Before I lost my father, I never understood the rituals surrounding funerals...But now I know why we do those things. It's busywork, all of it. I had so much to take care of so many arrangements to make so many people to inform, I didn't have a moment to be engulfed by the ocean of grief that was lapping at my heels. Instead, I waded through the shallows, performing task after task, grateful to have duties to propel me forward. #wickedwomenwriters