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Fairest
Fairest: A Memoir | Meredith Talusan
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"A heartrending immigrant memoir and a uniquely intersectional coming-of-age story of a life lived in duality and the in-between, and how one navigates through race, gender, and the search for love"--
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christhelesbian
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My picks for February.

Honorable mention for Nella Larsen's Passing . I watched the movie last night with friends.

#12DaysofChristmas, #12Booksof2022, @Andrew65

Andrew65 These look to be excellent choices. 1y
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GatheringBooks
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#SavvySettings Day 25: #Fair indeed

Eggs 💗📚🧡 2y
brittanybooks Gorgeous cover 🤍🤍🤍 2y
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bnp
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I'm not in step for #foodandlit2022, but I finally finished Fairest:a memoir for the Philippines. (Was that December?) Not gonna finish the other two in time for January & February, but maybe I'll skip March & catch up.

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Intriguing connections between two books I recently finished, Fairest: a memoir by Meredith Talusan and Passing by Nella Larsen.

Fairest is about a Filipino boy who grows up to be a woman, an anak araw who can pass for white in the US.

Passing is the classic novella by Nella Larsen, made into a movie in 2021.

Here is a YouTube video about passing, the & now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4M5SiX5gDI

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SkeletonKey
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Currently reading.

#transbooks

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From the prologue - interesting how identity is shaped, in part, by our expectations & what we can imagine

What is gained? What is lost?

#foodandlit, @Texreader , @Butterfinger, #Philippines

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Check out this info graphic for some reads set in various countries around the world.

https://geediting.com/most-iconic-book-set-in-every-country/

#foodandlit, @texreader, @butterfinger, #Phillipines

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Lindy
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A thought-provoking memoir of a non-white trans woman with albinism who moved from the Philippines to the USA when she was in her teens. A member of my feminist book club chose this because she is half Filipino & had never read anything by someone from the Philippines. It sparked one of our best discussions ever, because of its nuanced portrayal of appearance, passing & identity. Also, the way queer culture has changed. #LGBTQ

Megabooks This book was fantastic. 2y
Lindy @Megabooks 😊👍 2y
Ruthiella I think you‘ve read EVERYTHING Lindy 😅 but for a book by a Filipina author for your friend and you if you‘ve not read it already is 2y
Lindy @Ruthiella It‘s been on my TBR since I saw Elaine Castillo at the Vancouver Writers Fest. I will move it up closer to the top 😁 2y
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I felt a pang then, my conscience, but the collective voices of my photo professors drowned it out, with stories of how Diane Arbus woke subjects up at sunrise to get them at their most vulnerable, how Nan Goldin took out the door to her bathroom so she could take pictures of people having sex or doing drugs, and how the French artist Sophie Calle even worked as a maid at a hotel just to take pictures of guests‘ private belongings.

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Lindy
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Gender transition provided me with much greater freedom of expression, the ability to determine the forms of femininity I wanted to embody, instead of feeling like I had to negotiate every feminine accessory or mannerism with a strict gay church that constantly threatened to reject me. I would have probably been bakla had I stayed in the Philippines, remained in that more indeterminate space in a culture where that was possible.

GatheringBooks This term can both be pejorative and a symbol of being part of a tribe. For example, me and my girlfriends (we are all straight) would call each other “bakla” as a form of endearment and a way to also demonstrate how we are fierce lgbt allies. Being a “Baklang Babae” holds quite a positive connotation in the Filipino lgbt community as well. 2y
Lindy @GatheringBooks Thanks for this. I didn‘t realize you are from the Philippines. 🤗 Talusan does elaborate on the term in an earlier part of the book, but not in this passage. 2y
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Megabooks
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Meredith is a transgender albino Filipina who often passes as white. This memoir covers her childhood there, her immigration to the US as a teen, her living as a gay man at Harvard, and her transition to female as an adult. There is A LOT to unpack in the memoir between culture and passing and opportunities afforded her due to white skin. There is also a lot about being transgender in Filipino culture and in US academic circles. Highly recommend!

Librarybelle Great pick for this challenge! 3y
Megabooks @Librarybelle thanks! I enjoyed it! 3y
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Megabooks @Cinfhen this one is up your alley! #MemoirGals 👯‍♀️ 3y
Cinfhen Did you read or do audio???? 3y
Megabooks @Cinfhen audio, and the author does a good job of narrating. 👍🏻 3y
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Kenyazero
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Every week, I highlight #lgbtqauthors #TheRainbowShelf 🏳️‍🌈 Meredith Talusan has written for numerous publications in her journalism career, including the New York Times, The Guardian, and VICE Magazine. Their memoir, out this year, explores their experiences growing up male and albino in the Philippines, immigrating to the US, and transitioning. She's also the founding executive editor for @ them. #lgbtq #transgender #bipocauthors #lgntqvoices

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HOLY CATS do I love BOOKS. I mean, I always love books, but some days I feel so extra about them that I just want to make a big pile of books and roll around on them like a dog in the grass. Books are everything. 📚❤️📚

SW-T 🥰 4y
Clwojick 😍😂 So damn relatable! 🔥🥰 4y
Bklover Absolutely! 4y
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Bklover The Dragonfly Sea sounds like such an interesting title. Have you read it? 4y
Branwen YES! 📚💕 4y
marleed I completely understand! 4y
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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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A memoir about the life of a writer/artist trans woman with albinism from the Philippines who immigrated to the US as a teen. This book sails right past conventions of the typical trans and immigrant memoir; she's perceived as white but is Asian, and she didn't always know she was a girl. Her writing is beautiful. She boldly looks right at herself, sharing complexities, inconsistencies, and flattering and not so flattering moments in her life.

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"That womanhood itself might be the vessel that best contained my being."
#TransBooks #QueerBooks