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If I Knew Then
If I Knew Then: Finding wisdom in failure and power in aging | Jann Arden
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Jann Arden--bestselling author, recording artist and late-blooming TV star--is back with this funny, heartfelt and fierce memoir on becoming a woman of a certain age. The power, gravity and freedom she's found at fifty-seven are superpowers she believes all of us can unleash. Digging deep into her strengths, her failures and her losses, Jann Arden brings us an inspiring account of how she has surprised herself, in her fifties, by at last becoming completely her own person. Like many women, it took Jann a long time to realize that trying to be pleasing and likeable and beautiful in the eyes of others was a loser's game. Letting it rip, and damning the consequences, is not only liberating, it's a hell of a lot of fun: "Being the age I am--that so many women are--is just the best time of my life." Jann weaves her own story together with tales of her mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, and the father she came close to hating, to show her younger self--and all of us--that fear and avoidance is no way to live. "What I'm thinking about now aren't all the ways I can try to hang on to my youth or all the seconds ticking by in some kind of morbid countdown to death," she writes, "but rather how I keep becoming someone I always hoped I could be. If I'm lucky one day a very old face will look back at me from the mirror, a face I once shied away from. I will love that old woman ferociously, because she has finally figured out how to live a life of purpose--not in spite of but because of all her mistakes and failures."
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Canadian musician Jann Arden is my fave female vocalist. She‘s also a fiercely outspoken animal rights activist, and a funny, self-deprecating straight shooter. I was thrilled that she made a cameo in my birthday video. Check her out on YouTube. This is my November #bookspin and it‘s a memoir of sorts which talks about getting older and the things she‘s learned along the way. Quick read and I certainly saw myself in it. @TheAromaofBooks

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@TheAromaofBooks my November #bookspin selections.

TheAromaofBooks Yay!!! 3y
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Kris10H
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I love Jann and everything she writes. I found this book so insightful, and it resonated with me a lot. Like Jann, I have recently become more accepting and forgiving of myself, and I am learning to say no to things, people, and even books that do not bring me joy. 😉

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This was absolutely fantastic! Highly recommend the audio version read by Jann.

Tamye I loved the audiobook version of this too, Penny. 4y
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Jann is speaking VOLUMES to me! I love listening to this on my #audiowalks. Tonight's sky was beautiful - such a beautiful night to get a good walk in. Dark clouds, but bright sun. Looked so cool!

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Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira
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“The meaning of the word crone varies depending on the person using it.“
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#ReadCanada #Alberta 6/13 To tell you how much I‘ve enjoyed that ? audio ?? I've loved this artist ever since I heard "Insensitive" in 1994. I've listened to her music ? a lot and seen her live. Listening to her thoughts on her life, from her crone posture, inspires me for my own path. #Aging, #Accept, #Body, #Family #Addiction, # Failures, # Successes, #Friendships, #SelfLove, #SelfCare, #Serenity #Wisdom

MsMelissa I love Jann Arden 😊 She is so great live, both her singing and her stories for her audience. I‘m glad you enjoyed the book - I bought it for my mother for Christmas 🎄 4y
Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira She‘s a combo of singer & stand up comedian 😅 Great gift to your mon ❣️ 4y
monalyisha Oh, I remember loving “Insensitive”! 4y
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New audio! Really enjoying it so far.
#ReadCanada #Alberta #WomanAuthor

Update! Loved it!

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A funny, inspiring memoir about how good it is to get older. I especially recommend listening to Jann Arden narrate the #audiobook edition of her story because she has perfect comedic timing. She speaks of coming out, overcoming alcohol addiction, and the deaths of her parents, all with a positive attitude towards the future. #LGBTQ #CanadianAuthor

Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira I will definitely listen to that ❣️ 4y
Lindy @Josee.a.lu.lit.et.lira It‘s a quick one; only about 3 hours long. 4y
Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira @Lindy even better 😉 4y
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batsy "how good it is to get older"—I need to read this. Love her music, too. 4y
Lindy @batsy I think you can listen to a sample on the publisher‘s website: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/625040/if-i-knew-then-by-jann-arden/ 4y
batsy Thanks! :) 4y
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For such a long time, I didn‘t think getting older was going to be all that useful, to be honest. The glamour and the joy of youth is pounded into us at every turn, so that we end up dreading the one thing that holds a hell of a lot of power in real life: wisdom.

valeriegeary That quote! ❤️💪🏻 4y
Lindy @valeriegeary Indeed! 😁 4y
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And yes, it IS possible to bloom extremely late in life. I am blooming as I sit here. I can feel myself blooming. You can never stop blooming, people. It‘s the best part of being a human being.

Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira I 💗 Jann Arden and this quote! There is still hope ❣️ Thanks for highlighting this book, 📚 for me. 4y
hermyknee ♥️♥️♥️ 4y
Lindy @Josee.a.lu.lit.et.lira @hermyknee 🤗🤗 4y
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I think planning the next meal is the centre of every relationship. If you can find another human who wants to eat with you for the rest of your life, you‘re set. I wonder if there‘s an app for that.

ladym30 Those look so good!❤️ 4y
Lindy @ladym30 Summer memories 😊 4y
Cathythoughts Yes! I agree. ‘ What will we have for dinner today ? ‘ ❤️ 4y
Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira I totally agree! I like how she highlights this fact. Never thought about it this way. (edited) 4y
Lindy @Cathythoughts @Josee.a.lu.lit.et.lira 😁 4y
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