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JenniferEgnor
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I just found out that aquamation is now legal here! It was part of a bill that passed this July! HB 4116. I never thought I would see the day in this state. I will be sharing this with the community and be sure to bring it up at my Death Cafes. I like to think of it as going in a big dishwasher for a good bath 🤣 This is my first choice for my final disposition and it‘s in my advanced directives.

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JenniferEgnor
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My Advanced Directives are officially completed and notarized! It feels so good to have this done, and it was fun. Death/Dying are usually not things anyone wants to talk/think about. But we should be. It‘s the most natural thing in the world; we‘re all going to do it one day. So live your most authentic life, & plan ahead. We are not promised the next moment. You‘ll be glad you got your legal documents done, your friends & family will be too.

Soubhiville Very smart advice. 6mo
JenniferEgnor @Soubhiville I‘ve been meaning to get it done for several months. Now that the medical part is done, I can start the living will portion. My husband and I plan to move within the next year or so 🤞🏻, up north. We do not like where we live, and what I want for my final disposition is not available here. I wanted to get this done, just in case…I left very specific instructions. I know that my side of the family would not honor what I ask for⬇️ 6mo
JenniferEgnor So I‘ve arranged for designated persons to ensure it happens, should death occur before I get to leave this state. 6mo
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dabbe My husband and I plan to get the ball rolling on this this summer. His skin cancer and my breast biopsy really put things in perspective. Great advice! 🤩😀🤗 6mo
bibliothecarivs @JenniferEgnor What was the process where you live? 6mo
JenniferEgnor @bibliothecarivs do you mean for final disposition? 6mo
bibliothecarivs @JenniferEgnor Getting the advanced directives completed. 6mo
JenniferEgnor @bibliothecarivs filling them out with as much detail as I could about what I do and don‘t want, listing power of attorney designees, and being with a witness so they could sign, then getting it notarized. 6mo
TieDyeDude There are so many great options besides being buried in a box. It's a shame options are so limited in many places. 6mo
JenniferEgnor @TieDyeDude I used to say cremation until I learned about other options. Green Burial is nice and I really like the idea of aquamation. 6mo
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Billypar
Rabbit Hole | David Lindsay-Abaire
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#Tuesdaytunes (on Wednesday)
@TieDyeDude I still haven't streamed that Philly radio show that you mentioned a few weeks back, but it led to a revelation tonight. I was listening to a favorite artist of mine that I've posted about before - Stas Thee Boss and remembered she is a radio dj on a west coast public radio station, KEXP. But for some reason, it never occurred to me to try to stream her show...until tonight. And it's great! 👇

Billypar https://www.kexp.org/shows/Street-Sounds/ I'm listening to it now - it's on every Saturday night, but they have the last two episodes available. It's a great mix of old and new hip hop, classic and avant garde. Great for finding new artists, and Stas has already introduced me to so much hip hop and soul through a series of playlists she posts on Spotify called Late Night Sauce: https://open.spotify.com/user/1274906161?si=pz_VNCgZQS2FbMMMkcEKpQ 7mo
Billypar And while we're on the topic of music discovery, this week I found out that another British hip hop artist I follow Lex Amor (who I came across via a different hip hop radio-style program on Bandcamp, lol) has a 35 hour (!) playlist on her Spotify page called AMOR that seems amazing. It's more chill and has a blend of hip hop, r&b, and soul. She's also a DJ, but maybe that goes without saying 🎧🎙 7mo
TieDyeDude Oh my, so much to listen to! That's awesome. I've been in the mood for some R&B/soul. Thanks. 7mo
Billypar @TieDyeDude Both of those artist-created playlists have a great variety of R&B and soul, old and new - hope you enjoy! 7mo
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gpangel
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This is one of those emotional, feel-good stories that will stay with you for a long time! We need more people like Mrs. Kip and more books like this one!

I‘m looking forward to reading more books by this author! 💖💖

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REPollock
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Our sweet kitty Riley passed away last night, peacefully in his sleep after a brief illness. He was 17.
He loved birdwatching, sunbeams, lap time, licking water off of shower doors and soda cans, and helping me with sewing projects. We deeply love and already miss our little peanut, but are grateful he‘s no longer struggling.

julesG I'm sorry for your loss 😔 1y
IndoorDame I‘m so sorry. It‘s heartbreaking to lose a beloved pet 💔 1y
Tamra 💕 Sweet furry friend 1y
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Karisa A touching tribute to a wonderful companion💗 1y
TheQuietQuill So sorry for your loss 😢 1y
SheReadsAndWrites Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. ☹️ Hugs to you...❤️ 1y
REPollock Thank you @julesG 1y
REPollock Thank you @Tamra 1y
REPollock Thank you @Karisa 1y
AmyG Oh no. I am so sorry for your loss. 😢 1y
JessClark78 I‘m so sorry for your loss. 💔❤️ 1y
batsy I am so sorry 💔 1y
REPollock Thank you @AmyG 1y
REPollock Thank you @batsy 1y
marleed Oh I‘m sorry. 1y
REPollock Thank you @marleed 1y
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RamsFan1963
Rabbit Hole | David Lindsay-Abaire
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I've recently fallen down the rabbit hole of social media. I was spending too much time online and not enough time on my reading. However, today is a new start. I've deleted the apps that were distracting me, and I might still have time to salvage August.

Suet624 I understand how easy it is to get sucked back into social media. It‘s a creepy drug. Good for you for regrouping! 1y
Susanita It helped that the new X app is so ugly and easy to delete. 1y
Ruthiella Well done! 👏👏👏 1y
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AllDebooks It's good to have a balance but I do find SM incredibly annoying lately. It can be a place of such unpleasant unkindness and vitriol. This is the only place I'm comfortable with and enjoy. 1y
dabbe Good for you! 💙🖤🩵 1y
Cuilin You‘re not alone. 🩵 1y
Bookwomble I was having a similar issue with FB, uninstalled it, and felt an almost immediate improvement in my sense of well-being. I had reason to access my account recently, and knew straightaway I'd made the right decision! Uninstalled again once I'd done what I needed. Wishing you good mental health 💖 1y
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Kshakal
Swimming | Nicola Keegan
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Eggs Pretty 💦🏊🩵 1y
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JenniferEgnor
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I knew of this book before I asked my hospice coordinator for book recommendations. It was so informative, and written beautifully, gently. Everyone should read it. We will all experience the death of someone we know one day, and we will die, too. This book talks you through all of it, breaking down all the stigma that surrounds it, and helps you start with your own death plan and advanced directives. Highly recommended.

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JenniferEgnor
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Grief lives in the body. MRI studies show that a grieving brain has a pattern unlike other emotions. Most of the time, an emotion lights up parts of the brain, but grief is distributed everywhere, into areas associated with memory, metabolism, visual imagery, and more. Grief can make you sick; it can be brutal, even deadly. One is coming to grips with what forever means. And we don‘t do that all at once and we don‘t do it one day at a time ⬇️

JenniferEgnor but for one minute and then another. Don‘t ever say: Get over it, move on. She‘s in a better place now. 1y
JenniferEgnor I am reminded of something that was said on The Walking Dead. The pain doesn‘t go away—you just make room for it. 1y
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JenniferEgnor
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Jae Rim Lee founded the Infinity Burial Project and the Decompiculture Society. She created a burial shroud that looks like pjs, which contain a mix of mushroom mycelium and other microorganisms. After burial, the mushrooms sprout and speed up decomposition, releasing nutrients to the soil. Very cool!

https://deathcareindustry.com/the-coeio-infinity-mushroom-burial-suit/