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This Is Where You Belong: The Art and Science of Loving the Place You Live
This Is Where You Belong: The Art and Science of Loving the Place You Live | Melody Warnick
In the spirit of Gretchen Rubin s megaseller "The Happiness Project" and Eric Weiner s "The Geography of Bliss," a journalist embarks on a project to discover what it takes to love where you live The average restless American will move 11.7 times in a lifetime. For Melody Warnick, it was move #6, from Austin, Texas, to Blacksburg, Virginia, that threatened to unhinge her. In the lonely aftermath of unpacking, she wondered: "Aren t we supposed to put down roots at some point?" "How does the place we live become the place we want to stay?" This time, she had an epiphany. Rather than hold her breath and hope this new town would be her family s perfect fit, she would figure out how to fall in love with it no matter what. How we come to feel at home in our towns and cities is what Warnick sets out to discover in "This Is Where You Belong." She dives into the body of research around place attachment the deep sense of connection that binds some of us to our cities and increases our physical and emotional well-being then travels to towns across America to see it in action. Inspired by a growing movement of placemaking, she examines what its practitioners are doing to create likeable locales. She also speaks with frequent movers and loyal stayers around the country to learn what draws highly mobile Americans to a new city, and what makes us stay. The best ideas she imports to her adopted hometown of Blacksburg for a series of Love Where You Live experiments designed to make her feel more locally connected. Dining with her neighbors. Shopping Small Business Saturday. Marching in the town Christmas parade. Can these efforts make a halfhearted resident happier? Will Blacksburg be the place she finally stays? What Warnick learns will inspire you to embrace your own community and perhaps discover that the place where you live right now . . . is home."
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CaliforniaCay
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After 15 years of living in Sacramento I've been noticing lately that I have a love/hate relationship with my city. I've lived here longer than any where else. I have a lot of memories here, but I don't see myself putting down roots, or growing old here. Reading this book was eye opening and inspiring. A mix of personal anecdotes and research, the author gives lots of examples of how one can actively learn to love where they live.

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DieAReader
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Andrew65 Brilliant to hear, well done 👏👏👏🥰 13mo
TheSpineView Excellent! 13mo
DieAReader @Andrew65 @TheSpineView 😊❤️‍🔥🤓🎧 13mo
CoverToCoverGirl Keep calm and read on….🎉👏🏻👏🏻 13mo
DieAReader @CoverToCoverGirl 😘🤓📚📖 13mo
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DieAReader
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TheSpineView Enjoy! 13mo
DieAReader @TheSpineView 🤓🥰❤️‍🔥 13mo
Andrew65 Love the sound of this ❤️ 13mo
DieAReader @Andrew65 ❤️‍🔥😊It‘s a good read so far! Worth the listen🎧🤓 13mo
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peanutnine
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Mehso-so

This was a decent read. The author describes different ways to feel more attached to the place you live. A lot of the ideas were a bit obvious but others were interesting to learn about. Some examples were to shop/eat locally, get involved with events/volunteer, walk vs drive around town, get to know your neighbors, etc.
This was my friends' bookclub pick so it'll be interesting to see if any of us are going to put the ideas into practice.

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peanutnine
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Day 1 of the #20in4 done and I did pretty well for a Friday. I had to work all day but still managed to get in 3 1/2 hours. My long commute definitely helped (yay audiobooks)
@Andrew65

Andrew65 A great start 👏👏👏 4y
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emtobiasz
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I can‘t seem to focus on fiction right now— any story conflict or suspense seems to stress me out! So low-suspense nonfiction it is. Any recommendations? Bonus points if it‘s on #hoopla 😉

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Moonprismpower
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There was a lot of statistics in this book which list my attention. And the author would discuss her experiment from her to do list but again there was so much detail with maybe not enough emotion that I didn‘t always listen. However I enjoyed her list, her revelations and discussions about volunteering, finding a restaurant to become regulars and an interesting discussion about New Orleans after Katrina.
List of TO DO‘s in comment section.

Moonprismpower List of to do‘s:
1.Walk more :in town
2.Buy Local :$50/month, farmers market,cash mobs
3.Get to know neighbors:block parties, welcome new
4.Do fun stuff:local stuff in town, try new stuff too
5.Explore nature
6.Volunteer
7.Eat local: restaurant not chains, farmers markets
8.Become more political:local government
9.Create something new: shared activity, kindness rocks, love letter to town left in public place
10.Stay local through hard times
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Moonprismpower ALSO...This book will be reviewed Thursday for the By the Book podcast about living by self-help books for two weeks. Hosts are Kristen and Jolenta. I enjoy the show 🙂. 4y
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Zelma
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Meh. I liked the idea of this but was bored reading it. Lighter non-fiction hasn‘t been doing it for me lately so time to move on.

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RebelReader
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This book has something offer everyone whether you have lived in one place your whole life or just moved to a new one. If you love where you live or at least want to try to love it, Melody Warnick gives lots of great ideas to make your community a better place!

