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Ego Is the Enemy
Ego Is the Enemy | Ryan Holiday
The instant Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and international bestseller While the history books are filled with tales of obsessive visionary geniuses who remade the world in their image with sheer, almost irrational force, Ive found that history is also made by individuals who fought their egos at every turn, who eschewed the spotlight, and who put their higher goals above their desire for recognition. from the prologue Many of us insist the main impediment to a full, successful life is the outside world. In fact, the most common enemy lies within: our ego. Early in our careers, it impedes learning and the cultivation of talent. With success, it can blind us to our faults and sow future problems. In failure, it magnifies each blow and makes recovery more difficult. At every stage, ego holds us back. Ego Is the Enemy draws on a vast array of stories and examples, from literature to philosophy to history. We meet fascinating figures such as George Marshall, Jackie Robinson, Katharine Graham, Bill Belichick, and Eleanor Roosevelt, who all reached the highest levels of power and success by conquering their own egos. Their strategies and tactics can be ours as well. In an era that glorifies social media, reality TV, and other forms of shameless self-promotion, the battle against ego must be fought on many fronts. Armed with the lessons in this book, as Holiday writes, you will be less invested in the story you tell about your own specialness, and as a result, you will be liberated to accomplish the world-changing work youve set out to achieve. From the Hardcover edition.
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ShaaM
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If you are struggling with failure, aspirations or success, you should read this book. If you are struggling with ego, you should read this book!

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BookDadGirlDad
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Another great volume from Ryan Holiday. I didn't think I had much of an ego until I read this book. Yeah, I have some work to do. It opened my eyes to the realization that even a little ego can be detrimental. This is practical Stoicism and will improve your life. Read it.

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BookDadGirlDad
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More Stoic application. Looking forward to this.

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Bobokyfk
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If your hesitant to read this book, don‘t.

But it definitely need to come at the right time .

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Bobokyfk
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This is fucking great. #selftdevelopment #growth

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kthlnmscrl
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This, by far is the book that extends deap-seated insights of how true nature of ego weakens one person. Personally, I find this book inspiring and definitely stimulating.

Wherever you are, whatever you plan to do, the only enemy you have to battle with is your EGO. Cliche as it is but ego can make or break you. We live in a palatial world, it can sometimes be overwhelming or degrading it all depends on how you maneuver every turn.

kthlnmscrl It's not until I've read this book that I've come to realize how high-handedly I've been managing myself. Constantly putting weights (that I myself have created) on my shoulders from wanting to do more, wanting to be great. The delusional image of myself bugs me every single night, hunting me down. But with the right fortitude, coherence, and strength well all can tame down this beast inside of us. 5y
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masyraaf
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It's why I will never let fear dictate my life

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masyraaf
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"Finding refuge in distraction". Relates alot to me especially during o Level year where my anxiety was so bad that I rather do anything else like watching movies and videos rather than facing it head on

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masyraaf
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Because they constantly observe and listen, the humble improve....No matter what you've done u to this point, you better still be a student.....It is not enough only to be a student at the beginning. It is a position that one has to assume for life.

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masyraaf
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Everytime you sit down to work, remind yourself: I am delaying gratification by doing this. I am passing the marshmallow test. I an earning what my ambition burns for. I AM MAKING AN INVESTMENT IN MYSELF INSTEAD OF IN MY EGO

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Is it ten thousand hours or twenty thousand hours to mastery? The answer is that it doesn't matter. There is no end zone.

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masyraaf
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Our ability to learn, to adapt, to be flexible, to build relationships, all of this is dulled by pride.

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Are there not glass so important that we'd put it with anything to achieve them?

masyraaf Our own path, whatever we aspire will in some ways be defined by the amount of nonsense we are willing to deal with 5y
masyraaf You'll want to get in other people's faces, people who don't deserve the respect, recognition, or rewards they are getting. 5y
masyraaf The up and coming must endure the abuses of the entrenched 5y
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We see it in na ability to meet nayone else on their terms, an unwillingness to take a step back in order to potentially take several steps forward.

masyraaf If you're going to be the big deal you think you are going to be, isn't this a rather trivial temporary imposition? 5y
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Mic.jr
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Very very interesting.

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czenema
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5 star, full of wisdoms, i like both the original English, and the Hungarian version.
This little anecdote about Degas, "you dont't write poems with ideas, but with words. "

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Thndrstd
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A useful inspirational book about how ego drives us in inappropriate and wrong-headed ways. The book is full of helpful examples from the worlds of politics, business, sports, and the arts. The writing is clear, direct, and concise. In our ego-driven culture, this book invites us to step back and examine what‘s truly important (the news is full of people not doing exactly that) and introducing readers to Stoic philosophy.

