3 ⭐ First off, this book is too long. The author tries to rhyme, but many are harsh and they frequently drop the cadence pattern. The message is a nice one, it‘s okay to say no. Maybe not at 2 or 3, but by the time you hit school age it is okay to say, no I don‘t want to do this thing, join this group, etc. The message is needed but it‘s not as good as it could be.