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EvieBee
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So I kind of got a little carried away with the Kindle purchases. I'm getting ready for a book buying fast for the rest of the year...I think? #bookhaul

tricours Is there a sale? 7y
WhatDeeReads Wow. 7y
LauraBrook Nice! Could you do a 4 month ban? That seems a little long to me. 7y
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EvieBee @tricours Yeah! I just barely browsed the monthly deals. So many good ones! 7y
EvieBee @LauraBrook Lol thanks! I think so. I don't have anymore shelf space since I purged and kept only one shelf. As far as Kindle, I think so. I've been using my library like crazy! 7y
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Scfreads
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This was right up my alley. In the same vein as Gretchen Rubin's The Happiness Project, but with Love Where You Live experiments. #overdrive

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gthorton
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Well, finding an author's signature in a library book just seems like a waste. Remind me how it's wrong to "lose" this copy, right?

kiminreverse My library copy of Gold Fame Citrus was signed. It seemed so odd! 7y
gthorton It does seem odd! Those copies are usually more pricey and I'm assuming the shelf life of a library book isn't terribly long. Plus, no one is treasuring it like an owner would!! 7y
SusaninTX Maybe the library will get more for it when they sell it off? I have this book sitting on my TBR - I've been so distracted by new releases from the library that I'm neglecting reading my own shelves. The upside with increased library use is that I've slowed down on acquisitions, so maybe I won't run out of shelf space as soon as expected. 😉🙈❤📚 7y
gthorton Very true! And now I need to remember to look for signed copies at my library sale from now on. I am kinda wishing I owned this one now because it's so good and I want to write in it and take notes and all that. I'm moving next month so I'm trying to take the lessons to heart! 7y
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MaureenMc
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Interesting look at place attachment and the author's attempts at learning to love her town. Offers some fun ways to get more involved in your community.

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Lorren
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Mehso-so

I wanted to love this -- it's so in my wheelhouse. And I liked it. The writing was good, the content was interesting. But it just didn't quite mesh and I'm not sure why. Worth a read but not a raver.

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8little_paws
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Finished this audiobook this morning while working. It's a super easy book to listen to, usually I have a hard time listening while I work, but not here. Since of the facts and case studies were interesting, however, a lot of what this book offers is super obvious imo. A lot of the suggestions are for if you're living in an upper middle class area that is very safe. Best part was chapter on rebuilding after disasters.

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8little_paws
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I got through 3.5 hours of this audiobook while canning today as well (7 quarts chicken marsala, four chili con carne, two turkey soup). so far it is kind of interesting, but also kind of classist 😕 it presumes you have money and live in a nonviolent neighborhood. But I'll keep listening as I'm not getting tired of it despite concerns.

LilMamaMastro Wow! Busy! I love audiobooks while "kitchening"! 8y
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howjessicareads
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Got a bit repetitive toward the end, but overall had thought-provoking ideas on place attachment. And yes, I am sitting in my dark garage so I can listen to the last 15 minutes. Dumb audiobooks on CD. 😜

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ElizabethSensa
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Reading this book will help you fall in love with Blacksburg, VA all over again! If you're not in Blacksburg, you will still learn multiple approaches to exploring your community and developing ties. Warnick includes helpful checklists for ways to immerse yourself in your current zip code and invest in your surroundings. After all, wherever you go, there you are. Might as well be happy. #ThisIsHome

Beckys_Books We've moved 7 times in the 24 years we've been married. It never bothers me to move. There is definitely a mindset to being happy where you are. 8y
ValerieAndBooks Since we've been married we've lived in four different states and our most recent move was two years ago. Sounds like a book I want to read!! 8y
ElizabethSensa Give the book a try! She makes some great suggestions. I admire people who have moved from place to place - I can feel lost just staying still! I agree that loving where you are is a mindset. 8y
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howjessicareads
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This is fascinating so far!!

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Jdscott50
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Seduced by the call of the road, Melody Warnick's book is her attempt to love the place she is in. After several moves, she worries about settling down and place attachment for her children. However, she can't decide where to settle down. She ends up in Blacksburg, Virginia and is dead set on loving her adopted city. Her book is her plan to find where she belongs. She wants to unlock the secrets of staying put.

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annebogel
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Everybody has a book stack in their closet, right? (Don't answer that.)

Suelizbeth My answer would be, where don't I have a book stack? 8y
Meg858 This is a beautiful stack!!! I never get tired of Maria De Los Santos 8y
SusaninTX I'm with @Suelizbeth on this one. 😊Melody is going to be at the Texas Book Festival in November. Hoping to get to hear her speak. 8y
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Jdscott50
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I was a little skeptical when I started reading this, but now I keep nodding at all these great points.

"When residents felt like their city offered a lot to do, looked nice, and welcomed all kinds of people, they felt most attached to it."

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Chessa
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Today's library haul! I started Jane Eyre on Serial and then switched to ebook, but I decided that holding it my hands would be proof that I actually am making progress and somehow chapters aren't just being added continuously. (I'm enjoying it, I swear!). Grabbed the Shirley Jackson because The Lottery has been on my list forever. And I started We Have Always Lived in the Castle on audio, but maybe I'll finish in print? It could happen.

Notafraidofwords The lottery. I love that story. 8y
ErickaS_Flyleafunfurled Love Shirley. I read Castle not too long ago and it was deliciously spooky without being overt about it. 8y
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florinda3rs
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"As long as I have a Target, everything will be OK." #wordstoliveby

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florinda3rs
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I'm returning this ebook to the library early. I bought my own copy because I'm finding way too many passages I want to highlight! And you mustn't write in library books, even electronic ones.

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From Chapter 1

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florinda3rs
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"I realized this sounds like magical thinking. 'Wherever you go, you take yourself with you,' a therapist might have scolded (if I'd had one). And yet my life did change from city to city, sometimes dramatically so."

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florinda3rs
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Just downloaded to Overdrive from the Los Angeles Public Library. I have moved around a LOT, and this premise intrigues me.

kerry I need to read this one. 8y
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BeththeBookDragon
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The 'Project' based book got started for me with Gretchen Rubin. This follows the format - a woman that decides she will 'Love Where She Lives' and sets up a series of experiments based on research. ⭐️⭐️⭐️

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unrulyreader
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What if a place becomes the right place only by our choosing to love it?

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Rhondareads
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Learning to love the place you live.

Rhondareads An honest intimate look about the desire to find the place you really call home.No matter how many moves it takes the searches for friends connections&roots. 8y
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