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My Vanishing Country
My Vanishing Country: A Memoir | Bakari Sellers
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What J. D. Vance did for Appalachia with Hillbilly Elegy, CNN analyst and one of the youngest state representatives in South Carolina history Bakari Sellers does for the rural South, in this important book that illuminates the lives of Americas forgotten black working-class men and women. Part memoir, part historical and cultural analysis, My Vanishing Country is an eye-opening journey through the South's past, present, and future. Anchored in in Bakari Sellers hometown of Denmark, South Carolina, Country illuminates the pride and pain that continues to fertilize the soil of one of the poorest states in the nation. He traces his fathers rise to become, friend of Stokely Carmichael and Martin Luther King, a civil rights hero, and member of the Student Non-Violent Coordinating Committee (SNCC) , to explore the plight of the South's dwindling rural, black working classmany of whom can trace their ancestry back for seven generations. In his poetic personal history, we are awakened to the crisis affecting the other Forgotten Men & Women, who the media seldom acknowledges. For Sellers, these are his family members, neighbors, and friends. He humanizes the struggles that shape their lives: to gain access to healthcare as rural hospitals disappear; to make ends meet as the factories they have relied on shut down and move overseas; to hold on to precious traditions as their towns erode; to forge a path forward without succumbing to despair. My Vanishing Country is also a love letter to fatherhoodto Sellers' father, his lodestar, whose life lessons have shaped him, and to his newborn twins, who he hopes will embrace the Sellers family name and honor its legacy.
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JenniferEgnor
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Our former SC State Representative talks about poverty and growing up in rural Denmark, the little known Orangeburg Massacre, running for office, equity, equality, the ongoing problem of Black Womxn‘s mortality & morbidity in healthcare, and the continuing legacy of the stain of slavery. He talks about what anll of this is like while being Black, especially in the Deep South. Denmark isn‘t far from where I currently live, and I was never taught⬇️

JenniferEgnor about the Orangeburg Massacre—it‘s an hour away. Nor was I ever taught about the deep inequities, the daily struggle of what it means to be Black, especially in a place where a remarkable amount of people are still so hateful.I hope my state will finally see deep change soon—its peoplx can‘t wait. As the next election approaches I am deeply afraid for what is coming. This book once again reminds us how much work is still to be done. Recommended.
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How many of us have to be murdered before someone does something? And if we wait on older Americans to do something, then the likelihood of it getting done isn‘t high at all. It‘s an undeniable fact that black lives matter, but some people like to say, “All lives matter.” However, that‘s like saying at a breast cancer awareness rally that all cancer matters. It‘s true: all lives matter; but there‘s not a question about the value of police⬇️

JenniferEgnor lives in this country or of white lives in this country. There is a question about the value of black lives—as there has been for about four hundred years. 2mo
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I‘d have to write another book to explore the issues surrounding race and religion. But if I did, I‘d argue that one of the more disappointing narratives of this racial divide in our country has been the silence of white, male, Christian evangelicals. People may roll their eyes about this, but I firmly believe that in my relationship with God, I‘m probably going to be in line ahead of Jerry Falwell Jr. and other evangelical heirs like Franklin⬇️

JenniferEgnor Graham III as they try to get into heaven. Why haven‘t these Christian leaders spoken up about the killings of black men by police? Why haven‘t they supported the #MeToo movement or railed against immigrant children being taken from their families? Why were they silent in the aftermath of the 2017 white supremacist rally in Charlottesville, Virginia? Race, religion, and power might be complicated, but ignoring compassion is malpractice. 2mo
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The fact that South Carolina is a deep red state makes it pretty likely that their friends and relatives will vote Republican, and have in the past, and therefore against policies that could help them eat and help them survive. But the legislators whom they choose vote against such policies because some people in certain political and media circles consider those policies to be geared toward helping only poor black people. How do poor whites⬇️

JenniferEgnor square voting against their own interests? My father believes that it all boils down to stereotypes and the alternate history South Carolinians have been taught to believe—that we black people didn‘t have a thing to do with building this country, that we are lazy and childlike, that we were treated kindly by slaveholders. Some people still to this day believe that the Civil War was not fought over slavery and that we nearly destroyed South⬇️ 2mo
JenniferEgnor Carolina during Reconstruction. Some writers have observed that South Carolina exists in a parallel universe. Well, just maybe that has something to do with miseducation. 2mo
Chrissyreadit Yes. It is purposeful by people who want to maintain control to keep poor people fighting each other and defending their oppressors. I live in WV and constantly try to find supports for people who have voted against those very supports. 2mo
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Why does dark skin so offend white people? There‘s no value in skin color itself. It adds nothing to or detracts from a person‘s skills, heart, or humanity, any more than eye or hair color does. So why have people with dark skin been terrorized for centuries, to this very day, and held in such contempt? Why were we enslaved for 250 years?

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Rebuilding a white community and a black community are two totally different things. Because black folk were stripped of everything, we have to rebuild our communities mentally, physically, spiritually, and economically.

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I know people say we almost pull ourselves up by our bootstraps, but that doesn‘t give value to being poor, black, and isolated in America. In rural segregated areas like Denmark and Orangeburg, black people live similarly to how they lived during the Jim Crow era. Regardless of class, we reside in the same black neighborhoods, often attending the same black schools in the same black churches.The children play and grow up together among the same⬇️

JenniferEgnor black families, regardless of who their parents are, and how much money their parents make. Segregation wasn‘t some remembrance of the past for us; it was, and is, our reality. (edited) 2mo
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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This is an ambitious memoir. Sellers covers a variety of topics and balances broader concepts with small details. His writing style is engaging, but his narration is only okay. He‘s connected to Civil Rights history, but lives with anxiety. He and his wife just celebrated their twins‘ 3rd bday. But it was touch-and-go for a while.

Full review https://www.TheBibliophage.com #thebibliophage2022 #booked2022 #blackcentricimprint #pantone2022 #basil

BarbaraTheBibliophage And I‘ll probably pick a prompt for #nonfictionchallenge2022 but right now I can‘t decide! @Riveted_Reader_Melissa 2y
Cinfhen I have this one but I‘m still not really compelled to listen🎧 #MaybeSomeday 2y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @Cinfhen I hear that. My reading goal this year is less challenges and more mood reading. I‘m just not feeling all the planning!! (Of course, I‘m still doing three challenges and finishing up one from 2022 … so we shall see …) 🤪 2y
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Cinfhen It‘s a long time until 2023 so I‘m not gonna push myself to rush through challenges 😉plus I‘m listening to this audio for #BlackOwnedPublishingHouse and it‘s really good 2y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @Cinfhen Sounds like a plan!! Enjoy the leisure! 2y
Cinfhen Thanks 😘😘 2y
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swynn
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It's a memoir by CNN commentator Bakari Sellers, and covers some terrific territory in Civil Rights history, social justice, and personal anecdotes. Despite the material, it never really grabbed me. Instead it feels like a politician's memoir, the sort published to help a campaign. Which is fine -- I'd vote for him -- but I was hoping for something different, I guess.

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My husband and I have always been fans of Sellers on CNN. We listened to this together and really enjoyed hearing about his upbringing and political life, but the most moving parts were his writing on the Charleston church massacre and his wife‘s near death experience giving birth to their twins. A very good memoir.

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