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rebcamuse
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Mehso-so

Who is George? Well, while we are treated to almost four decades of his existence, I'm not sure I felt any more confident in answering that question at the end than I did at the beginning. George is, it seems, fairly unremarkable, and I think (THINK) that's the point? This does lead to some humor, and the frustrating inconsistency of George's attitudes is also a plus. I think we are supposed to see him as flawed -- and he is-- but who isn't?

rebcamuse He's self-centered and winds up in precarious situations of his own making (I couldn't help but think of another George...Costanza!), yet also seems to be able to interact socially and land a spot in a Super Bowl commercial. 5d
rebcamuse So, he's complex, in that ordinary human kind of way. His on-and-off again relationship with Jenny, who is also flawed, provided the most interest, but there were several spots where this threatened to be a do-not-finish for me. I'm glad I persisted, however, because I actually liked the (non-)ending because it was perfect for the book (something I appreciate even when I don't love the book that much). 5d
rebcamuse Ultimately I think it probably did not resonate as much with my Gen-Xness as it might with younger folk. #TOB25 #TOB2025 5d
BarbaraBB Thoughtful review 👌🏽 5d
rebcamuse Thank you @BarbaraBB ! 5d
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Chelsea.Poole
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Pickpick

Ok, this cover looks cheesy af. BUT! It‘s really insightful. Whippman covers many topics I‘ve read about in other parenting books and it‘s much of what I‘ve read before, but she also brings her 3 boys into the conversation. This gave the book a conversational tone —like mother to mother vibes. Everything from academics to screen time, ADHD to porn and everything in between. The takeaway: boys are often caught in the middle of the political divide.

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thecheckoutstack
Mehso-so

In the end I‘m glad I read it but it wasn‘t a home run for me.

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thecheckoutstack
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Ok I probably posted that last blurb about 50 pages too early. I related to and had empathy for George in his late teens early 20s. George in his late 20s early 30s is much harder to stomach 🙄

squirrelbrain He did turn into a bit of a d***, didn‘t he?! 9mo
BarbaraBB I get you 😀 9mo
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thecheckoutstack
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I gotta say, I read a lot of reviews about how much everyone hated George and I‘m 130 pages in and I have empathy for him. He‘s pretty oblivious and careless of others but it‘s a story and a perspective I haven‘t spent a lot of time with in books and that makes it worth telling. I‘m glad I decided to give the book a chance.

BarbaraBB Yes! I felt that way too. I didn‘t hate him at all. I just wasn‘t that interested in him 😀 9mo
thecheckoutstack @BarbaraBB totally fair 9mo
squirrelbrain I didn‘t hate him either. I felt sorry for him - he was rather pathetic. 9mo
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thecheckoutstack @squirrelbrain I don‘t feel like that yet either, I feel like he‘s privileged and depressed but that‘s not pathetic to me, that‘s just his life. I‘ll let you know where I land at the end of the book! 9mo
ImperfectCJ I didn't hate him, and I actually appreciate an author highlighting how irritating this type of personality is and how many chances those around him give him, over and over again. It's almost a call to action for those of us with a tendency to enable behavior like George's on both a small and a large scale. 9mo
thecheckoutstack @ImperfectCJ I‘m getting the vibe from everyone‘s comments more of the face palming behavior must happen in the last 2/3 of the book. I‘m excited to see how my feelings about George change. 9mo
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mcctrish
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This follows George through his life, he‘s a likeable child, his uni years are good too. You like George, it‘s a great audio book. Adulthood hits and there is this undercurrent to George, and I am not liking him so much. He isn‘t mean, but he‘s thoughtless. I am raging at my audio book. FFS George, get it together
It‘s well written. I enjoyed it when I wasn‘t raging 😂😂

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mcctrish
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Artsy Cats puzzling

AnnCrystal 👏🏼🧩🐈🆒💝. 10mo
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mcctrish
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I started this today - very easy listening

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GingerAntics
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Pickpick

Straight men, are you okay? Straight white men, are you specifically okay? This entire book is an ode to the idea that it‘s about damned time we abandon our insistence on a binary view of life, love, sexuality, attraction, and gender.
👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

GingerAntics This book is also very clear on how the toxic masculinity that harms women actually turns on itself in hazing rituals, ultimately using that violence and domination over weaker members of the group to reiterate and perpetuate itself. There is nothing healthy going on here. No, men are not okay. Straight men are not okay. Straight white men are absolutely not okay. Sadly, they are the ones most fervently fighting to keep things this way. 10mo
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