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Like a Mother
Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy | Angela Garbes
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What to read after What to Expect . . . . A badass, feminist, and personal deep-dive into the science and culture of pregnancy and early motherhood that debunks myths and dated assumptions, offering guidance and camaraderie to women navigating one of the biggest and most profound changes in their lives. Like most first-time mothers, Angela Garbes was filled with questions when she became pregnant. What exactly is a placenta? How does a body go into labor? Why is breast best? What are the signs and effects of post-partum depression? But as she discovered, its not easy to find satisfying answers. Your OB will cautiously quote statistics; online sources will scare you with conflicting and often inaccurate information; and even the most trusted books will offer information with a heavy dose of judgment. To educate herself, the food and culture writer embarked on an intensive journey of exploration, diving into the scientific mysteries and cultural myths that surround motherhood to find answers to her questions that had only previously been given through a lens of what women ought to doinstead of allowing them the freedom to choose the right path themselves. In Like a Mother, Angela offers a rigorously researched and compelling look at the physiology, biology, chemistry, and psychology of pregnancy and motherhood, informed by research, reportage, and her own experience. With a journalists curiosity and discipline, a mothers urgency, and a food writers insatiability, she explores the science behind the pressing questions women have about a number of subjects, including postpartum hormones, breast milk, and miscarriage. Infused with candor and humor, born out of awe, appreciation, and understanding of the human body and its workings, Like a Mother is a full-frontal look at whats really happening underneath your skin (and to it), and why women need to know.
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Started last night and can‘t put it down, I find myself highlighting a lot!

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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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A fascinating, affirming read.Topics include the placenta, drug/alcohol guidelines, breastfeeding, labour/birth support, and the exchange of fetal and maternal cells. Garbes's own experiences are woven throughout. The argument is information should be available so women (using that deliberately) can make their own decisions. YES! Unfortunately there is a weird inconsistent mix of inclusive (pregnant people) and exclusive (mother's milk) language.

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"From a very young age, we teach our children to be awed by the changes in the natural world. Can we ever see our own changes with the same generosity and wonder?"

"I had been exposed for the beast I truly was; my primary concern was enduring."

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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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It felt appropriate to start this book while rocking my sleeping baby at 6am after being up with her half the night. She does not want to be put down, she wants to be snuggled! 👼💖

AmyG Oh how precious. 3y
JacqMac So sweet! I miss those long, quiet nights with my babies. 3y
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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian @JacqMac I need to remind myself of this comment when I am feeling extra sleep deprived and cranky! 😊 3y
AmyG I hear you. Ha! 3y
Johanna414 I can't say I'm far enough removed from the baby days to miss the sleepless nights, but there really is nothing like those tiny infant snuggles... 3y
Suet624 There‘s nothing like it. I know it sucks not to sleep, but when you‘re my age and awake from 2-4 am for no apparent reason you‘ll wish you had that sweet sweetness laying on your chest. (edited) 3y
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian @Johanna414 I know! She's so tiny and sweet and she loves to be on my chest snoozing. 3y
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian @Suet624 Aw yes that's a good perspective! 3y
sprainedbrain 😍😍😍 3y
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Absolutely fascinating, inspiring, and beautiful.

readinginthedark I loved this one and recommended it to so many people! 4y
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Today is my husband's first day back at work from paternity leave and my baby's first day at daycare. We're doing some trial days to work out the kinks before I go back to work. So...mall walk and coffee with a friend, and then a much-needed naptime! Using this for my Store Sign Square on #LitsyWalkers Bingo!
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I'm reading in bits and pieces but not consistently yet...I promise to try and make more actual book posts soon!

Kaye Sounds good ! Good luck with daycare 👶🏻 5y
readinginthedark @kaye Thanks! Today went well, so I have high hopes. 5y
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I've been busy with family stuff all day and only have 48 more minutes of reading from this morning, when I pulled this book out for a bit. This section really resonated with me. #24B4Monday
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Andrew65 Any reading time is good. 👏👍 5y
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readinginthedark
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Today's reading plans! I might also fit some audio booking in, since I need to finish hanging baby clothes, do laundry, and pack a hospital bag...

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readinginthedark
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I stepped away from this one for a bit but am coming back to it now. Not sure if I have time to finish before the little one comes, but knowledge makes me feel better about my aches and pains!
#earthchildrenareweird

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mauveandrosysky
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This book is unapologetically feminist; empowering without being sanctimonious; and candid about the realities of pregnancy, birth and motherhood without without making me more anxious than I already am about the toll that they take on the mind and body. I‘m coming away from it with a better understanding of my own body and a sense of confidence that I‘ll be better equipped to advocate for myself as I navigate post-partum life and new motherhood.

Smrloomis I thought this was good too 👍🏽 5y
BooksForEmpathy Yesss! So excited and supportive of you always! 5y
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I‘ve been struggling with a lot of the rhetoric around pregnancy and what the expectations are versus how I feel (generally, like a human Petri dish). This book was a great read for facts around the experience but also a commentary on how some of those expectations are just silly. Definitely recommended even if you haven‘t been pregnant in ages or never plan to be.

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Smrloomis
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There were a few passages where I would have preferred a less strident tone. I definitely agree with much of what she writes here; I just didn‘t need for example to have dates repeated in a “I can‘t believe we only figured this out in the 1990s” sort of way. However, overall a pick for me, especially the part about the placenta which was particularly interesting. #LitsyAtoZ2018

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Wish I could disagree but I can‘t.

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Y'ALL. I am starting my journey around pregnancy and motherhood (not pregnant yet-- we are in this weird medical in-between space I would have never imagined before I got here) and I have been desperate for books that speak to the complicated nuances of pregnancy (and non-pregnancy and post-pregnancy and everything in between). I am DEVOURING this book. Angela is the friend I need right now. Also, how did I just find out a placenta is an organ????

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This. Book. I loved this book and it was just what I needed after my birth injuries 2 years ago. I have always wanted children but I never knew what it would do to my body and this book shows that while it shouldn‘t be the norm it is. Let‘s start to think about baby AND mother. These babies still need their mommas after they are born!

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Met my friend for breakfast this morning with her very small human! She recommended this book so I‘ve been listening to it on audio... eye-opening!! By the way, this is a savory porridge with mushrooms and greens and bacon and cheese on top 😋!

laurieluna Ah, tiny hands grabbing everything in reach! 😂 6y
saresmoore Knuckle dimples make me weak in the knees. 6y
Christine Best photo in all the ways! ❤️ 6y
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Gissy And what about that little pretty hand? ❤️☺️ 6y
erzascarletbookgasm Love this photo with the tiny hands! 😊 6y
Smrloomis Look at that chubby little hand! 🧡 6y
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readinginthedark
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I love surprises at work! 😍📚

mrozzz Oh! That Like a Mother looks interesting 6y
readinginthedark @mrozzz I agree! I haven‘t started it yet, but I‘m excited about it! 6y
zezeki What a beautiful covers 😍😍 6y
readinginthedark @zeljka I know! And they worked really well with my flower painting! 6y
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