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You should be the love of your own life.

You have to know I‘m the Queen of these type of books. Over my long time on this planet I have acquired a heap of them. Recently culled them down to one bookshelf. This seems to be the flavour of the day right now . A gentle reminder of things I have learnt along the way. But more importantly a nudge to actually apply theses things. She is a dynamic personality . I‘ve used her theory, not always easy , but has helped. You can teach an old chook 👇

Loving this book so far!! Highly recommend!!

February 17, 2025 FINISHED! I am proud of myself for jumping on the train and reading this book. It is a helpful tool that I can always use --- well maybe when I feel is appropriate --- in my daily life. Not everything in this book relates to me but I can connect with the section titled "Your Relationships and the Let Them Theory". This section was about adulting and really stuck with me. 5/5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Lots of great advice

February 14, 2025 Happy Valentine's Day lovely LOVELY folks. I am on page 91 and the caption of the section could not be more true. I feel that as humans and individuals, we always tend to get very sensitive when someone says a negative thing about us. We need to remember ultimately that it does not matter what others say so just ignore them. They will not make you feel better. YOU can only make yourself feel better.

February 13, 2025 Life is Stressful... True or False? Obviously true. Everybody who lives on this planet has some stress and can easily get stressed out. As humans, one of our natural emotions is stress. Stress is not a healthy thing to have. However, we can deal with stress in a healthy way. Take deep breaths and calm ourselves.

February 12, 2025 I started reading The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins and have been enjoying it. I would not consider it to be a self help book; it is more of an advice / lessons book. If you are curious about the 5 Second Rule (5-4-3-2-1) or the Let Them Theory, then this book will help change the trajectory of your life. Pick up a copy today and join me in wodking on yourself AND not caring what others say!

February 12, 2025 Will start my next TBR ^^^^

February 11, 2025 Page 392 out of 455... Hattie and Hayes are engaged. Hattie is one of Ryland's sisters. Hayes is a best friend of Ryland. Ryland is getting calles Uncle Dad now (Feeling emotional since Cassidy, another sister, passed away). Mac is his noece but Ryland finds it very loving and sweet that she calls him Uncle Dad. This means tha he is doing something right. Mac also likes having Gabby around. Ryland likes that too haha Love wins!!

February 11, 2025 (continued) Now Ryland and Gabby are working together and handling their relationship without issues. Ryland could not stop thinking about Gabby. He was also jealous when he saw her with Christian. He would feel nauseous seeing her with somebody else. Gabby picked up on that and reminded Ryland to stop feeling jealous and just leave her alone. He agreed that he was acting that way and chose to change his behavior

February 11, 2025 19 days left of February. Where is the time going? I am currently reading The Path to Loving Him bh Meghan Quinn and then The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins but could not find the book by Meghan Quinn when I searched Litsy. Anyway, I am on page 316 out of 455. VERY CLOSE ekkk At first, Ryland and Gabby, who are coworkers had friends with benefits. Then, Gabby felt like there should be none. Ryland did not like that but gave in.

The ‘Let Them‘ theory is the tough love kick in the ass that we all need at different points in our lives. IMO, it is an effective third phase of growth & action once a person has done the deep, reflective inner work and systems thinking necessary to be fully integrated. Alone, I could see ‘Let Them‘ being helpful, but feeling like an emotional white knuckling through aspects of life that require deeper processing. 4 ⭐️ with that said, I love Mel!

Xmas gift card book haul.