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Kieu
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Yup!!! A must read. We all have egos and being aware of them is key. One of the most common mistakes that most new entrepreneurs make is neglecting personal change and development. It takes a kind of person to thrive and make it in business. Increasing your subconsciousness is key.

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HittingOnGirls
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I started this book this morning, randomly. It mixes stoicism with history and psychology. I enjoy a good mashup.

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keithmalek
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And that's what's so insidious about talk. Anyone can talk about himself or herself. Even a child knows how to gossip and chatter. Most people are decent at hype and sales. So what is scarce and rare? Silence. The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence is the respite of the confident and strong.

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keithmalek
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Never give reasons for what you think or do until you must. Maybe, after a while, a better reason will pop into your head.

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keithmalek
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Your potential, the absolute best you're capable of--that's the metric to measure yourself against. Your standards are. Winning is not enough. People can get lucky and win. People can be assholes and win. Anyone can win. But not everyone is the best possible version of themselves.

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keithmalek
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What matters to an active man is to do the right thing; whether the right thing comes to pass should not bother him. --Goethe

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keithmalek
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"Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do. Sanity means tying it to your own actions." --Marcus Aurelius

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keithmalek
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The writer Cheryl Strayed once told a young reader, "You're becoming who you are going to be and so you might as well not be an asshole."

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keithmalek
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All of us waste precious precious life doing things we don't like, to prove ourselves to people we don't respect, and to get things we don't want.

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keithmalek
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The only relationship between work and chatter is that one kills the other. Let the others slap each other on the back in the lab or the gym. Plug that whole--that one, right in the middle of your face--that can drain you of your vital life force. Watch what happens. Watch how much better you get.

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Mcclujdd
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A ton of practical information in here that makes sense inherently. The problem I imagine, lies with the embodiment and application of refusing your ego in the never ending struggle towards success and true fulfillment.

All in all, I took a lot from this book and I'll definitely be reading it again, probably more than once. The analogy of sweeping sits well with me. You can't expect that sweeping the floor once will keep it clean forever.

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MrBook
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#BookNDessert! #Thanksgiving edition! Dessert has been served! Well, this is only half of it 😆. Apple pie, pumpkin pie, chocolate pudding pie, pecan pie, sugar cookies, homemade whipped cream, and my ice cream sandwich 😁! MMMMMM 😋!!! Well, I don't eat pie, lol, so I just ate most of the cookies and my ice cream 😉👍🏻. Happy reads & happy eats! 😎👌🏻

Faibka Yummy! I'm also reading a Ryan Holiday book 😊 The daily Stoic, it's cool. Enjoy! 8y
Lreads I don't know why but seeing your ice cream sandwich as your dessert amongst all the traditional desserts just made me so happy 8y
Branwen Everything looks so yummy! Hope you had a great day! 8y
MrBook @Faibka You have excellent taste 😎👌🏻🙌🏻! @thirstyreader 😂👏🏻🙌🏻! @Branwen Thank you, and you as well 😎👍🏻🙌🏻! 8y
LitsyGoesPostal 😎👍🏻 8y
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#BookNDinner! #Thanksgiving edition! 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!! Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, turnips, green beans, biscuits, gravy. MMMMMMMM 😋!!! Happy reads & happy eats 😎👌🏻!!!!

tpixie Yum!!!!! 🦃📚👏🏻🦃📚👏🏻🦃 8y
freyaheart No tater tots? 8y
LeahBergen I think that you must have made the cranberry jelly?? 😂 8y
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Dolly @freyaheart maybe that's what the turkey is stuffed with, tater tots 8y
TheLondonBookworm I feel like I'm missing out on so much good food over here :( 8y
Suzze Wondering how many dinners today had a quick "wait, let me grab a book for the picture" moments? 8y
MrBook @tpixie 😁👏🏻👍🏻!! @freyaheart Not today, but that's okay, I can wait, I'm patient 😉👍🏻! @LeahBergen 😂👏🏻🙌🏻!! @Dolly 😂👏🏻🙌🏻 That's be awesome!!! @TheLondonBookworm Awww. Listen, in all seriousness, you and your traveling partner of choice are invited to spend Thanksgiving with me and @BookBabe next year. Authentic American tradition. It's always the 4th Thursday in November. You can stay at our place if you want. Let us know 😊👍🏻! 8y
MrBook @Suzze 😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻🙌🏻!!! 8y
RealLifeReading Looks like a perfect Thanksgiving! 8y
TheLondonBookworm @MrBook @BookBabe Authentic American tradition sounds bloody marvellous to me ☺️☺️ I've seen so much of your cooking desperate to try some!!! Invitation accepted hopefully I'll be on my American bookish tour by then!! And if you his are ever in London you know you have a literary place to stay ☺️ 8y
LitsyGoesPostal 😎👍🏻 8y
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#BookNAppetizer! I wasn't allowed to read at the table 😔, but I snapped a picture anyway 😆! Shrimp cocktail with homemade sauce, crab cakes with homemade tartar sauce, cheese & crackers, olives & pickles, bruschetta. MMMmmm 😋! Happy reads & happy eats 😎👌🏻!

