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The Divorce Colony
The Divorce Colony: How Women Revolutionized Marriage and Found Freedom on the American Frontier | April White
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From a historian and senior editor at Atlas Obscura, a fascinating account of the daring nineteenth-century women who moved to South Dakota to divorce their husbands and start living on their own terms For a woman traveling without her husband in the late nineteenth century, there was only one reason to take the train all the way to Sioux Falls, South Dakota, one sure to garner disapproval from fellow passengers. On the American frontier, the new state offered a tempting freedom often difficult to obtain elsewhere: divorce. With the laxest divorce laws in the country, five railroad lines, and the finest hotel for hundreds of miles, the small city became the unexpected headquarters for unhappy spousesinfamous around the world as The Divorce Colony. These society divorcees put Sioux Falls at the center of a heated national debate over the future of American marriage. As clashes mounted in the country's gossip columns, church halls, courtrooms and even the White House, the women caught in the crosshairs in Sioux Falls geared up for a fight they didn't go looking for, a fight that was the only path to their freedom. In The Divorce Colony, writer and historian April White unveils the incredible social, political, and personal dramas that unfolded in Sioux Falls and reverberated around the country through the stories of four very different women: Maggie De Stuers, a descendent of the influential New York Astors whose divorce captivated the world; Mary Nevins Blaine, a daughter-in-law to a presidential hopeful with a vendetta against her meddling mother-in-law; Blanche Molineux, an aspiring actress escaping a husband she believed to be a murderer; and Flora Bigelow Dodge, a vivacious woman determined, against all odds, to obtain a "dignified" divorce. Entertaining, enlightening, and utterly feminist, The Divorce Colony is a rich, deeply researched tapestry of social history and human drama that reads like a novel. Amidst salacious newspaper headlines, juicy court documents, and high-profile cameos from the era's most well-known players, this story lays bare the journey of the turn-of-the-century socialites who took their lives into their own hands and reshaped the country's attitudes about marriage and divorce.
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Jen2
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Fascinating

Suet624 Sounds really interesting. Stacked! 1y
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rachelm
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I‘m loving this. I love nonfic that is deeply researched but also very narrative. This is about how South Dakota became a haven of divorce in late 19th century and early 20th century

Amiable Sounds interesting! 1y
TheBookHippie I read the ARC and really enjoyed it! 1y
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This book explores the four women that helped bring the idea and acceptance of Divorce into the mainstream conversation within the United States. These women's stories were rife with drama, gossip and beauty. It was so well researched and laid out in a way that makes the whole history acceptable. I want to take a trip to Sioux Falls South Dakota.

#NonfictionNovember

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I just love listening (yes, audio) to little/unknown histories. The Dakotas divorce laws varied from the rest of the US for decades and decades. With a steady influx of mostly short-term people showing up and residing in the state just long enough to become citizens and proceed with divorce, the back stories of these women are mesmerizing to me. I can't get over how it would have all broken down with such efficiency sans Twitter updates...

MaggieCarr ...Rolling in and out on trains, mailed correspondence to lawyers back East, short term rentals & long-term hotel guests-- all of it seems unattainable but with motivation to end bad marriages the four women at the center of this book overcame insurmountable indifference in a society that frowned upon the institution of divorce. 2y
tokorowilliamwallace Probably something I'd prefer for audiobook, too. But I love listening to histories via local lecture/talk/ranger tour guide events. 2y
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Megabooks
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I read this the day that Roe v Wade was overturned, and it helped bolster my opinion that women will find a way.

Sioux Falls in late 19th c was a haven for women seeking divorce. Most states‘ laws were narrow in scope, but in the Dakotas, a woman only needed a short residency and had more grounds to choose from than back East. However men were terribly afraid for women‘s morality 🙄 and some wanted to require an act of Congress to get a divorce!

Cinfhen Ive ALWAYS LOVED your optimism!!! 2y
Megabooks @Cinfhen we may have temporarily lost this battle but the war is not over! Sometimes my hope comes in handy even if it is laced with fear. 2y
Cinfhen So true xxx 2y
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Cathythoughts Women will find a way ! Absolutely agree 👍🏻♥️we are warriors. (edited) 2y
Megabooks @Cathythoughts 💯💯💯 it may end up being like what I‘ve heard happened in Ireland. The high profile death of the dentist who couldn‘t get a medically necessary abortion and died of sepsis?? Am I remembering that correctly? I know a similar tragedy will probably happen many times over here before one is high profile enough to cause large scale change. I weep for the young people who will live in a post-Roe world. 😢 2y
CBee @Megabooks I just read something yesterday, about a woman in Poland who died after not getting a medically necessary abortion. Poland has some of the strictest abortion laws in Europe (which I didn‘t realize). To know that her death could‘ve been prevented just breaks my heart. Like you, I‘m hopeful but fearful all the same 🙁 2y
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