Agree about the editing - thought this one could have been shorter. 1y
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Kangaj1
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This was my #bookspin for October and I finished it last week and forgot to post. This is a fascinating cult memoir describing her life in the Children of God cult and then in the US Army. I got an autographed copy, and the author inscribed, "what cults are you a part of?" @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 2y
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TorieStorieS
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Happy Publication Week! This powerful memoir explores more than just groupthink as Daniella grows up within The Children of God cult across the globe and later, finds a path to a different future within the US Army. This is the kind of memoir that reads like fiction- with fast-pacing and full of plenty to talk about amongst readers. Perfect for book clubs and discussion groups, this is a story that will linger on after the pages end!

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