Yournewfriendsams Fancy 💁🏽‍♂️ 8y
MyNamesParadise Now you're posting pics of shrimp cocktail 😐 omg I want shrimp cocktail!! 😋😋 8y
mariejoechahine Looks tasty 😍 Bon appétit! 8y
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tricours I want that shrimp cocktail! 8y
Oftencantdecide No tater tots?😮 8y
MrBook @Yournewfriendsams My stepmom is very festive 😊👍🏻! @MyNamesParadise 😂👏🏻🙌🏻!!! @mariejoechahine It was, thank you 😁! @tricours We'll need to go out for some when @BookBabe & I meet up with you someday 😎👌🏻🙌🏻! @Oftencantdecide Nooo 😕, I wasn't Menu Director today *sighs*. 8y
LitsyGoesPostal 😎👍🏻 8y
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MrBook
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Everyone has posted pictures of their nightstands, so here's mine. I'm a heavy reader of heavy books 😎. It's how I roll...and sleep.

Gezemice Nice! So organized! 8y
Jlee745 What is the ghostly book? 8y
Angiecakes79 Oh my!!😳😁lol 📚 8y
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MrBook Thank you @Gezemice ! 😊 8y
MrBook @Jlee745 Audrey Niffenegger's latest book, a collection of stories. I got it for @BookBabe since she really enjoyed "The Time Traveler's Wife" and "A Fearful Symmetry". Her nightstand is very full as well, lol, so it rests on mine. 8y
MrBook @Angiecakes79 😁👍🏻 8y
Gleefulreader I feel vindicated in the state of my bedside table! Love this 👍🏻 8y
MrBook @Gleefulreader 😂😂😂👍🏻 8y
Lola @Amyegia has a story in 👏🏻👏🏻 8y
MrBook @Lola @Amyegia 😳😱😁😎👍🏻 8y
Reagan The Terror is so great. 8y
Louise I can relate to this! 👍 8y
ej0728 I love The Terror. Dan Simmons is the master of the slow creepy burn. 8y
MichelleRoss We have a lot of reads in common! I spotted "Ghostly" at the library the other day and almost got it but my arms were full with kids books lol! 8y
Jlee745 @MrBook Awe that was so nice of you... Everyone knows my love of books and only one of sons is the only person that has every gifted me with one. 8y
athorne My books span the top of my shelf, a folding dinner tray, and a box for all the hard backs. It wouldn't fit on my night stand. 8y
KimM I've been eyeing Mort(e). Have you read it? 8y
MrBook @Rjanke I may make it a future selection for one of my bookclubs 😊. Simmons is awesome 😁. 8y
MrBook @Louise 😁👍🏻 8y
MrBook @ej0728 Exactly! I rank him higher than King. Love them both though. 8y
MrBook @AustenNerd16 Thank you! 😁👍🏻 8y
MrBook @MichelleRoss ????? The only thing that puts a check on my impulses is when the logical part of my brain kicks in and says, "Stop! You can't slow time. Just deal with these!" ? 8y
MrBook @Jlee745 😊. Books are pretty much the only gifts I give 😂. If someone doesn't like books (which is most of my family), they get gift cards. Because, after all, only books and tools (have to fix things, lol) matter. 😎👍🏻 8y
MrBook @EMJenkinson 😂😂😂👍🏻! One of my previous residences was built in the 1790s, and I had that layout there. Wonder if the ghosts applauded me or were just in awe 😊. 8y
MrBook @KimM Not yet, but soon! It got bumped way up the list after I found out here on Litsy that it has a sequel now! 😁👍🏻 8y
ValerieAndBooks I should post a pic of my nightstand too! It's pretty sparse in comparison 😂 8y
MrBook As long as there's books upon it @ValerieAndBooks 😊😎👍🏻 8y
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