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Love That Story: Observations from a Gorgeously Queer Life | Jonathan Van Ness
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In Jonathan Van Ness New York Times bestselling memoir Over the Top, he showed readers how the incredibly difficult moments from his life (surviving sexual abuse and addiction, being diagnosed with HIV) have existed alongside great joy and positivity (landing a breakout role on Netflixs Queer Eye, becoming an amateur figure skater and professional standup comedian, doting on his cats). If Jonathan has learned anything from these experiences, its that in order to thrive, he had to push past the shame and fear of being his true self. To embark on that journey, he had to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. In this candid and curious essay collection, Jonathan takes a thoughtful, in-depth look at timely topics through the lens of his own personal experienceinstances that have required him to learn, grow, and back handspring layout to a better understanding of the world around him. He dives deeply and widelyfrom a poignant reflection on grief and embracing body neutrality to an examination of the HIV safety net and white privilegeto share the ways in which he has learned to embrace change. These stories speak to doing the work to challenge internalized beliefs, finding compassion and confidence, and learning more about what makes us all so messy and gorgeous. Balancing the dark and the light, the serious and the signature humor that is Jonathan Van Ness, these essays will encourage readers to examine their individual assumptions and expand their horizons. Ultimately, it is about giving ourselves the permission to be the flawed and fabulous humans we are, and loving our stories.
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Kitta
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My 1st book for the #transrightsreadathon and I thought it was great! I very much want to read his memoir now.

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JVN discusses queer life in a series of personal essays complete with research and data to back up his opinions (love a good reference). Covering grief, public perception and imposter syndrome, as well as his HIV+ status and the HIV safety net, among other things - this was a great quick read.

#lgbtq #lgbtbookbingo

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Kitta
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“The fear of being unloveable due to past experiences is the literal definition of shame, and shame isn‘t something to keep buried.” 👏

#transrightsreadathon #lgbtq #nonbinary

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Kitta
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Starting this for the #transrightsreadathon. I saw him speak last year and he signed my copy!

JVN is famous for doing hair & makeovers on Queer Eye but is also known for being outspoken about being #nonbinary (he/they/she pronouns) and for living publicly with #HIV. He was well spoken and I hope the essays in the book are interesting!

He‘s also written a memoir: “Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love”

#lgbtq #lgbtq2024 #lgbtqbookbingo2024

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Kitta
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Head about this from @ChaoticMissAdventures and thought it would be great to participate in the #transrightsreadathon!

Going to be reading the tagged book I bought after seeing Johnathan Van Ness give a talk at the 92Y.

Check out the website for the master list of books, bingo cards, and more!

https://transrightsreadathon.carrd.co

A great chance to check off some #lgbtqbookbingo2024 squares.

#trans #nonbinary #lgbtq #lgbtq2024

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DGRachel
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This is a great collection of essays on important cultural and social justice issues. Jonathan Van Ness has an effervescent personality that comes through beautifully in his narration. Despite the heavy topics, Jonathan‘s humor keeps the book from being depressing or preachy. I loved this and have his memoir, Over the Top already checked out from the library. I highly recommend the audiobook.

DGRachel Also counts for #booked2022 - author living with HIV/AIDS @4thhouseontheleft @Cinfhen @BarbaraTheBibliophage 2y
AmyG He is awesome. His commercials with Simone Biles will always be a favorite. 2y
Cinfhen Ohhh, nice choice!! I‘ll put this on my #ListenersList 💕💕 2y
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JGadz11
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If I‘m being honest, I thought this would be self-indulgent fluff - hate the cover - but I love Jonathan, so I wanted to have a look. I was wrong about the book. It reads very quickly, because his voice is all over the page; it feels like you‘re having brunch and listening to his stories. There is so much depth, so many lessons here - lovely reminders that we are all flawed and beautiful, and there is more to life than our external shells.💖

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KathyWheeler
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Never read the print version of a Jonathan Van Ness book if you can listen to him read the audiobook. He‘s a fabulous narrator. This book is more of an essay collection on subjects that JVN cares deeply about — health care, gay rights, racism, gender identity, animals, and trans rights — than it is a memoir. He uses incidents from his life to illustrate how he got to the positions he takes about the issues he discusses.

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marleed
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This was a pretty solid grid of goodness. My 5* was a reread, but JVN rounds up to 5* in my Goodreads tracking and that warrants a grid tagging!

5* = Loved It, want to shout out loud about this book! I do/will own/keep a physical copy. A+
4*= I liked it, would love to discuss. Solid B
3*=Meh, no need to discuss. Average C
2*=Nope D
1*=DNF F

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marleed
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Johnathan Van Ness makes me smile. He wants every human to be kind and comfortable in their own skin. He‘s worked hard to find joy and peace with his non-binary self. His perspective is important and I‘m so glad it‘s out there for the world to consider. I know I‘m better for respecting what JVN has to say.

Prairiegirl_reading I agree!! 3y
AmyG I loved his commercials with Simone Biles. He always made me smile. 3y
Megabooks Both these books were so good! He‘s so uplifting! 3y
marleed @Prairiegirl_reading @AmyG @Megabooks I just keep thinking about what I can do/change in my own life to be even a fraction of this positive force of goodness! 3y
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Megabooks
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JVN is back with an essay collection that expands on his memoir, Over the Top. My favorite essay was his take on healthcare from the perspective of a queer, HIV-positive person. He had some fun talking about his hairdressing days and what NOT to do to your stylist, but then spoke more seriously about TERFs and race. He also opened up about his cannabis use and microdosing as a person with substance use issues.

Cinfhen Fun pick 💜 3y
sarahbarnes ❤️❤️❤️ 3y
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Kitta I saw him talk last week, it was great! I can‘t wait to ready the book. 3y
Megabooks @Kitta very cool! 😎 3y
Megabooks @sarahbarnes 👍🏻💜 3y
Megabooks @Cinfhen it was! 3y
Prairiegirl_reading I really enjoyed this one too. I got a couple fun “didya knows” from it also which was an appreciated bonus! I love Jonathan. Their show on Netflix is pretty interesting too. 3y
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