
Nancy corrected me emphatically. “You must never think about rewards or punishments,”she said. “If you think in terms of rewards and punishments, you‘re not thinking partnership. They don‘t serve us, we serve them. …We are not giving them anything,” Nancy stressed, “ it‘s either theirs, or it‘s not. We are working with the bird. It‘s a partnership. And even after all these years, I‘m the junior partner, I am not the master.”