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Sipping Dom P�rignon Through a Straw: Reimagining Success as a Disabled Achiever | Eddie Ndopu
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Apple's Best Books of August 2023 A memoir penned with one good finger, Ndopu writes about being profoundly disabled and profoundly successful Global humanitarian Eddie Ndopu was born with spinal muscular atrophy, a rare degenerative (…more)
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DimeryRene
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This memoir details Eddie‘s life attending Oxford. We see a little before, during, and after his college days as Eddie deals with ableism, assholes, terrible caregivers, an unsupportive faculty, and a few really, really great friends. I was blown away by how many roadblocks he ran into with funding, especially given the wealth of a school like Oxford. Great, short, and surprisingly funny/charming (given all the terrible situations Eddie was in.)

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arlenefinnigan
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This is a brilliant memoir. It centres around Eddie's experience at Oxford University, which should have been a fantastic opportunity but became an ordeal, when the 'full scholarship' he won won't cover the essential care he needs, and he's expected to fundraise this himself. It's a great insight into the realities of living in a world that excludes disabled people, and challenges 'uprights' to reconsider what we mean by 'reasonable adjustments'.

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Chelsea.Poole
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Eddie Ndopu is an accomplished South African with a great sense of humor and style. His memoir was written using his ONE finger he had control of! His determination is amazing and shown through his trials at Oxford University, where he was denied basic care needs and responsible for fund raising for those expenses. I loved his narration and learning about ableism, however, I would have liked a bit more of his backstory.

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The ableist excuses of major institutions must stop. Eddie handled a very difficult situation thrust upon him during his time at Oxford with grace and humor.

Eddie has SMA and was the first African disabled student admitted there. He received a full scholarship including boarding and expenses, but they refused to cover his necessary care aide. This is the story of his fight for adequate support while enjoying his masters program.

Cinfhen So frustrating! You‘d think higher places of learning would get it right 😖 2y
Megabooks @Cinfhen especially ones with endowments as large as Oxford! 2y
Megabooks Gotta tag my favorite memoir Queen! 👑 @Chelsea.Poole this is a good short one! 2y
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TrishB @Cinfhen @Megabooks could tell you a million stories 😞 institutions with less money do better by their students. Though the current government in the U.K. took away all disabled support for students and told universities they must fund them. And you get these situations. And what an achievement to get there in the first place. 2y
Megabooks @TrishB I knew you worked in this area and would have many of your own stories. They made him crowd fund for his money, and when a large donor to the university offered to cover the last bit in full, the head of his college intervened and stopped it. 🤯🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ he faced all of it with such grace though. I can‘t imagine the stress he was under. And some of his care aides were woefully inadequate, too. 2y
TrishB Just another barrier for him 😞 sounds awful. We must all do better. 2y
Chelsea.Poole I‘m on hold for this!! Thank you! How‘s audio? 2y
Cinfhen WOW!! That‘s awful @TrishB I bet you have a billion stories!!!! 2y
batsy Good lord, that is so horrible. Just another instance of making care work an individual "problem" as opposed to the kind of social assistance that institutions, especially ones backed with tremendous amount of funding, should provide. 2y
BarbaraBB That is horrible. We should do better indeed @TrishB 2y
Megabooks @Chelsea.Poole excellent! Loved his South African accent. Just a bit stronger than Trevor Noah‘s. 2y
Chelsea.Poole Great!! Thanks 😊 2y
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