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The Forgotten Girls
The Forgotten Girls: A Memoir of Friendship and Lost Promise in Rural America | Monica Potts
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An acclaimed journalist tries to understand how she escaped her small-town in Arkansas while her brilliant friend could not, and, in the process, illuminates the unemployment, drug abuse, sexism and evangelicalism killing poor, rural white women all over America. Growing up gifted and working-class poor in the foothills of the Ozarks, Monica and Darci became fast friends. The girls bonded over a shared love of reading and learning, even as they navigated the challenges of their declining town and tumultuous family livesbroken marriages, alcohol abuse, and shuttered stores and factories. They pored over the giant map in their middle school classroom, tracing their fingers over the world that awaited them, vowing to escape. In the end, Monica left Clinton for college and fulfilled her dreams, but Darci, along with many in their circle of friends, did not. Years later, working as a journalist covering poverty, Monica discovered what she already intuitively knew about the women in Arkansas: Their life expectancy had steeply declinedthe sharpest such fall in a century. She returned to Clinton to report the story, trying to understand the societal factors driving the disturbing trends in the rural south. As she reconnects with Darci, she finds that her once talented and ambitious best friend is now a statistic: a single mother of two, addicted to meth and prescription drugs, jobless and nearly homeless. Painfully aware that Darci's fate could have been hers, she retraces the moments of decision and chance in each of their lives that led such similar women toward two such different destinies.
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Aimeesue
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Listened to the audiobook, which was devastating. It resonated with Demon Copperhead, which I‘d read several months ago, but had the added dimension of how girls/women in less affluent rural places are impacted in so many ways by poverty, drugs, and despair, worsened by cultural expectations of women, particularly in the South US. I‘m from a rural Northern county, so not exactly the same, but close enough that I recognized similar issues. PICK

Aimeesue This book, plus Demon Copperhead shed a lot of light on why small rural towns lean conservative, what the hell happened in the 2016 election and why. It‘s just all so sad, but it‘s shifted my perspective and understanding a lot about why people continue to vote against their own interests. 5mo
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Both a poignant memoir and a well-researched look at one of the most intractable problems in America, this book made me sad, made me think, and made me want to do better. She doesn‘t offer a simple solution to these complex problems, nor does she blame “the coastal elite” for the problems of rural America. She portrays the people sympathetically as fully human, neither demonizing nor canonizing them. Highly recommended.

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The Forgotten Girls is a gripping account of friendship and coming of age in rural America. Potts is ruthless in examining the reasons for disconnect and drug abuse in rural communities, often linked to poverty and lack of opportunities. Sadly, this has been the case for so long now and real societal change is always so far out of reach. This book highlights the need of very real people for systematic change across all of society.

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My haul from today‘s #bookshopcrawl in Liverpool.

The tagged and Prophet Song are both from Waterstones, even though Prophet Song isn‘t supposed to be published until next Thursday. The Peter May is from Oxfam, for hubby.

Bottom left and right are gifts from @Oryx and @TrishB 😘😘, from Dead Ink (my favourite shop of the day!) and finally the Aoyama is a complete #covercrush from News From Nowhere.

Deblovestoread Lovely haul. 8mo
Suet624 These look great! 8mo
TrishB Lovely ♥️ 8mo
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LeahBergen I have A Wreath for an Enemy waiting on my shelves. 👍 8mo
Cinfhen How wonderful! 8mo
Oryx I'll remember to save my Forgotten Girls for Gladstone's 8mo
julesG Great haul! The Aoyama looks interesting. 8mo
youneverarrived 😍😍😍 8mo
batsy Great haul! I was wondering who picked up Jawbone... It sounds good but scary/weird so I look forward to your thoughts! 8mo
squirrelbrain It does sound rather weird doesn‘t it? @batsy 8mo
squirrelbrain @LeahBergen do I hear the faint call of a #buddyread ?! 8mo
LeahBergen @squirrelbrain Yes, please. Just let me know when and where. 😆 8mo
squirrelbrain @LeahBergen - I‘ve *just* put it on my holiday pile, which is the second week of September, if that suits? 😃 8mo
LeahBergen That sounds perfect! 8mo
Caroline2 Oh I‘ve got Prophet Song burning a hole in my basket!! Can‘t wait to hear what you think. 👍 8mo
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