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The Art of Waiting
The Art of Waiting: On Fertility, Medicine, and Motherhood | Belle Boggs
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A brilliant exploration of the natural, medical, psychological, and political facets of fertilityWhen Belle Boggs's "The Art of Waiting" was published in Orion in 2012, it went viral, leading to republication in Harper's Magazine, an interview on NPR's The Diane Rehm Show, and a spot at the intersection of "highbrow" and "brilliant" in New York magazine's "Approval Matrix."In that heartbreaking essay, Boggs eloquently recounts her realization that she might never be able to conceive. She searches the apparently fertile world around her--the emergence of thirteen-year cicadas, the birth of eaglets near her rural home, and an unusual gorilla pregnancy at a local zoo--for signs that she is not alone. Boggs also explores other aspects of fertility and infertility: the way longing for a child plays out in the classic Coen brothers film Raising Arizona; the depiction of childlessness in literature, from Macbeth to Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?; the financial and legal complications that accompany alternative means of family making; the private and public expressions of iconic writers grappling with motherhood and fertility. She reports, with great empathy, complex stories of couples who adopted domestically and from overseas, LGBT couples considering assisted reproduction and surrogacy, and women and men reflecting on childless or child-free lives.In The Art of Waiting, Boggs deftly distills her time of waiting into an expansive contemplation of fertility, choice, and the many possible roads to making a life and making a family.
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BookishMarginalia
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Day 64 #AfterMaria - Still waiting for power to return. Still waiting for a return to normal. Yes, a pumpkin spice latte from Starbucks helps. 🧙🏻‍♀️

cobwebmoth *hugs* 6y
Godmotherx5 Ugh. Hang in there 🤗 6y
Pogue I‘m on hold with a medical company. Aaaarrrgggghhh 6y
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Louise Sending you good wishes! Hang in there, Puerto Rico! 💪🏻🍀💪🏻💕 6y
CAnne 😕 6y
AmyG Oy. Hope the book helps? 😳 6y
Zelma I am so sorry. 💜 6y
GripLitGrl Sorry hope things get better soon. 💞🍀 6y
Pamwurtzler I‘m glad you have coffee! ☕️📚 6y
trueisa4letterword I loved that book! Read it earlier this year. 6y
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BookishShelly
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I forgot to take a picture of this book before I returned it to the library today. I finished it late last night and had been wanting to read more and more every time it was in my hands. Such a great and well researched book on infertility, adoption, IUI & IVF, surrogacy, forced sterilization, gay rights, child-free, racism & classism and probably a couple of other things I'm forgetting. And all written in a very readable way.

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drinkteareadbooks
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time for bed #24in48

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balletbookworm
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Boggs intertwined the story of her own struggle with infertility with a look at the ethics of and barriers to ART and cultural pressure to have children. The result is a thoughtful examination of child-bearing in the 21st century. Boggs also tried to expand beyond her own situation and describe barriers facing same-sex couples, single parents, and people of color - ART is largely the privilege of white, well-off heteronormative married couples.

balletbookworm I got to meet Boggs at BEA and she had brought a small collection of four-leaf clovers, wrapped in a damp paper towel, to place in the galleys as she signed them, and those tiny green plants represent a through-line in the book. 🍀 8y
theshrinkette Such a cool story! 8y
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Kmmsellers
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I preordered this book months ago, and it came in the mail today. So, of course I had to start reading it.

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AlisonCanRead
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Here's my favorite quote yet. "It was the reverse of the ill-considered folk wisdom most of us had heard from family or friends: As soon as you stop trying, you'll get pregnant. Our truth was more like this: Keep trying...and you'll eventually have success."

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AlisonCanRead
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Hadn't thought of infertility that way

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AlisonCanRead
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I can't go a page of this book without wanting to highlight a quote. @Graywolfpress

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RebeccaH
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A very good meditation on infertility. Beautifully written and thoughtful.

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RebeccaH
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I think this is true.

MrBook Hah! I have a book on my living room's coffee table titled "Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers On the Decision Not To Have Kids," edited by Meghan Daum. Proudly displayed front-and-center for all to see. ? 8y
Mayread Ugh. It's nobody's business. 8y
RebeccaH @MrBook I like the Daum anthology! I'm happy with my one kid, but I want to read about and support everybody's reproductive choices :) 8y
MrBook Ditto that both of you 😊! Great minds think alike 😉. 8y
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RebeccaH
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Up next. Can't WAIT for this one (and look for a review from me in a few months).

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RebeccaH
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Awesome book mail.

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mlabrise
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A little @Graywolfpress reading for the train today: THE ART OF WAITING: On Fertility, Medicine, and Motherhood by Belle Boggs (9/6/16)